Woman's "boyfriend":
I have seen such a metaphor: some people compare a woman's circle of heterosexual friends to the five rings in Beijing. Some of them are used to pour out their hearts, some are "firefighters", some are office workers, and some are super consultants in the workplace.
Trash can: When talking with "friends", women can open their hearts without worrying about privacy being leaked, let tears flow, and pour out their emotional frustration and inner anguish like beans in a bamboo tube. Sometimes, you can throw yourself on the shoulders of "buddies" and find some comfort for yourself. Even if you look flustered, you are not afraid of "buddy" jokes.
Handyman: rented house, toilet out of service, computer strike at home, short circuit in power socket, transporting bulk goods. I bought a train ticket home during the Spring Festival, and my heel broke on the way. At this time, I can move my "buddy" out to save the scene, as strong as Popeye and as wise as the Monkey King.
Career counselor: the workplace is like rivers and lakes. If you break in, it is inevitable that someone will not be stabbed. In the workplace, when they are reprimanded by their superiors, put down by their colleagues, they make mistakes in their work, encounter promotion bottlenecks, and encounter abnormal customers. They suffer from injustice and unfairness, and women easily lose their rationality and fall into the trap set by others. And "buddies" can help you analyze the situation, find out the problems, come up with ways to deal with them, and improve women's ability to deal with problems.
Boyfriends enrich social networks: In the fast-paced and high-pressure era, both unmarried women and married women need the help of "buddies" to give them the strength and upward confidence. Even eating and drinking with "buddies" is a way to relieve stress. With a few more "buddies", you will find that your social network is stronger.
"Woman Man" in men's eyes;
In men's world, "female buddies" are often more capable and outspoken than girlfriends and much simpler than lovers' relationships. Men don't have to scratch their heads for trifles, and they don't have to rack their brains all day to make themselves happy. On the contrary, "female man" can help men share their worries, act as a good helper in life, a shield for eating, a healthy supervisor and so on. In a popular saying, you don't have to worry if you have your sister to protect you!
Psychological counselor: Due to physiological differences, when men encounter emotional confusion, they often close their hearts and don't like to talk to the outside world on their own initiative. Being a "girlfriend" can help them find the reason, because women know women's hearts best. No matter how they pursue girls and please them, "girlfriends" can give the best coup. Even if he is lovelorn, his "girlfriend" can help him establish his faith with her gentleness and wisdom. She has the heroic spirit of "it's no big deal, start over".
Dinner shield: Dinner is a man's second social place, whether it's a workplace dinner or a friend's dinner. It is common for some men to indulge in drinking, talking about business and asking about relationships, which is difficult to control. In this respect, "female buddies" can make use of their gender advantages to help them turn embarrassment into invisibility, turn natural hazards into smooth roads, not only win face, but also solve problems smoothly, and are also very cute, which makes men return to the water margin world in Hot Blood Jianghu.
Health supervisor: Most men don't pay attention to their health, especially in today's "men are difficult", and men are under strong pressure like snails. Pay attention to their diet and sleep, remind them to combine work and rest, take time to go to the gym and go to the hospital for physical examination on time. This is the best gift for them.
"Female Buddies" decorate social networks: Most of them are informal and generous. They are either amazing drinkers and well-connected or smart and capable. They can always bring timely psychological counseling and intimate comfort to men, relieve the pressure of work and life, and establish firm courage and belief.
The story of me and my "buddy":
Old chap, today's lover
Female: Wen Ya, female, 29 years old, in sales.
At the beginning of this year, Wen Ya and Jia Ming walked on the red carpet. She and Jia Ming are high school classmates and live very close. At that time, they were all class committees and got along very well. They are good friends who talk about everything. Later, they were admitted to the same university. Although I am in the same class in different departments, I still maintain my buddy relationship. Jia Ming took good care of her, helped her fetch water, delivered snacks and even helped her with her homework. Roommates thought he was Wen Ya's boyfriend, but Wen Ya explained mercilessly: "We are iron buddies!" Once, Wen Ya accidentally broke his right leg while playing volleyball in physical education class. She was lying there in plaster, unable to move. Tomorrow, Jia will deliver rice and bone soup three times a day until she recovers. Then, Jia Ming asked her classmates to send her a love letter and formally confessed to her, "Be my girlfriend!" Wen Ya was both surprised and confused. She sent a text message saying, "I will never forget your kindness to me until I die, but if you want me to be your girlfriend, I will lose a buddy!" " "Jia Ming didn't reply, both of them kept the pace of the past.
After graduating from college, many sisters went to work in other cities with their boyfriends. Wen Ya's parents also urged her to find a boyfriend as soon as possible, otherwise they would take her on a blind date. For a time, Wen Ya lost more than three catties. Think about it, she thinks Jiaming suits her best. When she talked to him in some way, Jia Ming found her. "If you don't promise my courtship, I will jump into the sea!" Wen Ya choked: "I can't miss it this time!" Say, two people embrace together. After marriage, they live a happy life and have no aesthetic fatigue as others say. Wen Ya often joked: "Buddies have become lovers. It's a match made in heaven! I have thoroughly understood his shortcomings and hobbies, and it is not so easy for him to get rid of me! "
Advice when most needed is least heeded: because of long-term contact with friends, it is easy to build deep feelings, which is the foundation of the marriage building.