In college, grapefruit fell in love with a boy who ran track and field in the Institute of Physical Education. I smiled and said to her, "You'd better change your goal."
"What do you mean?" Grapefruit looked at me doubtfully.
Grapefruit and I are roommates in the same dormitory and have a close relationship. I was embarrassed to tell her the truth, so I said, "Sports students have developed limbs and simple minds, and they are not in tune with our philosophy major."
"I like it."
I said silently in my heart, but he doesn't like you.
A few days later, grapefruit went to the Institute of Physical Education to confess to the track and field man. That afternoon, the south wind saw the wheat yellow reflecting the fields in April again. It was a beautiful day, really suitable for love.
Track and field athletes are training on the playground. When he runs, his vigorous posture is really handsome. Grapefruit and I sat in the stands, bored to count how many laps the track and field athletes ran.
After the training, grapefruit flew out like a swallow, holding a bottle of water, rushed to the track and field man and handed him the water. The track and field man paused and didn't catch the water.
I don't know what grapefruit and Tian Jingnan said, and I can't hear clearly in the stands. Soon only the track and field man left, and grapefruit slowly returned to the stands. Her face was red.
"How about it?" I asked.
"He turned me down. He said that he had no time to fall in love and had to train. "
"Do you believe it?"
"Of course I believe. You see, he is training every day. "
What grapefruit doesn't know is that I actually saw him dating girls from other departments many times in Yueming Lake at night, and it wasn't the same girl.
The important reason why grapefruit was rejected was that it was ugly and didn't even have a chance to date.
02
Soon after, the track and field man was with a senior in the Foreign Languages Department. Zou frowned and was depressed for several days. I asked her to go to the movies to relax, but she didn't go either.
She asked me dully, "Why did he lie? Doesn't he like my age and immaturity? "
I want to slap the grapefruit awake, but at this time, I will still ask such words. I think she should understand that he just doesn't like you.
Just, I just silently low head to drink water, didn't pick her up, because grapefruit finally added:
"But I really like him."
03
After graduating from the Foreign Languages Department, she went to a famous university in Xi 'an for postgraduate study, and the track and field man went to Xi 'an to find another job.
I thought that track and field man was just playing with his senior sister. He doesn't have a regular girlfriend. The love letters he receives every day can hold a personal exhibition, and the scarves he receives in winter can travel around the world for several weeks. Be picky when choosing a girlfriend.
I didn't expect him to like his senior sister in the Foreign Languages Department. It should be quite touching to catch up with Xi 'an from our school and pursue love thousands of miles away.
Surprisingly, however, the senior left the track and field man at Xi 'an Railway Station and told him not to go to Xi 'an to find her again.
After the track and field men returned to school, they were once depressed, which made many girls feel distressed. Grapefruit is one of them, but he is indifferent and keeps in touch with his senior sister who is studying in Xi 'an.
A man is always pursuing a woman who doesn't care about him, and so is fate.
However, grapefruit is particularly persistent about the fact that he likes track and field men. The offensive has never weakened, but it has intensified.
Every night grapefruit soaks on QQ to hook up with track and field men and patiently sends him messages, even though track and field men never reply.
Grapefruit asked me, "Do I have a chance now?"
I gave a "well" and said with reservations, "Maybe."
In fact, I want to add later, unless you go for plastic surgery. In this age of looking at faces, grapefruit has no chance.
Even if the track and field men have no seniors, there are so many girls and junior girls in the same session. By his side, which one is not beautiful, has a bad figure and a small chest?
04
There was a heavy snow in the winter of senior three, and grapefruit and Jing Tian finally got together.
It was a snowy night. Grapefruit asks track and field men out to eat hot pot and drink on QQ. Grapefruit has no hope and doesn't want track and field men to make an appointment.
Pomelo went out beautifully dressed. Grapefruit didn't come back that night. When he returned to the dormitory the next morning, his face was ruddy and he was a little excited when he walked.
She came up to me and said happily, "He has been stamped by me and will always be my man."
Grapefruit spent more than two years chasing an impossible boy and finally got together. Really broke the record.
Roommates all asked around grapefruit, how did you get rid of track and field men?
Grapefruit said, "Wait. What can I do except wait? "
Later, I heard that track and field boys' friends said that grapefruit was not good enough for Jing Tian, and they were not together because of loneliness. Grapefruit didn't feel unhappy after knowing it, and invited her track and field boyfriend to dinner. At the dinner table, grapefruit said:
"I know you don't like me, you think I don't deserve him. I also know that he is liked by many people, but whether he can hold it is a skill. Some people like him for a while, but I will love him all my life. "
"As far as I know, when people like someone but can't get something in return, they often feel sad and disappointed, and then turn into anger and bitterness. I'm not like that. I never expect him to love me. I know I'm not cute. He likes me, you don't believe it, but time will testify, you are all witnesses. "
Everyone present at that time was silent, and so was I.
Many times, we calculate everything clearly and accurately, how much we have paid and how much we have to get in return.
Always love each other a little more or each other loves themselves a little more, and always play games. In such calculations, the most precious things are often lost.
We thought grapefruit was stupid and confused, but in fact she saw it clearly and clearly. Because she knows who she is and what she wants, she waits for what she wants.
05
After graduating from college, grapefruit was admitted to graduate school in Beijing for further study, and track and field men also took grapefruit to work in Beijing.
During the grapefruit graduate school, the anecdote of track and field men continued. It is often said that my senior who went to Xi 'an for postgraduate study also went to Beijing after graduation, and Tian Jingnan had an unforgettable love affair and planned to get back together. He also said that the female colleagues of the track and field men's company are also eyeing him and often ask him out. Like in school, track and field men have become a piece of fat, and everyone is vying for it.
In fact, the grapefruit at this time is not the grapefruit of that year. I learned to dress up and make up, fell in love with sports, and lost weight very successfully. She has been growing and practicing herself, and the beauty of academic school has not been delayed.
Therefore, during the graduate school, she was not worried about the scandal of the track and field man at all. She was sure that even if he left, it was just fate.
During that time, grapefruit stopped writing papers, and we often chatted with roommates. Roommate asked her, "What is the secret of being good-looking?"
Grapefruit said, "I just want to stand beside him when he is a bride." We are a match made in heaven. There are beautiful men and women, and talented men and women are more talented. "
06
After graduating from grapefruit graduate school, she taught in a famous middle school in Beijing. In a few years, he was promoted to director of * * *, which is a hot position. But also in a well-known middle school in Beijing, not ordinary people can make such achievements.
If it weren't for grapefruit's efforts and hard work, how could it be promoted and received high treatment within a few years?
Grapefruit gets a suite. Although the house belongs to the school, there is no need to worry about housing in Beijing, which has solved half of the worries.
The track and field athlete wanted to do what he liked, so he started his own business. He had no confidence, no decision, and little money in his hand, so he discussed with grapefruit.
Grapefruit said, "Do what you like. If my business fails, I can still afford three steamed buns for three meals a day. "
Since then, the gap between grapefruit and Tian Jingnan has widened. Pomelo's contacts and interpersonal relationships are getting better and better, people are becoming more and more beautiful and more intellectual, and the salary is good and stable.
Track and field men began to gain weight and their bodies became round. After starting a business, their faces are much older and their money is often tight. In Beijing, he has no money to buy a house or what grapefruit wants. After starting a business, in order to save rent, he still lives in the grapefruit house.
There are many successful people around grapefruit at this time, and everyone thinks that grapefruit will choose better conditions. But no one chose grapefruit, but proposed to the track and field man.
She said, I don't want a house, a car or a successful career. I just want you. I can earn money, I can afford a house, and no one can buy our love.
At the wedding, grapefruit was bright and moving, smiling like a flower, standing beside the groom, happy as a little girl. Grapefruit standing on the stage, holding a microphone, said to friends and relatives:
"Before I met him, I never thought about getting married. I only know that the love in this life will not leave a trace in the next life. If you love someone, you should love him, hold his hand and cherish him. In the next life, I won't be around him anymore. I don't want to go to the afterlife and I don't remember who I loved. "
"So, in this life, no matter what he becomes, I love him. Once, everyone said he was handsome. Only I can't tell him what his strengths are, but no one can replace him. "
07
A few years after marriage, the track and field man succeeded in starting a business and was also excellent at grapefruit.
If you go abroad on business, you will definitely buy grapefruit as a gift; Every time I go out for dinner, I will go home before 10 in the afternoon; No matter how busy the company is, I will definitely leave time to walk with grapefruit on the school playground on Saturday and Sunday. Both of them are full of love and harmony.
At first, the seemingly most mismatched couple, after years of baptism and the witness of time, became a pair of mandarin ducks that others envied.
One year at a class reunion, everyone learned grapefruit. How can a few years of marriage be as sweet as first love?
Grapefruit just smiled and said, "I just believe in myself and him."
Everyone is a little disappointed. Only I know that experience is the most unreliable thing in feelings.
Love is like a river, and no one will cross it by feeling the stones. Grapefruit is just more patient and stronger than the average person. Marriage needs management, emotional appeal, knowing how to cherish and not complaining is the best policy.
Like grapefruit said, she believed him. Although she can't say what's good about him, no one can replace him. In this case, love and cherish it.
Otherwise, is there any other way?