To tell the truth, at first I really felt so tired that I couldn't cope at all. I was so busy every day that I didn't fall asleep until late at night. I always feel why I want to get married, why I want to have children, and why I want to live such a life. Can't you live alone? Isn't it good to be alone? All kinds of entanglements, all kinds of depression, all kinds of small sadness, let me wander on the verge of collapse during that time.
However, when I think about it later, I always complain that I can't solve the problem at all. I have to solve the problems one by one, so that I can have a good life, so I began to look for ways. First of all, the first level of work, I choose the type of work that can be done at home without going back to the office. After consulting with my boss, he also agreed to my approach, but the salary should be slightly discounted. In order not to lose my job immediately, it was decided.
Try to go back and forth between home and the company, but children can't take care of the company, which will not only affect your personal work, but also affect the work of others. If you work at home, it will be a little better to take care of your children with you. The work has been finalized and the food can be delivered to your door. Then I go out to buy food and save an hour or two, so that my spare time can be used to complete all other housework.
Secondly, the baby is a living existence and a novice in taking care of the baby. I began to ponder about parenting knowledge, starting with mastering all the habits of baby's life and rest, and adjusting to keep up with my rhythm. He slept a little more when he was young, and I put him to sleep before I started to work or do housework. Is the need for seamless convergence, to adjust everything to every gap, even if it does not stop, but also to do things quickly.
Thirdly, the baby's schedule has been adjusted, so it will be very easy. When you are busy with work and housework, except when he is asleep, and occasionally when he is awake and playing alone, you ask him to give him some toys in a safe area as far as possible, so that you can be busy with unfinished things at the same time.
Finally, children usually go to bed earlier than adults at night. After putting him to sleep, you can finish all the unfinished work in one day. Because of some housework at night, I will also let my husband share it, which is very important! Because you can't really do it all by yourself, give him some, and you can concentrate on your work better at night.