So, how good is Tang Hede to Leslie Cheung? How much do you love Leslie Cheung?
Tang Hede grew up in Leslie Cheung, and even Leslie Cheung's mother was his godmother, but when they met, it was 1982.
At this time, Leslie Cheung's acting career has just started, and he is also a rookie in the music world.
Tang Hede, who graduated from a prestigious university, is already a senior investment consultant of Global Bank and Standard Chartered Bank.
It was Leslie Cheung's luck that fate made them meet at the best time.
At that time, Leslie Cheung's career development was not smooth. In his singing career, the avant-garde style has not been recognized by the audience. Once at an outdoor concert, he threw his hat at the audience when he was singing the most vigorously, and he was thrown back.
Nevertheless, Leslie Cheung still stubbornly walked on the road of singing and performing arts. Fortunately, by his side, Tang Hede has been silently supporting him. Even when he was down and out, he would rather eat the cheapest box lunch himself than save money to lend it to him.
Many things happen, and Leslie Cheung's talent will soon be revealed.
His singing career and acting career are extremely vigorous, and no one can refuse his sad and affectionate singing, and no one is more deeply involved in the play than him.
His film department became an instant hit, and his role "Don't be crazy, don't live" always brought the audience into the plot deeply, so he won many awards and established his position in the film industry.
At the same time, the sales of his records have also been rising. Songs such as "The Wind is Blowing" and "Silence is Gold" topped the list of dragons and tigers, so they won many music awards such as the Top Ten Golden Melody Awards in Chinese.
Leslie Cheung has become a big hit, and Tang Hede is paying more and more attention not to damage his public image. He is low-key and reserved, and never uses Leslie Cheung's blog. He quietly continued to work in the bank. Unfortunately, despite his hard work, unscrupulous paparazzi still chased him everywhere, which not only seriously disturbed his quiet life, but also greatly exaggerated his homosexual relationship with Leslie Cheung in the newspaper.
At that time, Hong Kong's tolerance for homosexuality was not as high as it is now. Public opinion and unscrupulous media are full of malice towards him and Tang Hede, and even attack and insult them many times.
When Leslie Cheung gives a concert, Tang Hede always hides in the humble audience. When Leslie Cheung sings on the stage, he is a very serious listener.
When Leslie Cheung looked at him from a distance among thousands of people, he always gestured lovingly with OK. Only Tang Hede understands that this is a signal to express his love.
The overwhelming gossip about him and Leslie Cheung still hurts Leslie Cheung's body and mind.
1989, although Leslie Cheung's career was in full swing, he insisted on bidding farewell to the music world. Accompanied by Tang Hede, he lived in seclusion, without the screams of fans and the tenacious beatings of paparazzi. Two quiet people lived a normal and happy life for several years.
Tang Hede knows Leslie Cheung best and can tolerate his occasional bad mood best. Not only that, Tang Hede is also very friendly to friends in Leslie Cheung. In his view, Leslie Cheung's friends are naturally his friends. Leslie Cheung's comment in the interview is that he always turns his back on his friends.
Later, when Leslie Cheung talked about Tang Hede in a talk show, he looked very happy and sincerely said that he was given to me by God.
After several years of psychological rehabilitation, out of love for music, Leslie Cheung finally made a comeback at 1995.
Leslie Cheung's comeback made the unscrupulous media bring up the past again, making a big fuss about his affair with Tang Hede.
In order to protect Leslie Cheung, Tang Hede keeps a long distance with Leslie Cheung every time he travels together. But Leslie Cheung is a real person, and he doesn't want to see Tang Hede pay for him all the time. So, in the "Crossing 97" concert, he wore a grand black dress, stood under the bright moonlight, and bravely announced his love affair with Tang Hede in front of 80,000 fans.
As he sang in "Different Fireworks", "Don't dodge, live for my favorite life and stand in a bright corner without black powder".
This time, he is not afraid of people's words, and even more disdains the entanglement of paparazzi. He swaggered Tang Hede forward.
Since about 2002, Leslie Cheung, who pursues perfection, has suffered from depression because of his personal experience and the fact that he has to face various media.
Tang Hede gave him comfort in order to get good treatment, but people with depression are often the most tortured.
On one occasion, when Tang Hede was giving Leslie Cheung medicine, he asked the doctor to prescribe more medicine for him.
At that time, the doctor disagreed, indicating that the drug overdose was harmful to the body.
Tang Hede had to confess to the doctor that in order to coax Leslie Cheung into taking medicine, he always took a bite first, and then Leslie Cheung took it.
The doctor was surprised. When he asked again, he realized that Tang Hede had been taking this medicine for more than a month.
Later, under the assurance of Tang Hede, the doctor gave him more medicine, but this incident touched the doctor very much.
Leslie Cheung's illness made him unbearable, and his temperament was capricious. Tang Hede took care of him carefully, but at the same time he couldn't help crying for him in the bathroom.
On April Fool's Day in 2003, Tang Hede and Leslie Cheung were supposed to play badminton, but Leslie Cheung didn't keep the appointment and jumped from the 24th floor without warning.
When Tang Hede saw Leslie Cheung again, it was already separated by Yin and Yang.
At this time, Tang Hede was heartbroken and his feelings collapsed several times. He just shouted, "Son, don't go, Son ..."
At Leslie Cheung's funeral, gaunt Tang Hede even had no strength to stand up. He can only get help from his friends. His eyes have been following the portrait of Leslie Cheung, and his mouth is chanting "Ah Tsai ..."
After Leslie Cheung's death, Tang Hede lived in his old house for many years, and the furnishings in the house were still the same as before.
He lived in seclusion at home, listening to Leslie Cheung's songs alone and crying silently.
Every night, he wandered outside alone with Leslie Cheung's dog.
As before, Tang Hede kept in touch with friends in Leslie Cheung, occasionally with his family, and continued the unfinished charity work in Leslie Cheung ... Because of his deep affection, he did everything according to Leslie Cheung's wishes and did what he could.
It was not until the dog he shared with Leslie Cheung died that he moved out of his old home with Leslie Cheung's ashes, but he still liked to go to places that Leslie Cheung liked, and he still kept the habit of playing badminton. ...
Many years later, this affection touched many people, and Carina Lau and Tony Leung Chiu Wai won the first place with absolute votes in the selection of Hong Kong's "Difficult Wind".
I don't know, Leslie Cheung in the spirit of heaven know this result, will feel gratified!
(Refer to historical materials: "Time in Leslie Cheung")
How to describe love as love? Love is nostalgia, love is companionship, and love is detail. I miss you all my life, but I also miss our 18 years.
At the age of 24, I met you at the age of 26. One is a new singer and the other is a man with temperament. Young people are angry about clothes and shoes.
The understanding of the previous generation brought them into contact. At that time, my brother was already famous, with flowers, applause and boos. And Lao Tang has always been an elite bank, taking care of finance. When my brother was in trouble, he gave him all his help.
Their love affair is that they saw deer in the depths of the forest, and Lao Tang was turned into Bambi by his brother. In Vancouver's paradise-like environment, deer haunt, coffee is mellow in the morning, and there are flying clouds on the horizon, so love sprouts, without interference and fetters, and love is simple and pure.
In the photos of my brother and Lao Tang, a large part of them drive my brother home or accompany him to various parties. Think about how comfortable my brother should be with old Tang around. The brothers are in high spirits, but the old Tang is quiet. When they are together, my brother always looks like a child and is very happy, no different from anyone in love.
When it rains, Lao Tang always picks up his brother. He always gets off the bus first, gives his umbrella to his younger brother, and then turns around and stops in front of his younger brother. Brother smiled and held an umbrella, standing there, looking at the person he loved in the car. Such silent warmth is better than gold.
When my brother mentioned Lao Tang, he was always full of praise and full of respect and love. Old Tang generously helped him through the difficulties. He told it over and over again. He said he was sorry for Don because he was harassed by paparazzi and forced to give up his career and lost his personal life.
He said that Lao Tang had given him too much, and he would thank him all his life.
A long time later, when many unexpected things happened, that photo was rated as the greatest hand-holding in this century, the most firm hand-holding in this century and the most touching hand-holding in this century by major magazine websites.
Under the dim light of street lamps, warmth and love cross and show silently.
These two men who love each other deeply, even walk in such a consistent and harmonious way.
In the program, my brother always listens with joy to how the host praises the other half. My brother said, "I think he's fine, too." He said, "He is my lover, friend, brother and sister, and a gift from the Lord."
All their property belongs to * * *. My brother's car license plate number is 339, which means "Tang Changjiu" in Cantonese.
When my brother found the paparazzi following him, he didn't choose to keep his distance, but held Tang Tang's hand.
Lead him across the street and into the house, and his fingers will never be separated. It seems that if he leads him like this, he can go on forever.
In my brother's heart, as long as it is true love, there is no room for concealment and no room for falsehood. So he wants the whole world to see clearly that their love has always been aboveboard.
Delicate and sincere is not clear in a few words. No matter what the world thinks, my brother just wants to say: the moon represents my heart.
In fact, Zhou Xiao sometimes wondered whether Tang Hede didn't meet Leslie Cheung or chose to fall in love with Leslie Cheung.
He may have succeeded in what he is best at, or he may live an ordinary and happy life.
But they fell in love.
Leslie Cheung has been away for many years, but until now, Tang Hede's every move will still be the focus.
For the public, the discussion of the relationship between the two is only a kind of consumption; But for Tang Hede, all his quotations are out of love.
Few people can give up their jobs and their original lives for the people they love like Tang Hede.
Once upon a time, as long as they were in public, they had to be like strangers, unable to communicate and touch all the time.
On the one hand, I hope their feelings will not be influenced by the public; On the other hand, I don't want my brother to get hurt.
Later, at Leslie Cheung's farewell ceremony, Tang Hede managed to complete the whole funeral with the help of others.
Although it hurts, I still have to work hard to clear my name for my lover.
Later, Tang Hede accepted the award on behalf of Leslie Cheung, helped unveil the wax figure, and attended the funeral and birthday party of Leslie Cheung's friends.
/kloc-for 0/3 years, he never said anything about spending his brother, nor did he get any benefits because of his brother, leaving him with endless loneliness and sorrow.
On February 5th this year, Tang Hede posted a photo of his birthday with him on ins on his birthday, with the caption:
"On the same day before 19, I wish everyone good health and all the best."
Ten years later, Mr. Tang still lives in the world with his brother. That smell really makes people cry.
It is conceivable that the days when he accompanied his brother to a concert and worked as a driver's assistant were his most satisfying days.
So how much does Tang Hede love Leslie Cheung?
I think it should be a kind of "even if you leave, I still look at the world for you and tell the world that we have loved it vigorously." "insist.
(Text/Entertainment Editorial Department Zhou Xiao)
Although he is not from the entertainment circle, Tang Hede's popularity in the entertainment circle is excellent, which is directly related to his knowledge, speech and treatment of people. But the deeper reason, as we all know, is that Tang Hede is very kind to Leslie Cheung. How good is it? Leslie Cheung has completely entered the life of Tang Hede. ...
Leslie Cheung has been away from us for almost 16 years, which is enough to change a person, but Tang Hede still loves Leslie Cheung deeply in this 16 year.
One day on 20 16, Tang Hede posted a photo of himself on Ins. He was holding a T-shirt with a cartoon image of Leslie Cheung, which read "Thank you Monica". But this is not a simple commemoration, because Leslie Cheung's cartoon image is the cover photo of 1984' s album Leslie, which really shows how much Tang Hede misses Leslie Cheung.
After Leslie Cheung left, Tang Hede always attended banquets and funerals of friends in Leslie Cheung, just like "the feeling of attending for him".
Tang Hede used to like playing basketball, while Leslie Cheung liked playing badminton. He changed his hobby of basketball for him and started playing badminton, leaving one person behind. It is reported that during the recent 16 years in Tang Hede, the most photographed people participated in badminton competitions.
According to careful Hong Kong media, since Leslie Cheung left, Tang Hede has always been smiling, even if he participated in very lively activities. ...
A detail can show how much Tang Hede loves his brother! Although Tang Hede is not in the entertainment circle, his relationship with Leslie Cheung's brother is well known to fans! Two people have been together for 20 years, which can be said to be very important people in each other's lives!
When there was no fire in Leslie Cheung, it was Tang Hede's constant support and companionship for ten years, and he spent the most difficult time with his brother. After that, my brother became popular, not only the concert, but also the drama. Then this time, Leslie Cheung has no time to accompany Tang Hurd, but Tang Hurd doesn't complain, and often takes time to visit classes!
And my brother Leslie Cheung has never concealed the existence of Tang Hede, and he has confessed to him many times. It can be said that two people are true love. But things change, and no one thought that my brother's family died of depression in the end.
And during the time when his brother Leslie Cheung was depressed, Tang Hede stayed with him all the time. In order to let Leslie Cheung take medicine, he did not hesitate to take medicine! Even said to die together! But in the end, I was teased by fate and separated. At that time, Tang Hede was very sad.
After that, Tang Hede lived alone, but he would upload photos on social platforms every April 1 Sunday and September 12 to remember Leslie Cheung! And has been insisting that Tang Hede doesn't want to borrow his brother's fame, he just wants to commemorate Leslie Cheung and love Leslie Cheung deeply!
Same-sex love, there was, there was, but after leaving me, we had 18 years of love. Although we are not as good-looking as my brother, we are also very temperamental. Although the ex-boyfriend is not very tall, his face value is also quite good. I am taller than my ex-boyfriend and have a standard figure. We sometimes go out together, and many people envy us. Unfortunately, my ex-boyfriend had a heart attack. I took care of him for two months. I lost my home, hospital and job. However, I have no regrets. After all, we really fell in love and walked for six years. I just got out last year. In recent years, I have visited him in the cemetery every year and shed a lot of tears. However, people still have to live. I have been single for several years, and now I am slowly coming out, looking for a middle-aged man with fate.
Leslie Cheung has been away from us for almost 16 years, which is enough to change a person, but Tang Hede still loves Leslie Cheung deeply in this 16 year.
One day on 20 16, Tang Hede posted a photo of himself on Ins. He was holding a T-shirt with a cartoon image of Leslie Cheung, which read "Thank you Monica". But this is not a simple commemoration, because Leslie Cheung's cartoon image is the cover photo of 1984' s album Leslie, which really shows how much Tang Hede misses Leslie Cheung.
After Leslie Cheung left, Tang Hede always attended banquets and funerals of friends in Leslie Cheung, just like "the feeling of attending for him".
Tang Hede used to like playing basketball, while Leslie Cheung liked playing badminton. He changed his hobby of basketball for him and started playing badminton, leaving one person behind. It is reported that during the recent 16 years in Tang Hede, the most photographed people participated in badminton competitions.
According to careful Hong Kong media, since Leslie Cheung left, Tang Hede has always been smiling, even if he participated in very lively activities. ...
Leslie Cheung has been away for many years, but until now, Tang Hede's every move will still be the focus.
For the public, the discussion of the relationship between the two is only a kind of consumption; But for Tang Hede, all his quotations are out of love.
Few people can give up their jobs and their original lives for the people they love like Tang Hede.
Once upon a time, as long as they were in public, they had to be like strangers, unable to communicate and touch all the time.
On the one hand, I hope their feelings will not be influenced by the public; On the other hand, I don't want my brother to get hurt.
Later, at Leslie Cheung's farewell ceremony, Tang Hede managed to complete the whole funeral with the help of others.
Although it hurts, I still have to work hard to clear my name for my lover.
Later, Tang Hede accepted the award on behalf of Leslie Cheung, helped unveil the wax figure, and attended the funeral and birthday party of Leslie Cheung's friends.
/kloc-for 0/3 years, he never said anything about spending his brother, nor did he get any benefits because of his brother, leaving him with endless loneliness and sorrow.
On February 5th this year, Tang Hede posted a photo of his birthday with him on ins on his birthday, with the caption:
"On the same day before 19, I wish everyone good health and all the best."
Ten years later, Mr. Tang still lives in the world with his brother. That smell really makes people cry.
It is conceivable that the days when he accompanied his brother to a concert and worked as a driver's assistant were his most satisfying days.
So how much does Tang Hede love Leslie Cheung?
I think it should be a kind of "even if you leave, I still look at the world for you and tell the world that we have loved it vigorously." "insist.
The first entertainment record must be a masterpiece.
It has been many years since Leslie Cheung died, but every April 1 day, both the media and ordinary people will spontaneously commemorate him. One person will cry silently. He is my brother's ex-lover Tang Hede!
You have to ask me how much I love you, and the moon represents my heart!
Before his death: Tang Hede had a good temper and always tolerated Leslie Cheung.
Tang Hede is famous for his good temper. Every time the media asks, he guesses how they feel. Although it was not true, he patiently explained that they had a good relationship.
Tang Hede used to be an employee of Standard Chartered Bank. Later, after his relationship with his brother was exposed, he resigned and they moved in together.
Leslie Cheung should like Tang Hede very much. Once she was interviewed, the host asked them how they were doing. He looks happy and praises him for being single-minded. In an era when gay love is not so popular, he dares to say it, and it really should be true love! That's why there are pictures of two people holding hands!
Perhaps the best proof of their love is the album cover of Leslie Cheung's For You. The album cover of "Just for Your Heart" has been shot. Later, because Tang Hede gave him a ring, Leslie Cheung felt very memorable. Although only a few days before the release of the album, he insisted on remaking the album cover with a ring from Tang Hede. This shows how much they loved each other before Leslie Cheung died!
During Leslie Cheung's illness, he was grumpy and behaved like a child, but Tang Hede always tolerated him.
After death; Tang Hede has been living in his old house and waiting for the rest of his life!
After Leslie Cheung's death, Tang Hede was in great pain. A few days before the funeral, Tang Hede waited for Leslie Cheung's body day and night, with great grief.
Many people don't know that Tang Hede gave Leslie Cheung a nickname: A Zi! On the day Leslie Cheung was buried, he had been waiting for seven days and his heart was broken. Tang Hede seems to have lost his soul, holding a portrait of Leslie Cheung in his hand, and repeatedly chanting: Ah Tsai, Ah Tsai!
Later, I thought I would be afraid to see things and miss people. Will move out of the room where they live together, but don doesn't. He has made plans, and he will never love again, so he will spend the rest of his life remembering. In the house where he lives, the decoration at home hasn't changed at all, just like when his brother was here.
After Leslie Cheung died, his friends had a wedding and a funeral, and Tang Hede would attend. There is a feeling that I will do the rest for you when you leave. Sometimes he would greet and care about the Leslie Cheung fans he met.
Later, Tang Hede seldom smiled. Although his personality was still gentle, even if he did, he wouldn't show his teeth. Maybe in his heart, there will always be that sadness! Hong Kong later made a wax figure for his brother, which was unveiled by Mr. Tang. After uncovering the red cloth, Mr. Tang glanced at the wax figure and turned to face the media to take pictures. Say that finish, he couldn't help but turn and look at his brother's wax figure. His eyes are really cruel and his expression is very painful.
Leslie Cheung left, and those who stayed must be very sad. However, for their feelings, there is indeed a lot of beauty!
The earth endures, and the sky endures; One day both will end, and this love is endless! Perhaps, I can't think of anything better than this sentence to describe the feelings of Leslie Cheung and Tang Hede. Although Leslie Cheung has been dead for so many years, every year, Tang Hede posts a message on his social account in memory of Leslie Cheung. Do you ask Tang Hede how much he loves Leslie Cheung? His feelings remain unchanged, his love remains unchanged, and perhaps only the moon can represent his heart.
They grew up together, and today we are friends and lovers, which may be understandable. But at that time, it was unimaginable that this kind of love beyond gender and life and death could be recognized by the public! Both of them are well-off and well-known. However, when we get along, adversity and * * *, as well as the persistence of one party after death ... At any time, this love is worthy of people's envy and touching!
In the face of pressure and doubt, perhaps both of them would have better choices at that time; In the face of cold eyes and ridicule, perhaps they could choose to escape at that time; Faced with incomprehension and confusion, maybe they could choose to explain at that time … but they didn't!
Leslie Cheung sang on the stage, and he sat in an obscure corner of the audience and listened quietly;
Leslie Cheung was ill, so he left all his work to accompany him.
Leslie Cheung died, and he has been waiting for him all his life.
It is difficult for us to fall in love between normal couples and lovers, and it is on them!
Love may be eating an ice cream together and going shopping together;
Love may just be the other half hugging you behind your back, and two people enjoy the silent time;
Love may just be relatively silent, and the other half looks at you affectionately;
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"The mountain has no edges, heaven and earth meet, dare to break the king"! Love is too helpless, love is too extravagant. Tang Hede's love for Leslie Cheung not only transcends gender, but also transcends life and death. It is impossible to describe and write in any language. Finally, maybe we can find the answer from this song by Leslie Cheung:
There is no if in life. If given a choice, I wonder if Leslie Cheung will regret jumping out of the Mandarin Hotel? The person he loves deeply has spent his whole life alone in his thoughts. If Leslie Cheung knew about the spring, would he feel at ease? We all know that Leslie Cheung suffers from depression, and so does Cui Yongyuan. In the eyes of ordinary people, it means depression, stress and insomnia. We don't know much about depression
16, was diagnosed as depression by a doctor in a 3A hospital in Xi 'an, and needed medical intervention. For a while, I thought I had recovered. 20 16, 12, I actually committed suicide. I felt no pain at that time, and I was deeply relieved. People gradually lost consciousness. Later, I was sent to a military hospital. I can clearly remember that the doctor said that he was too young and the wound was too deep to hurt the tendon. I have to keep this arm. Go to the attending doctor and thank these responsible doctors for doing their best.
Later, every time I went to change my dressing, the doctor spoke to me very gently. After suicide, it was strange that the symptoms gradually disappeared. Later, for nearly 1 year, I watched teacher Degang Guo's cross talk, and gradually returned to normal, and I no longer had the urge to commit suicide. Leslie Cheung jumped down from the upstairs, and there was no possibility of being saved. If he can be saved, I believe he will live well in the future. A generation of superstars left forever with such a tragic choice in people's infinite regret.