But when they got married, the two families had an argument over the house.
The man's parents spent 1 10,000 to buy a wedding room. After finishing the renovation, my mother added her and her daughter's names to the house.
At first, the man's family refused. Later, my mother quickly asked her daughter to take wedding photos with other men.
In the end, the man was soft-hearted and still wanted to keep his fiancee because of the house and marriage mediation.
The adjustment of this issue focuses on houses, feelings and marriage.
At the beginning of the program, my mother-in-law said, "If my name and my daughter's name are not added to the property certificate, I will definitely not marry my daughter.
If they have such an attitude, my daughter will definitely suffer indignities when she gets married. "
The man's father said, "Our son has been planning to get married for several years. He has never held hands with other girls.
I didn't take photos with other girls either. Your daughter said she wanted to get married, but she turned to take wedding photos with others.
It is unrealistic for you to empathize with others, so in today's cross-flow of logistics and material desires.
You don't care about the true meaning of feelings. People say that feelings are very important in this world. You can't see the feeling. You only see money and houses! "
Mother-in-law said: "Do you think your family is very rich, buy a house and decorate it?
You didn't even talk about what our family did for you and bought those appliances and furniture.
It's not that my daughter can't get married What did your son say to me at my house?
When he fell in love with my daughter, he said that he would listen to my daughter, and he didn't care about any arrangement of his parents. As long as his daughter is happy, he will discuss the real estate license with his parents.
His parents thought my daughter was for the house, so I proved to him that her daughter could not marry except your son. "
The man's father said, "I have a house with a price of 1.2 million. A few days ago, he was fine with her, so she went to take wedding photos with others.
Then when she changed, shouldn't my 600 thousand be destroyed in the place where I went to find someone? She actually took it from me. "
The man's mother said to her son, "There are so many good girls in the world, how can you fall in love with her?" As long as you have a good relationship with her, my house is for you to get married and live for life, only for you. Can I take it with me? "
My mother said, "Then your family is so sincere. Why is it so embarrassing to add a name to the real estate license?"
The man said, "Aunt, I am serious about Xiao Min. You've seen it all these years.
I am not a social loafer. I have been in love before.
I stayed downstairs for three days after you kicked me out of your house that day. I didn't wait for her to come out ... "
I heard that my son was wronged so much that his parents left with his son and stopped getting married.
At this time, the woman suddenly ignored her mother's opposition and ran to kneel in front of her future parents-in-law and said, "Uncle and aunt, please."
The man's father let go. He said, "Since we bought the house, we really bought it for our son and daughter-in-law.
Add your name, Xiao Min's name and my son's name, and add these three names! "
The man's father finally decided to add his daughter-in-law's name to the real estate license, which means that the daughter-in-law will have the property right of13, and the last family will be reconciled.
comment
First of all, my mother's approach is a bit selfish. She always tells her daughter who knows if her son-in-law will change her mind in the future. But did she ask my daughter if she would change her mind? This is unfair.
For Xiao Min, if you really love this boy, you really don't care so much, because you are married to a person, not a house.
You married an empty house, and there is no love to fill this empty space.
Sometimes a mother will speak from her daughter's standpoint, but an overly selfish view is not necessarily beneficial to her daughter.
I hope young people can stand up and take responsibility for themselves. Instead of spending all their parents' savings, it is better to work harder to buy a house by their own efforts, and the husband and wife will work together to fight for this family.