At that time, Yilan went back to visit relatives with her children in her arms. Wen Xiang changed trains here on business, and they met by chance here. Their meeting was not as exciting as described in the book. Yilan understood that the original decision to break up was arbitrary, but it was correct. The two men calmly asked about their own situation and were not married, and Lan Chu's mother's mood was naturally very different from before. Wen Xiang asked her: How difficult is it to go out alone with the child in her arms? Why didn't his father come to see him off? Yilan told him that Chang Xin not only had to go to work during the day, but also played saxophone in the karaoke bar at night, and she was as busy as a bee.
"Can he still do this?" Wen Xiang lowered his eyes and his tone was sour.
While speaking, Wen Xiang got into the car and they said goodbye in a hurry. Later, when Yilan heard that Wen Xiang was married, the stone in her heart finally fell to the ground. She is really afraid of hurting him too much and affecting his life. Wen Xiang swore in his letter that if he could not marry her, he would become a monk, and the kind Yilan was worried about it for quite a while.
Marriage life is like a big river in the middle reaches, flowing forward smoothly and deeply. In a blink of an eye, great changes have taken place in this country. Institutional reorganization and strong alliance should make the cake bigger and better and make a brand effect. All kinds of group companies have sprung up like mushrooms after rain, and their subordinate units have also been merged into the headquarters, and the new homes that have been relocated soon are facing relocation.
Yilan has experienced the pain of moving, and this time it has to face new units and new colleagues after organizational reorganization. How to work in the future is uncertain. She and Chang Xindu are utterly confused and depressed. At this moment, Lan got a call from the company. At that time, communication was not developed. There is no mobile phone except the fixed telephone at work and residence. How did Wen Xiang know this number? Yilan felt very suddenly.
It turned out that a colleague transferred from Yilan was transferred to Wen Xiang, and they got along very well. Once on the wine table, Wen Xiang asked Yilan and got the phone number. Yilan told Wen Xiang about the current situation on the phone. Wen Xiang felt that the trip to Yilan was thousands of miles apart, and he might never see it again. He offered to invite her to dinner to see her off. At that time, Chang Xin was away on a business trip, and Yilan hesitated to refuse. She was afraid of Chang Xin's misunderstanding.
But on second thought, it may be difficult to see each other again in this life. After all, she owed Wen Xiang, so she gritted her teeth and agreed. Wen Xiang attaches great importance to this activity. He borrowed a limousine from a friend to pick up Yilan. When Yilan led the child into the car, she politely opened the door for her and settled her before the car started. This detail makes Yilan feel a little sorry. She hasn't felt this kind of care for a long time. Has she changed, or has she been changing?
The banquet was grand, and Lan was moved as soon as she arrived. Knowing that she was going out of town, Wen Xiang not only invited her, but also specially invited some old friends who were familiar with her to see her off. The excitement and warmth at the dinner left a good memory for Yilan.
Besides love, there is pure friendship in life, but Chang Xin believes that there can be no friendship between the opposite sex, which is why Yilan avoids contact with the opposite sex. These friendships were ignored by her intentionally or unintentionally after marriage. No matter who or what, she will give in as long as it conflicts with her love and marriage. A woman can have nothing but love, especially for Yilan, which lacks love since childhood.
My son seldom attends such a grand banquet. Chang Xin couldn't wait to describe the scene to his father as soon as he came back. He met any uncles and aunts and didn't eat anything delicious ... Yilan was a little unnatural. She was worried that her husband would misunderstand and told him as soon as she came back, but she didn't expect her son to beat her to it.
Chang Xin felt that the man in her son's description had not forgotten Yilan. Seeing that she looked unnatural, she felt that there was a ghost in her heart. It was better to leave than to get married, but no matter how Yilan explained that night, Chang Xin just couldn't let go. Yilan is very wronged. She thinks this is human nature and has done nothing wrong, so she is also "rightfully" angry: What's the matter? What a narrow mind. She didn't consider the problem from a constantly updated angle. No matter how generous a man is, he will be too petty on emotional issues unless he doesn't love her or care about her. Haven't you heard the story of a man who left himself for beauty? Really. Fortunately, they quickly moved to a distant city, and everything in the past was diluted by that distance.
In the new city, I face many new problems. Cleaning up the house and getting familiar with the environment, the most troublesome thing is the transfer of children. Yilan used to live in a new town, with a small population, many schools and advanced teaching facilities. Moving to this ancient city has a large population and few schools. Every school has a piece of land the size of a palm, and every class is crowded with sixty or seventy students. It's difficult to transfer new students. Yilan and Chang Xin are a little depressed after transferring to several schools. They have just come to this city and have no relatives or friends. It can be said that they are opaque. What should we do?
Lan remembered those who were still teaching. Maybe he has college classmates in this city. Why not go to him? She wanted to say something to Chang Xin, but the last thing made Yilan feel that Chang Xin was tolerant to her on the surface and made her feel free and natural, but in fact he was one hundred people who didn't want her to associate with other men, especially Wen Xiang. Will telling Chang Xin about it now make him unhappy and upset the whole family? Besides, I haven't lost my mind. I'm in a hurry to see a doctor. Yilan quietly got in touch with Wen Xiang with her new mobile phone. Unfortunately, Wen Xiang has no classmates here, so it is impossible to talk about it. In order to save worry, she did not tell Chang Xin. Everything leaves no trace, just like a bird leaving no footprint, but falling from the sky.
Wen Xiang remembered Yilan's number, and called her every holiday to know each other's latest situation and exchange experiences in raising children ... They interacted like friends and occasionally let friendship birds fly in their sky. Both of them are very cautious, with the bottom line of not affecting each other's families. All this is hidden from Chang Xin, who doesn't want to affect her family because of these seemingly harmless little things. Her relationship with Chang Xin can't refuse this connection.
In this strange city, Yilan has no friends and no one to talk to. Chang Xin's work is very busy Yilan's work is relatively idle. She has too much leisure to feel lonely. Familiar with the new unit, establish a new network, evaluate professional titles, busy with children ... Chang Xin often works overtime, and their husband and wife have no time for romantic communication. Yilan feels that they have less and less in common.
Occasionally, when Chang Xin doesn't work overtime on weekends, they will go to the streets and often break up because of different shopping opinions. Always interested in the new, Yilan is not interested; Yilan is interested in this, but she is not cold. They often go their own way. Yilan felt that there was less and less hot air at home, but there was nothing she could do. Chang Xin seems to be too busy to think about it. Even when I think about it sometimes, I'm an old married couple to him. What else are you dissatisfied with? Isn't that asking for trouble?
Yilan had to read books and watch those endless TV series. When the child is older, she won't have to worry much. She yearns very much for the touching, passionate and romantic emotional stories described in the book, and also envies the close relationship between colleagues in Korean dramas, who are colleagues when they are busy and friends when they are free. Once, she also tried to establish this relationship, inviting people to dinner during the Spring Festival and cooking something delicious to share with her office colleagues. But somehow, her colleague relationship is still lukewarm, full of competition and vigilance.
Who and who are real friends these days? There is an inscrutable heart wall between people, and they dare not approach, are too lazy to approach, and cannot approach. Only those who are too lucky are destined to be friends. Especially the intimate relationship between colleagues, when there is a conflict of interest, everyone is the first to protect themselves. One day, you will find sadly that the person who betrays you is often the one who knows you best. As the saying goes, peers are enemies.
Since the son grew up, he and his father have more common language. Often when they are chatting happily, they interrupt each other and don't attract much attention. They didn't answer her, so they continued their conversation. In this family, she felt that she was gradually deprived of the right to speak. Sometimes, just when she finds the feeling to say, the topic changes and the context of speaking disappears. She immediately falls into a daze and wants to say something like a group of frightened birds. She sat there blankly, quietly chewing the neglected bitterness.