If you sit more beautifully, your life will be better.
The correct sitting posture should be calm and natural, dignified and generous. I feel comfortable, others look comfortable.
According to the usual habit, you should put your knees together, lean forward slightly and sit from the outside of the chair. If someone is around, sit with your back to the chair so as not to give others an ass. Women should naturally put their hands behind their backs and smooth their skirts from top to bottom before sitting in a formal dress. When you sit down, you should move gently and slowly to appear calm and polite. If you suddenly sit down and make a noise, your image will be immediately degraded by one level. After sitting down, don't fill the chair, just sit in the first half or two-thirds of the chair, and don't lean back. When you stand up, you should also stand up from the outside of the chair. Immediately after standing, put the chair back in its original position and put it away as it is.
Beautiful sitting posture is based on propriety and appropriateness, which conforms to identity and gender. When sitting, your hands can be crossed, lightly placed on the armrest or naturally placed on your thighs. It is not appropriate to put your hands between your legs, under the table or behind your back. When sitting, men's legs can be slightly apart, but women should not sit with their legs apart. Women can also tilt their knees together to the left or right, so that the body presents a beautiful "S" shape and shows gentlemanly demeanor.
When sitting on the sofa, you should prevent your body from sinking in. If you sit on a low sofa, put your back on the back of the sofa. After sitting down, keep your knees above your waist. You should tilt your knees together to your speaker, and it is best to make your thighs and upper body at right angles.
When sitting in a lower chair, you can put your knees together, lean very close and point your knees at the person you are talking to. If you sit in a high chair, your legs won't look good. A man can cross his legs, but he can't tilt his toes to others. When women cross their legs, they should put their legs together and point their toes down.
When wearing jeans, sportswear and casual clothes, you can sit naturally and casually, but you can't stagger, and you should always be elegant. When wearing a suit, suit, etc. Sit in a dignified manner so as not to damage your image and wrinkle your clothes. Women should pay special attention to wearing short skirts, don't show the roots of thighs, don't wear underwear, and don't tilt the skirts when wearing long skirts. Such a small gesture will give people a hint of misconduct.
Pay attention to your sitting posture, sit more beautifully, maybe life will be better!
Sitting like a winner is one step closer to success.
If you want to be a successful person, you should act like a successful person, and so should your posture.
Sit up straight, sit up straight, sit down. Try to sit up straight, naturally keep your chest and back straight, your shoulders straight, your legs together, naturally bend, and your feet are parallel or slightly apart. After sitting down, be sure to sit still and don't interfere with others. /kloc-there should be no obvious change in sitting posture within 0/0 minutes. When there are many people, try not to occupy other people's space and try to reduce the action. It is impolite to move chairs and leave the table frequently, and should be avoided.
Pay attention to the occasion. In informal occasions such as friends' parties, you can sit casually. On the basis of sitting correctly, it is good to sit comfortably. When having a party or dinner with others, you should be stable after sitting down, don't cross your legs, and your upper body can sit lightly on the back of the chair. Those who want to pose had better give up this opportunity. It's not nice to hold your cheeks with your hands or lean your arms on the table. When eating, don't stick your belly on the table, leave a punch.
Xiaowen went to a well-known advertising company to apply for advertising design, and sat opposite the examiner according to the requirements of the recruiter. Xiao Wen was a little nervous because he was eager to enter this big company and came in a hurry. After sitting down, I couldn't help holding my hands together, one hand kept stroking the other, and my legs were a little stiff. Xiao Wen felt tired because he kept his body straight for too long, so he gently moved his body forward. Unexpectedly, his action accidentally drove the chair, and the chair moved forward with it, making a harsh sound. Xiao Wen secretly complained in his heart. When he answered the question, he was obviously distracted by his gaffes, and his speech was not very smooth. When the examiner asked about his relevant experience, Xiaowen looked up and thought about it, unconsciously touching his head with one hand. This action made the examiner smile and comforted him by saying, "Don't be nervous and think slowly." As a result, Xiaowen felt that his psychology was seen through and he was more nervous. Because Xiao Wen was worried, he was not hired by the advertising company.
When attending the interview, sit in the seat designated by the recruiter. Sit upright and natural. In formal occasions such as meetings, discussions and negotiations, the sitting posture should be serious and meticulous. You can sit upright in the middle of the chair with your upper body, your hands on the armrest of the table or chair, and your legs can be staggered back and forth. Don't have a big body swing.
When talking with the other person, if the other person has a high status, we should lean forward slightly to show concentration and respect. If the other person's status is lower than your own, don't lean back to show others. When talking to a lot of people, when you talk to a person, you must turn your body to him.
Xiaoya took part in an "8-minute date" held in a bar and wanted to take this opportunity to meet some friends of the opposite sex.
A tall and handsome man sat in front of Xiaoya. After introducing each other, they had a simple conversation. This man is very talkative. Eight minutes, he talked for six minutes alone. He said that he is engaged in real estate development and has achieved a lot. His words are full of confidence and the joy of success. But Xiaoya didn't like him and didn't even believe what he said. Because this man is sitting in a reclining position, it shows his arrogance and quick success. Although he is handsome in appearance, he looks more like a liar than a successful man. Therefore, Xiaoya decided not to have in-depth contact with this person. Another man, who is slightly inferior in appearance, always shows polite and steady appearance as soon as he sits down, leans forward slightly, has a cheerful expression, and communicates with Xiaoya patiently and intently. Although there are not many words, it gives people a mature and reliable impression. After the party, Xiaoya and the man exchanged phone numbers and started further communication.
It's not enough to sit up straight. Your expression should be natural and decent, and you should look generous and full of energy. Look natural. Don't look around or look down at the ground, toe of shoes, and don't stare at other places, so as not to give people the impression of rudeness or formality. Being expressionless and pretending to exaggerate will lower the sitting posture.
Beautiful sitting posture and natural and comfortable expression can truly reflect a person's education and identity.