Inspirational article: People with perseverance will live happily.
Text: Yiyi
In that year's postgraduate entrance examination, I failed to enter the creative writing major of Chinese Department of Peking University by one point, and my high school and college classmate Chen Xiao failed to enter the law department of Peking University by one point in the same year. After the results of postgraduate entrance examination came out, it was followed by postgraduate entrance examination adjustment, and she was transferred to a university of political science and law in Shandong. On the day we got the admission notice, we had dinner together. The first thing she said in class was: "Dear, please accompany me to take the exam for another year." I stared at my eyes and said faintly, "It's been two years, but I still didn't get in, which means I missed it." I'm determined not to take the exam again. "Then I talked about how to face the reality and tried to persuade her not to take any more risks. After dinner, she told me calmly that she would go to that ordinary college, study hard there, and strive to be a doctor and get into a good school.
One day a year later, I was bored surfing the Internet, and suddenly I saw her admission notice for a master's degree and a doctor's degree in the law department of Peking University. My shock at that time was basically equivalent to hysteria. On the one hand, I am happy for her, but I am really happy because I know her difficulties; On the other hand, I am very dissatisfied with myself. I don't blame myself for not continuing, because the majors are different, the examination mode is different, and there is no comparison at all. Instead, I immediately thought of what I did in this year, what I gained when people studied hard and wrote hard at night, and whether I was planning. The answer I got was: most of the time, I was doing nothing.
I told her story to another friend, and the other friend said disdainfully, "Now she has succeeded and called herself a hero. If she fails again this time, it is estimated that everyone will laugh at her. " I confidently refute him-no matter whether she succeeds or fails, she is the most persevering person I have ever met, and because of her perseverance, I believe that even if she fails to get into a prestigious school in the postgraduate entrance examination, she will be admitted to a great university. Sometimes, you even sigh: How can there be such a girl with amazing perseverance?
Her background is not very good, or she has no talent. After two years of college entrance examination, I went to three majors in my university, Chinese language and literature. After studying hard for three years, I still can't get into the door and have no feeling about literature. Therefore, when I took the postgraduate entrance examination, I resolutely took a cross-disciplinary examination of law. Therefore, almost every day for more than 300 days, I was the first to go to the study room and the last to leave it. Because I had to recite a lot of legal provisions and take a water cup, I watched it in the corridor outside the classroom all morning or afternoon. In the first year of postgraduate entrance examination, I almost failed. Decisively choose to continue in the second year, or from morning till night, it is almost impossible to see the time when you don't go to the study room for a long time and pass the judicial examination in one fell swoop; I have read her books many times, almost all of them. I even suggested that she buy a new one. On the days of the exam, we both lived in the same room in the hotel. She goes to bed at one or two in the evening, gets up at four or five in the morning and continues to recite. Afraid of disturbing me, she went to the bathroom and sat silently on the washstand. I advised her to have a good rest. She said that she had enough energy to cope with the exam. I don't know how she prepared for the exam at her home in the countryside in senior three. Without the learning atmosphere and the pressure of staring at the last stop, I guess she can only work harder.
Maybe everyone will be called "exam madman" or Kao Ba, but not everyone will have her perseverance. Although her previous achievements were always unsatisfactory, her preparation process was really the best, the kind of struggle without regrets. It's not just exams. She has always belonged to the chubby world since she was a child, but when she went to college, she lost more than 20 kilograms a year. When she lost weight, I had dinner with her once. I emphasized it once because I never wanted to have dinner with her again. At dinner, I ordered according to the normal appetite. She only ordered a steamed stuffed bun and told me that she wouldn't be hungry at night. She calmly watched me eat all the delicious food in front of me.
My friend also said, "Not everything in the world can be accomplished through perseverance. Even if she graduated from Peking University, what can she do? " I admit that many things in the world can't be done by perseverance, but people with perseverance have amazing ability, and they will do well and live happily no matter what they want to do. It goes without saying that it is an ability to find something that you are willing to stick to with perseverance. What's more, the essence of perseverance is good self-management and control ability, self-confidence that life is under my control, and the only way for ordinary people to succeed and surpass.
On my 25th birthday, I set myself a key word "diligence", and the basis of diligence is actually perseverance. I even have the audacity to say that all people can achieve the success and happiness they want through unremitting efforts. Not long ago, I read an article in Weibo entitled "Can appearance be changed through fitness? It's a collection of fitness experiences published by many ordinary people on Zhihu, which makes me feel ashamed. You think that the seemingly innate capital of looks can be changed through hard work and perseverance. Is there really anything that can't be changed? Isn't there a better possibility for our present life?
I know a big V in Weibo who has sent at least one original Weibo every day for five years. Whether it is a meeting, a business trip, or facing the birth and death of his family, he has never stopped. Some people may find it easy, so if you keep trying for a year, you must have extraordinary perseverance. For many years, a well-known screenwriter watched a movie first thing every morning, at least five times a week. It's fun to watch movies during leisure, but this habit has become a habit for more than ten years. But behind the habit, there must be persistence. After all, eating a dish every day, no matter how delicious, will vomit.
Many times, I feel that persistence, diligence and persistence are all accompanied by a kind of paranoia and natural beauty. Perhaps they are also a manifestation of professionalism. Once a thing is professional, it is particularly attractive. I'm not crazy about Haruki Murakami's novels, but I love this old man to death. I write regularly and run regularly every day, until this kind of breath naturally reveals between his lines and has a clean aesthetic feeling. The reason why a person is different from a group of people probably comes from the persistent defense and maintenance of something in his heart.
Anyway, I firmly believe that if you have perseverance to do one thing, you will be happy. There is no doubt about it.
An inspirational article: Your attitude towards your parents determines what kind of life you live.
Author: Hoo Hoo Cat Mom
A while ago, I installed a video software on my mother's mobile phone to let her watch old dramas at any time.
Mom likes it very much, and turns out all the plum blossom patterns, dreams and annual rings before.
However, there are some inconveniences. She doesn't know how to search for plays or choose works. She has to ask me for help every time.
She often watches plays and asks questions, which inevitably makes me feel annoyed. Once I couldn't help talking to her in an impatient tone.
Since then, my mother hasn't asked me to buy her a mobile phone for a long time.
One day, my mother watched me finish my meal and tentatively said to me, "Daughter, aren't you busy?" Can you help me search the international nuclear accident level? I've been fiddling with it for a long time, but I can't find it ... "
Her voice trailed off to the last word. Obviously, she has no self-confidence and is afraid of making me unhappy.
I quickly put away my smiling face and helped her find the TV series.
My mother's behavior makes me very distressed. Since when did my uncompromising and powerful mother become so subservient to Nuo Nuo that she had to ask me a small favor carefully?
I suddenly realized that my parents were old.
As we grow up, we grow from immature babies to independent adults, and our parents are getting older.
Their energy is getting worse and worse, and they know less and less than us, so we have more and more time to make up our minds, and our vision and experience are compared. They have become old children who need to rely on us all the time.
We always thought that as long as we earn more money, we can let our parents spend their old age safely. In fact, what parents want is not too much material, but a sense of security.
There is no need to please us, be careful in front of us, and worry that our aging and stupidity will disgust us. Even if you have nothing, it is because your children are fearless.
Our best love for our parents is to protect their childhood "strength" and let them have confidence in us forever.
Our best attitude towards our parents is to always keep them in mind and care about their joys and sorrows, just like when we were children.
A person's attitude towards his parents sometimes changes his life track at a critical moment.
Last year, Big Brother started his own business and started a small company. Originally, the development was flat, because cooperation with a big company completely opened up the market.
Speaking of this cooperation, in fact, the negotiations did not go smoothly at first.
Eldest brother's company is a new company. Although the ability is good, but there is no outstanding achievement in the industry, and the popularity is not great.
That company is also worried that Big Brother's company is young and unreliable, and doesn't want to give this business to them.
Seeing that the cooperation can't be discussed properly, the atmosphere is also awkward, and the phone of big brother rings at the right time.
As soon as he saw that it was his mother on the phone, he immediately said to everyone, I'm really sorry, this call is very important. Please forgive me first.
Seeing that he is so serious, everyone is curious about what big shot made him not even talk about business.
Eldest brother quickly answered the phone before leaving the meeting room. Obviously, he didn't dare to neglect it at all. As soon as the phone was connected, he called his mother affectionately and then spoke to her very gently.
Everyone looks like a fool. It turned out that the important person in his mouth was his old mother.
Because of this move, the big company decided to cooperate with Big Brother.
Of course, that company is not impulsive. They think that people who value their families so much can't be wrong. The tone and way he spoke to his mother also reflected his stability and patience. It is naturally honest and reliable for such people to manage the company.
Later, the two companies cooperated smoothly. Big Brother's company has also established a good reputation in the industry through this cooperation, with a steady stream of business behind it and rolling financial resources.
I have to say that it is the respect and docile attitude towards my mother that brings opportunities to my eldest brother's company and makes him get better and better all the way.
What kind of people we are to our parents; What kind of people and things we can attract; What kind of people we get along with and what kind of things we encounter is what our life is like.
People who love their parents bring their own popularity. They often get the appreciation of the same sentient beings and righteous people, thus forming a good relationship.
On the contrary, a person who is not good to his parents may lose his blessings at any time.
Cousin went on a blind date.
According to the introducer, this girl is good, with one in a hundred looks and a simple temper. She is a university teacher and is especially suitable for her younger brother with good conditions.
But my cousin doesn't like him.
I thought the introducer exaggerated again, praising an ugly girl as a flower. I didn't expect my cousin to say that the girl is really beautiful and simple, so I can talk to him. Actually, he likes it.
It was an accident that my cousin lost her affection for that girl.
My cousin went to the toilet halfway, and when he came out of the toilet, he saw the girl losing her temper with a woman in old clothes.
When my cousin saw that two people looked alike, she guessed that the woman was the girl's mother.
In order not to embarrass them, he didn't go near them, but he could vaguely hear what the girl said.
My cousin knew what was going on without listening to two sentences. It turned out to be the girl's mother. Not at ease, she sneaked behind the two men to peek, trying to help her daughter check the door.
In fact, the girl's mother meant well, but the girl was very angry. She scolded her mother from head to toe, and there were words that were ashamed of her mother.
The girl's mother didn't dare to answer back a word and kept listening. She looks much older than her peers and obviously suffers a lot at ordinary times.
Later, when asked by the introducer, it turned out that the girl's father died young, and it was not easy for her to be a father and a mother alone.
Such a mother who lives alone with her daughter can be scolded by her daughter in public, and the situation at home can be imagined.
Loving parents is the foundation of all virtues. If a person is bad to his parents, then no matter how glamorous his appearance, brilliant his career and high social status, he is also a despicable person.
That's why my cousin turned down the girl. He said he could accept that the girl's family was poor, that she was a single-parent family, and even that she had a little temper, but he just couldn't accept that she was so bad to her mother.
According to the introducer, the girl likes her cousin very much. Originally, she was quite attractive to her cousin, but because of her attitude towards her mother, she lost her favorite person and missed a beautiful marriage.
Parents are the starting point of our life, and they give us life. Let us have the opportunity to travel in life.
Parents are also turning points in our lives, and our attitude towards them will lead us to different life trajectories and encounter different lives.
In fact, in a sense, parents are still the end of our lives. They can prove who we will be, whether we fail or succeed.
That day, several friends were discussing a question, what is success?
Everyone has their own opinions. Some people say that they want to marry Bai with the help of diaosi. Some people say that scum has become a top 500 executive. Some people say that they won the Nobel Prize in one fell swoop. Some people say that they will earn hundreds of millions. Anyway, it is nothing more than fame and power.
When it was Dalin's turn, he didn't tell the answer directly, but told us his story.
He was originally a rural child, and he had the opportunity to stay and work in a big city because he was admitted to a school in a big city.
Children who have come out of poverty have suffered a lot, and naturally they are more eager for success.
He was willing to endure hardships, worked hard and had strong ability, and soon became famous. He also married a rich man as his wife.
Parents are also very happy for him and feel that their son is really a glorious ancestor.
It's a pity that my father-in-law's family doesn't attach importance to his poor parents.
Daughter-in-law is also very disgusted. Parents from rural areas don't go home and go directly to hotels.
When you have grandchildren, don't let your grandparents see them, saying that country people are unsanitary and don't bring bacteria to your children.
It's hard to be suspected by my in-laws and daughter-in-law, and Dalin's parents are even sadder because they can't even see their grandchildren. The villagers in their hometown always gossip about them, which makes them very angry.
We always want to pursue success, but when our family is rich and famous overseas, we find our father sighing and our mother crying. What's the point of such success?
Don't let your growth take your parents' bodies as stepping stones, and don't let your medals take your parents' blood and tears as raw materials.
Success is not outside, it is always at home. It's not the flowers and applause you won from the outside world, but that you always have the ability to protect the people you love from injustice.
A person's attitude towards his closest relatives can be seen from his attitude towards his family. Those who scold their loved ones must be heartless, and those who are polite to their loved ones must be filial. Children don't think their mothers are ugly, and dogs don't think their families are poor. The life our parents gave us is more precious than anything we have in this world. The fame of power, money and status is just fleeting clouds, only the love of parents has been on our shoulders.
Inspirational filial piety: maternal love is like water, and children should think of the source when drinking water.
A successful son
In two old houses in Zhuyexiang, far away, there lived a family named Hao, whose male owner was Hao. After the factory closed down three years ago, he left his job and made a living by subsistence allowances and odd jobs for others. He and his wife Deng Xiusheng have a son named Ning Hao. Ning Hao is very clever. Three years ago, he was admitted to a municipal key high school with excellent results. The teacher said that with his grades, he would definitely be admitted to a good university. With such a disappointing son, Lao Hao and his wife are satisfied no matter how hard they suffer.
At noon one day before the college entrance examination, Deng Xiu went to school to deliver meals to his son as usual. At that time, there was a scorching sun overhead, and there were almost no pedestrians in the street at noon, except for students who hurried by in twos and threes. Deng Xiugang walked to the school gate and suddenly felt weak and fainted on the ground. ...
When Ning Hao got the news, Deng Xiu had been sent to the school doctor's office. She comes to deliver meals to her son twice a day, so the school doorman and many teachers know her. Ning Hao hurried to the clinic. Deng Xiugang recovered from the rescue. Ning Hao stepped forward nervously and asked, "Mom, what's wrong with you?"
"Mom is fine, maybe it's heatstroke." Deng Xiu picked up a lunch box next to him and immediately handed it to Ning Hao, saying, "Eat quickly-this is your favorite roast chicken cooked by mom."
When the doctor heard that there was roast chicken in this lunch box, he said to Deng Xiu, "I tell you, you are not suffering from heatstroke, but from hypoglycemia caused by severe malnutrition. Do you think you didn't eat at noon in the morning? "
Deng Xiu said shyly, "I was afraid of delaying the children's dinner, so I sent it first ..."
The doctor said seriously, "you can't do this anymore." You have to increase nutrition and pay attention to your health. I am reluctant to eat again, I am afraid that I have no strength to cook for my son. "
Then the doctor turned to Ning Hao and said, "Alas, poor man, bear the wind!"! When your mother fainted just now, she was still clutching the lunch box in her hand, and her forehead and knees were injured, but the lunch box was intact and all for you! "
When Ning Hao sent his mother home, he found that there was only a plate of pickles on his parents' table, while his father was eating with pickles. With tears in his eyes, Ning Hao secretly made up his mind that he must live up to his parents' expectations and be admitted to a famous university!
Sure enough, as soon as the results of the college entrance examination were announced, Ning Hao was admitted to a famous university in Beijing with excellent results. Neighbors, relatives and friends came to congratulate him. Of course, Mr. and Mrs. Hao were very happy, but when no outsiders were present, the couple frowned. What are they worried about? Tuition, of course.
The admission notice sent to Ning Hao clearly states that the tuition fee is 8,000 yuan per year, as well as accommodation and living expenses. But at present, they don't even have 1 1,000 yuan, because Ning Hao was always sick when he was a child, either coughing or having a fever. I don't know how much it cost, and all the meager financial resources have been hollowed out. The couple originally wanted to borrow money from relatives and friends and ran several times. When I heard that I borrowed money, I shirked it, saying that I didn't have enough money to run around. Fortunately, they were introduced to a loan shark at this moment, and they borrowed a loan shark of 4,000 yuan, so that the tuition fees in Ning Hao were collected.
Hao and Deng Xiu were very happy when they saw their son off. Anyway, the most difficult pass has finally passed, but what they didn't expect was that it turned out to be a farewell to their son. ...
Painful parents
After Ning Hao left, Hao and Deng Xiu cheered up and began to make money to pay off their debts. Hao left home to work as a carpenter in a decoration company in the provincial capital, and Deng Xiu worked as a nanny for an 80-year-old man. A family of three was divided into three places. Hao went home during the Spring Festival, but didn't come back. He said that he would work and study, and also reduce the burden on his family. The couple are very happy to see their son grow up and understand.
In a blink of an eye, four years later, Ning Hao graduated from University and successfully found a job in Beijing. One year's salary is worth ten years' salary of Hao and Deng Xiugan. During the four years in college, Ning Hao never went home once. In order to save money, he can also work to earn money. He earned all his living expenses by working on his own. For several years, Hao and Deng Xiu worked day and night and finally paid off all the debts they owed. They also paid Ning Hao's tuition for four years. The difficulty here is not clear in a few words.
On this day, Ning Hao called and asked if the debt at home had been paid. Hao is very excited His son is very concerned about his family. He really grew up! He immediately said, "it's over, it's over, it's already over!" " Your mother and I don't expect much from you now. Just take care of yourself. "
"Oh-"Ning Hao was silent over there, trying to say something, but he didn't speak hesitantly. Hao Chengjian felt it and asked him what he wanted. Ning Hao hesitated for a moment, but finally said it. It turns out that he has a girlfriend in Beijing, and they want to buy a house in Beijing. Houses in Beijing are very expensive, so they have to buy them with a mortgage. Now they have to pay a down payment of 300 thousand, and their girlfriend's family has paid 200 thousand.
On hearing the news, Hao's whole body blood rushed to his forehead, and he almost fainted. He gritted his teeth and barely grasped to prevent himself from falling. Ning Hao doesn't know why my father stays at home now and doesn't go out to work. That's because once he was hit by a chainsaw at work and lost an arm. The contractor left some money and ran away, and now the money has long been used up. Hao's injury has not healed yet. He earns a living by working as a nanny for Deng Xiu. On second thought, he wanted to ask his son for some money, but he didn't say it in the end. I didn't expect his son to ask him for money in turn, which was actually 65438+ 10,000!
Ning Hao may have felt his father's difficulties on the phone. He immediately said, "Actually, you don't have to keep the change. I just need to do more * * *, but my girlfriend depends on your mind. Even if you pay 20 thousand yuan, our family can't be looked down upon, can it? Even if I borrow yours, I will pay you back as soon as I have money. "
Hao thought for a moment, calmed down and said, "Well, I'll discuss it with your mother and remit the money to you in a few days."
When Deng Xiu came back from work in the evening, Hao told her about it. She is stupid, too. It was a long time before I came to my senses and murmured, "Ah, my son is in trouble again. I said that my heart is always beating these days, but where did the money come from? "
Maybe God helped them. At this time, there was good news that residential buildings were going to be developed where they lived. Because I was eager to get money to buy a house for my son, I sold the house to the developer at a very low price first. I sent it to Ning Hao immediately before I got the money, and it was not 20 thousand, but 50 thousand. This is all the money for selling the house ...
Forever hope
Without a place to live, Hao and Deng Xiu set up a shack in a suburban "no matter what" place. Not far from the shack is a garbage disposal site. Hao Jian's achievements in collecting and selling junk can be regarded as "employment nearby".
One night, Hao dreamed that his son was sitting on his shoulder when he was a child. Suddenly, he heard someone crying. Opening her eyes, Deng Xiu woke up crying in her dream. She cried and said, "I miss my son so much. I haven't seen him for more than four years and I don't know what he looks like. "
"Of course, the longer the more handsome!" Hao comforted Deng Xiu and said, "This boy should come back. It's no use just calling! "
Deng Xiu said: "It's really not easy for our son to live outside alone. I heard that he has to pay back more than 5 thousand mortgage every month. Our usury is not that expensive! "
Hao suddenly stopped talking. Deng Xiu gave him a strange look, only to see Hao's eyes shine. The other arm patted his thigh hard and said, "Our son can't come back. Let's go and see him. Anyway, we have no house and nothing serious. What do you say? "
Deng Xiu was also moved by this idea: "Yes, let's go and see our son! Seeing my son again will not delay his business, but it will cost a lot of money to travel. "
"No money!" Cheng said, "Let's go! When picking up junk, we went to our son's place without spending money. On the contrary, we have work to do, and our son can see it ... haha, we have never left home in our lives. This is a tour! "
So, Hao and Deng Xiu locked their shacks and started a journey to visit their son on foot. They walked all the way to Beijing for a whole month and were very excited to see their son. They quickly found a telephone booth to call their son.
The phone was connected soon, and Ning Hao asked, "Who is it?"
Hao Chengjian suppressed his excitement and said, "Ning Er, it's my father. My parents came to Beijing to see you! "
"What?" Ning Hao was taken aback. "Why are you here?"
"Ning Er, we ... we all miss you, we want to see you ..." Deng Xiu grabbed the phone and said, before saying two words, she burst into tears, and Hao's tears also "brushed" underground.
Ning Hao said, "Oh, Mom and Dad, you've made a mess! I am at the airport now, ready to go abroad. This is a rare opportunity for further study! Stop it. You don't understand. The plane will take off in half an hour. Hurry home. I'll see you when I come back from abroad in a year! "
As if the cold weather was poured with a pot of cold water from head to toe, Hao and Deng Xiu suddenly became silly. Deng Xiu relented and jumped on Hao. Hao held his wife in one hand and a microphone in the other, and said eagerly, "Your mother misses you crazy. I haven't seen you for over four years. How far is the airport from here? We'll take the bus right away! "
"I can't catch up!" Ning Hao said, "Really, there are many traffic jams in Beijing ... Dad, you'd better go home. When I come back from abroad, I'll take you there so that you can see me every day. Dad, I'm boarding the plane. I hung up ... "
Hao held the phone tightly and wanted to say something to his son, but his son hung up and didn't see him. The couple had to go home disappointed. Of course, they walked back. When they came, they thought they could see their son. No matter how hard it is, coming back is different. All the ups and downs along the way are knives that stab them in the heart! Just a few days after returning to the shack where they lived, Deng Xiu couldn't stand it. One night, she shouted, "son, let mom see you!" " "After shouting, she passed out and never woke up. ...
One day a month later, the local police received a report that someone had found a body in a shack. After receiving the police, the police rushed to the scene and found that the body was highly decomposed. After verification, this man's name is Hao, and he died of illness. At the same time, the police investigated that he had an only son. After a week of tossing and turning, he finally got in touch with Ning Hao who was abroad. Ning Hao is still not back. He entrusted relatives to bury his father and mother together.
Ning Hao didn't come back from Tomb-Sweeping Day until two years later. He also drove a private car with his wife and son, saying that he was coming back to show his parents their family, but everything was like a trip. ...