Xiao Ni, my trustee, and her boyfriend belong to a foreign love. Because of their long-term dislike, lack of resources and effective communication in daily life, the delay of cold violence is long. Later, my boyfriend defected from this relationship and gradually replaced the cracks in his heart with new feelings. At this time, the feeling of third-party involvement increases the difficulty coefficient of retention.
Xiao Ni and her boyfriend have been in love for nearly seven years. In the first two years, their relationship was very happy, but the problem was that during their two years in the field, after an argument, her boyfriend clearly broke up and promised to meet after half a year, saying that if they felt the same way, they would get back together.
The following is Xiao Ni's private prosecution:
Consulting marriage, "We are two students in high school. He's funny. He often goes to the canteen together after school. On the way, we talked about the past, the present and sometimes our own ideas. At that time, I had a good impression on him, but he seemed to like everything.
After that, we were admitted to the same university, met frequently and played better and better. In most of the school year, he suddenly confessed to me as a professional marriage counselor. This is how we define the relationship between lovers.
He was my first love and had no emotional experience before me. In the four years of college, we went shopping together, watched TV dramas together and read books in the public library together. During this period, we also met each other's parents, had a good time and had some happy lives.
After that, I was admitted to a master's degree and went to study in a different place. As soon as I graduated from college, I went to work in a hospital as a nurse. Go out to work for more than 2 years, and stay in the hospital clinic to take care of patients every day. In addition, working from morning till night made me feel a lot of pressure, and I often wanted to quit, but I finally persisted.
After more than two years in the field, he lived in the school dormitory and rented his own house. Because I often don't see him, I can't participate in his daily life, and he can't always take care of our lives. We have accumulated a lot of unhappiness in each other's hearts, so our differences are rising, and we often quarrel or have cold violence.
Just a year ago, in a dispute, he said that he would break up, clearly put forward mutual reasons for half a year, and agreed.
Just after half a year, I have been thinking about my feelings for two years. I am really sorry. I want to get back together with him. At the beginning of professional marriage counseling 10, everyone made an appointment to meet, but he told me that he had found a new lover in August!
This one thing is a downpour! I was really sad at that time, and I tried my best to save him. He doesn't want to delete my contact number, and I blame him for "reneging on his word and being a malicious playboy".
I am 28 years old and my date is also moving towards the goal of getting married. I love him very much, so I think everyone knows him after I marry him. And I don't believe he doesn't love me anymore. Maybe he just wants to deal with me, so he found a new lover to annoy me.
After that, according to my friend's detailed introduction, I found Mr. Song Baoai, hoping to save my boyfriend's heart according to the specific guidance of technical specialty. "
At first, when Xiao Ni told me about her emotional experience, she looked very anxious and afraid of losing a man.
According to Xiao Ni's description, I understand that men still care about her main performance in the past six months when they clearly give reasons, but she looks very cold. Although she pretended to be free and easy on the surface, she was very painful inside, and then she just diverted her attention according to her colorful daily life and got to know many opposite sex.
At this time, men feel neglected by Xiao Ni, jealous that she has many opposite sexes, so they can't help but contact her several times, but her mentality is mainly indifference. Because she doesn't know how to express her thoughts, which leads to poor communication with each other.
Marriage counseling, together with many members of the opposite sex, adds their own variable elements, falls in love in a foreign country, _ has a fixed exchange and communication _, resulting in each other slowly losing the same language.