Home is a shelter from the wind. When you are wronged outside, home can warm you, support you and get you out of the emotional trough. Home is the source of happiness. When your career is successful, your family's approval will make you more energetic. Home is a wake-up call for introspection. When you are proud, your family will give you sincere advice, so that you can wake up in time and not go astray. Therefore, family happiness is the foundation of personal career and the pillar of national stability.
However, when we are faced with heavy work, it is often the family that is most easily overlooked; In the face of complex contradictions, the object of venting is often family members. Some people, because they didn't handle family relations well, made a day of sighs and troubles, which eventually affected their work, were criticized by leaders and accused by colleagues, and their mood was even lower.
How to settle down depends on two words. One is "respect" and the other is "responsibility".
Respect your family and don't indulge your temper in front of your family. Recently, there was a very hot post in the circle of friends, "Please respect your family like a leader". Introspection, some people can be modest at work and always pay attention to their emotions, but when they get home, their temper will naturally get bigger. If the wife and children are slightly wrong, they will swear; When parents say a few words and feel verbose, they refute "mind your own business" Let the children go home trembling, and the parents speak carefully. There are still some people who think they are giving orders outside and treat their families as subordinates when they return home. Slightly unsatisfactory, they are full of reprimands. Lack of respect for family members makes the family indifferent, or the war continues.
? Take responsibility and let your family feel your presence. Recently, two words are very popular on the Internet, namely "widowed marriage" and "widowed education". It means: in the family, one party shirks family responsibilities, ignores family obligations, and treats the family coldly, so that the family simply does not feel his existence. Some of these people, because of their busy work, work overtime with "five plus two" and "white plus black" and go out early and return late all day; Some people live in exile in Haiti and don't want to go home. Whatever the reason, family responsibility is the first priority. "Home is the smallest country, and there are thousands of countries." If you don't fulfill your family responsibilities, how can you be responsible to the country, society and people?
Recently, government agencies and units at all levels are carrying out home visits, that is, inviting unit leaders to visit employees' families, expressing condolences to employees' families and listening to their voices and demands. This shows that the country is paying more and more attention to family harmony and family style construction. Therefore, family stability is no small matter.
However, achieving family stability is easier said than done. The root cause is that many people take family responsibilities and family feelings too lightly.
The famous sentence in the Confucian classic "University" "The ancient desire is obviously superior to the world, governing the country first. If you want to govern the country, you must first get your family together, which tells us that no matter how much skill and ambition you have, the first thing to do is to get your family together. Family harmony can govern the country; Only when the family is stable can the people be safe.
There is an old saying: "If you don't sweep a house, how can you sweep the world?" . The reality is "how can a family be safe if it is uneasy?" Our government agencies and units at all levels should pay sincere attention to family building and don't let home visits become a mere formality; We should really care about the family situation of every employee in the unit, help families in trouble in time, and let employees work with peace of mind; It is necessary to arrange work tasks reasonably, so that employees can have more time to fulfill their family obligations and feel family happiness.
Without the blessing of family members, no matter how great the achievements are, they are castles in the air; Without the support of family, no matter how strong a person is, he is lonely.
Please go home early after work.