The first thing I do in my spare time is to pay New Year greetings to my parents, care about their healthy diet and daily life, talk about my recent situation and some boring trifles, and listen to my mother's chanting.
I thank them and know that they can let me go freely. The existence of geographical distance makes every call very pleasant, and we don't care about each other. Even the "useless" things will be listened to carefully, because they are rare, so they are precious.
Then I use the last half-day holiday balance to deal with some things I want to do.
As the first task to be completed, I want to shine. This time I want to share the stories of two girls.
1, earning over 10,000 yuan a month, studying during the holiday.
Joining the company with Miss R can be said to be my first real job after graduating from college. In a securities investment consulting company, the euphemistic position is "investment consultant", which is actually sales.
Miss R was not outstanding at first. She graduated from junior college and has been working for 4 or 5 years. She was still stuttering when she introduced herself. She is not very good-looking, even ordinary. She didn't want to make friends with her, but she felt silly at first sight.
Later, this group of newcomers signed up for the securities qualification examination together and took two courses, one is the basic knowledge of finance and the other is the securities laws and regulations. Miss R is in line with my expectations. One of them passed, but the other one is far from it.
For me, who is far beyond the qualified score line, I naturally have a sense of superiority. I always feel that Miss R is too slow. In addition, Miss R always tells others what to do and how to do it with her own experience. She is often rejected by others.
Time hit me in the face and gave Miss R the best reward.
1 1 months later, the company was audited by China Securities Regulatory Commission, and the business work in operation could not be carried out normally. People who want to get a commission can't see hope and leave one after another. Finally, there were more than 40 people in our group, and there were less than 10 people left. To put it simply, the company has recruited a group of new people. As a performer with the highest score, he should be trained for the new securities qualification examination.
The results are not bad, 1/3 people have passed two courses at one time, and Miss R has also passed another course. Of course, I don't have any benefits, and my working hours are purely voluntary labor.
12 months, the situation has not improved, and the business license has not been approved. Then the company thought of another way, hung up a cooperation license and started a new business. Then, it is very exclusive. Later, nine-to-nine overtime and weekends completely dragged down my bottom line, and I left my job smoothly in January.
Later, Miss R became the only one who joined the job and stayed here. Now, her after-tax income can easily exceed 10,000 yuan, because she often goes to Suzhou, and Miss R is the best, most careless and sincere person to you, so she has more contacts.
She still looks stupid and works slowly, but that doesn't prevent her from making money. I put her philosophy of life down to two points: first, persistence; The second is silly persistence.
But it is this stupid but persistent force that has defeated countless people who think they are smart.
Girl R reported for the adult self-study exam and took several exams in succession, including studying today and defending in June next year, studying how to take the postgraduate entrance examination and taking the financial analyst exam. I really admire and applaud.
I seldom go to the sun, and I don't show it. Some just work silently by my side. The difference is that you have been thinking, she has been doing, you have been measuring what is best for you, and she has been silently insisting. When you look back, you will be surprised at how excellent she is.
2. Strive for graduation thesis and CET-6.
A very good, very good friend, well, cherishes our friendship very much. I think we are friends for life. After we graduated from college together, she went to Hangzhou Normal University for graduate study.
Miss Y always says verbally: I like a quiet little life, just ordinary, but I can clearly see that she works harder than anyone else.
Last Saturday, in the CET-6, we reached an agreement a month ago. She asked me how to study and asked me to supervise her. I said, "well, then you can punch in here as I say." Then we hit each other every day for a month.
During this month, Miss Y was lazy every day. In addition to attending classes every day, she has to prepare a thesis and occasionally go out to work as a part-time teacher to meet her living expenses. You don't think that graduate thesis is so easy to write, you just copy and paste it.
You need to consult a lot of literature, but also pay attention to whether your research direction is meaningful, whether it meets the requirements of the tutor, how to do research and data in the later stage, whether the predecessors have studied it and so on.
So every time I punch in with Teacher Y, she says to sleep after listening, and then read a document to prepare for the final exam. My supervision has turned into urging her to sleep every time, and don't stay up late.
Then the title of Miss Y's thesis was changed to 998 1 and passed smoothly. I believe CET-6 is not bad.
It turns out that girls who really study hard don't need to cook chicken soup or show their efforts in a circle of friends; Silently, I finished all the things I should do.
3. Use your strength in an invisible place.
If we say that before graduation, we all study the same courses, read almost the same books and take the same exams; Then after graduation, it is the starting point of the real competition.
One and a half years is not obvious, three or five years is almost the same, and ten or twenty years later is a completely different life. Those girls who don't need to brush their sense of existence to prove their existence, I think more people will know their existence many years later.
Don't let this network and virtual world take away your real life, recognize what belongs to you, admit your shortcomings and defects, change it, and accept it if you can't change it. True happiness comes from this, not the little love between friends.
Returning to every little thing in real life and doing it well can cure all the emptiness and anxiety brushed out by the network.