Self-control is to control your various desires. Haste makes waste, so be sure to control yourself, otherwise you will be exhausted, fail and spend it in vain.
The old saying goes well: "Looking at the countries of the sages from afar, we will turn from frugality to luxury. "The same is true of people. In order to succeed, we must abstain from extravagance and thrift.
Self-control is not only material restraint of desire, but also spiritual self-control is very important for a person who wants to succeed. After all, food, clothing, housing and transportation are things outside the body, and many people can restrain themselves, but not everyone can control themselves mentally and willpower.
If you want to exercise this ability, you should start from the small things around you and practice this skill well.
A successful person's self-control is manifested in: he rationally refrains from doing things that everyone can't do; He forced himself to do what no one else did but should do rationally, just like "everyone was drunk and I woke up alone". Doing or not doing, restraint and coercion, and surpassing the temperament of ordinary people are the factors of success.
On one occasion, Xiao Jiang and the administrator of the office building had a misunderstanding, which led to mutual hatred and even turned into fierce hostility. In order to express his dissatisfaction with Xiaojiang, when Xiaojiang was alone, the manager turned off all the lights in the whole building. After the same thing happened several times in a row, Xiao Jiang finally couldn't help but fight back.
On the weekend afternoon, the opportunity came. As soon as Jiang Gang sat down at the table, the light went out. Ginger jumped up and ran downstairs to the boiler room. The keeper is whistling casually and adding coal to the stove. When Xiao Jiang saw him, he couldn't help swearing until he had cursed all the dirty words he could think of. At this time, the administrator stood up straight and turned his head with a cheerful smile on his face. He said in a soft voice full of calm and self-control, "Ah, are you a little excited tonight?"
You can imagine what it is like for Xiao Jiang. This man is illiterate and has such shortcomings. Moreover, Xiao Jiang chose occasions and weapons for this battle. Xiaojiang was so depressed that he even hated the administrator and gnashed his teeth, but it was useless. After returning to the office, he had a good reflection. He felt that there was no other way but to apologize.
Xiao Jiang returned to the boiler room. It was the administrator's turn to be surprised: "What can I do for you?"
Xiao Jiang said, "I came to apologize to you. I shouldn't scold you anyway. "
This obviously worked. The administrator said awkwardly, "Don't apologize to me. No one heard what you just said. I was just venting my personal anger. I have no ill feelings towards you. "
In this way, the two men actually respected each other and stood and talked for more than an hour.
Since then, the two have actually become good friends. Jiang Ye Jr. made up his mind that no matter what happened in the future, he would never lose his self-control. Because once you lose self-control, another person-whether an illiterate administrator or an educated person-can easily beat him.
It can be seen that if people want to control others, they must first learn to control themselves. Only by controlling yourself can we conquer the world.
One day at noon, Xiaohua went to visit his good friend Xiao Fang next door. Somehow, they talked about the key chain. Xiao Fang said that her family has a key chain, which is very beautiful. Her father brought it back from Japan. That key chain is in the shape of a cockerel, red and three-dimensional. Just press the button on its foot, and the cock's mouth will automatically open and crow twice.
Xiaohua envies Xiao Fang for having such a good key chain. She really wants to see Xiao Fang's cock key chain, but Xiao Fang never allows anyone to touch her drawer. It happened that Xiao Fang's mother wanted Xiao Fang to go shopping to buy soy sauce. After Xiaofang went downstairs, curiosity made Xiaohua open the drawer and take out the key chain. Wow, what a beautiful key chain! Xiaohua thought, "I wish I had one!" " With this in mind, I put the key chain in my pocket.
Xiaohua took Xiao Fang's key chain because she couldn't resist the temptation and did something wrong, which shows that her self-control is very poor. So it is very important to cultivate self-control from an early age.