Secondly, to correct their patriarchal role, what children need at this time is a rational way of education, rather than dealing with "being defeated and fleeing" quickly. It is easy for children to "catch" adults' weaknesses and force you to submit next time. So what parents need at this time is a normal heart and a calm and rational treatment. On the other hand, the way parents deal with problems will also enable children to learn and apply his or her future interpersonal communication.
Third, according to the situation at that time, the child's age and his own personality, or hurried away, did not accept the child's irrational behavior; Or, kneel down to appease the child's emotions, let the child fully express his negative emotions, let the child vent as much as possible, and then explain the reasons. If adults were not afraid of many people watching at that time, then when children grow up, he (she) will also learn this calm way to deal with problems.
Of course, when communicating with children at ordinary times, we should let them know how parents deal with problems, make the rules open and transparent, and let them know clearly what they can't do, what they can do, what punishment they will get if they do something wrong, and so on. In this way, after children understand the rules of the game, they can better manage their own behaviors and digest problems in the bud.