In addition, the advantages of older women are much less than those of young women. Although they have their own experience and experience to make up for their age, these are only compensation, and they are not an effective tool for older women to show their advantages. Age and physical defects caused by age are an insurmountable hurdle for older women.
Many older women are like this. They want to marry an excellent man as soon as possible. In the absence of bright spots, older women just do nothing, want to marry, and don't want to marry ordinary people. However, outstanding people can't get married, which has become a contradiction in the hearts of older women. With the continuous waste of time, more advantages than young women will gradually become disadvantages.
There are also some older women who can relax and realize that they will not do those "useless things". After finding a man who is right in all aspects, they will tie themselves firmly to him and finally complete the purpose of marriage. But some hidden dangers brought by age will also suppress its value at a very low point.
Before marriage, parents of both sides will sit together to discuss matters such as marriage, bride price and marriage room. If they are younger children with similar strength, parents will discuss the matter on the basis of facts and make a happy result. However, if one party is an older woman, the parents of the man will firmly grasp the shortcoming of "age" to achieve some beneficial goals.
This is no exception. After all, many parents will do this, whether for their children or for their children to achieve the ultimate goal at the least cost. However, in this process of intrigue, they often ignore the idea of "older women".
Maybe many people will say, "What a suck! She got married early at that age." But this is not the reason why older women keep spending. Although older women are unfair in marriage, it does not mean that they can be deprived of their right to pursue happiness, nor can they endure constant oppression and empathy. Is it difficult? In fact, it is not difficult.
Li Chun, a 35-year-old woman, is a normal older woman. Before that, she almost got rid of the title of "older woman", but because of the constant oppression and humiliation of her husband's family, she would rather be single than touch anything about marriage. Li Chun said, "I don't expect me to have a happy marriage. I only hope that others can treat me as a person. "
Li Chun's own ability is good. Although he is mediocre, with the continuous improvement of the company's business ability, he has become a small leader and has no worries about food and clothing. But Li Chun doesn't want to spend his life in a daze. She also hopes to have a prince charming to welcome her and treat her well.
Due to his age, Li Chun suffered a lot in the process of blind date. Many men have to take out Li Chun's age after meeting, saying that Li Chun is not suitable for having children, and the age gap is too big. Then they will put forward their own price and set the bride price at the lowest level. Some things needed for marriage can be saved.
Similar scenes happen from time to time, but they are all politely rejected by her. Usually, blind date men will go to the table after leaving a sentence "Don't marry me, no one wants you", and deliberately walk slowly to give Li Chun a time to repent, while Li Chun will sit in a chair with a smile and watch the man drift away.
After many blind dates, Li Chun has met all kinds of men, but none of them can look good. It's not that Li Chun has a high eye, but that all the men who are dating her come to date with a purpose. Li Chun said, "That is, I am a piece of meat. Anyone who sees it wants to come and have a few bites for free. " However, Li Chun, who pursued happiness wholeheartedly, gradually ran out of patience and no longer had a good impression on men.
I thought my life had passed like this, but Li Chun's parents disagreed. Although Li Chun has a younger brother to carry on the family line, his parents are worried about Li Chun's marriage and have been looking for a man that Li Chun can see. Li Chun always thought that the sentence "Never forget, there will be repercussions" was a lie, but might as well, he was really found a man by his parents.
The man's name is Xiao Kai, 30 years old. He runs a small supermarket by himself. He had been in love for three years before, but it ended because the woman didn't want to get married. When we met for the first time, Li Chun took a fancy to Xiao Kai. He was funny and gentle, and he didn't care about Li Chun's age. He constantly praised Li Chun's maturity and Queen Fan.
As a result, both sides were satisfied after the blind date. When their parents saw this scene, they gave Li Chun a buffer time of half a year to get familiar with each other before deciding whether to get married. Li Chun has no objection. First of all, Xiao Kai is a good man who can support his family by running a supermarket. Second, Li Chun's age can't be delayed any longer. She is going to be a grandmother, so Li Chun decided to marry Xiao Kai.
It is said that the IQ of a woman who is deeply in love will become lower, and Li Chun still took the initiative to sink in. No matter how big or small, it is decided by Xiao Kai alone. After Xiao Kai offered to live together and get acquainted, Li Chun agreed without thinking.
Less than half a year later, Li Chun's parents hurriedly discussed marriage with their in-laws. Without it, because Li Chun is pregnant and constantly accuses Li Chun, Li Chun's parents just want to settle the marriage early. After all, pregnancy before marriage is the most prone to problems.
Li Chun doesn't mind. On the contrary, she is very happy. She can compress half a year into two months. Li Chun thinks it's all her credit. When she was complacent at home, her parents who went to discuss marriage with her in-laws came back and told her a message. "Xiao Kai's family will not give a bride price." Li Chun's father hates iron and doesn't produce it.
Li Chun is stupefied, urgent ask why? Li Chun's father replied, "This is not because you are pregnant. His family says you can marry or not. Anyway, no one dares to be pregnant except his son. What can you say? " Li Chun quickly called Xiao Kai and asked him why he did it. Xiao Kai casually said, "Who got you pregnant?"
Li Chun said: "Even if I am pregnant, you can't give the bride price. What did you say at first? Isn't it said that a good bride price will be given a lot? " Xiao Kai replied slowly, "It doesn't matter if the bride price can't come out. Anyway, I have a supermarket, you are a regular employee, and you have earned enough in ten years and one thousand years. Besides, isn't the bride price money still at your house in the end? The two families don't talk to each other. What's the difference between your money and mine? All the same. I will buy more bottles of wine for my father-in-law after the wedding. "
Li Chun was suddenly choked to speak, leaving a sentence: "You must give more money for the bride price." When he finished, he was ready to hang up. Xiao Kai smiled and said, "This is not your decision." After actively hanging up the phone, Li Chun was a little flustered, but she was unwilling. She was still going to ask Xiao Kai's house. To this end, regardless of her parents' obstruction, she drove to Xiao Kai's house.
"Son, she is not young, and now she is pregnant with a child. If she doesn't buy a house, she can't help but marry. " I walked to the door of Kay's house and heard such words in the room left unlocked. At that time, Li Chun's mood was unpredictable. He felt a little bitter and relieved.
After I left, I called Xiao Kai downstairs in Xiao Kai Community and said, "Why don't we break up? Not suitable. " Xiao Kai paused and said, "Why, you are pregnant, why did you break up?" "I just heard everything. If you don't treat me like a person, I may be wronged in your home in the future. Let's just say that. " After Li Chun coldly finished, he hung up the phone.
In those days, Kay looked for him many times, but he refused to see him because he was not feeling well. Instead of thinking about marriage or love with Kay every day, Li Chun kept stroking his abdomen, and his eyes whispered.
Li Chunang, who came out of the hospital, looked pale at the sun and said to himself stupidly, "Come on, you won't be knocked down by others, and everything will be fine." Then I stopped a taxi by the side of the road with a smile.
The reason that forced Li Chun to make the final decision was that Xiao Kai pushed his luck. She doesn't want to rely on others, and she doesn't want to be intimidated because of her children. She wanted Xiao Kai to give her a happy family and a marriage that she would never forget, but she didn't expect that this was a trap carefully set by cautious Xiao Kai.
Li Chun finally said, "Although I am an older woman, it doesn't mean that I can be a fish. I long for happiness and love, but I won't pay everything for it. Let it go. I will be single all my life or find a man who loves me, loves me and respects me. I won't insist, just follow my heart. "
Older women tend to endure many injustices. To outsiders, they deserve it, but in fact they are inferior. No matter how many conditions are offered, they must accept them. However, if they put themselves in each other's shoes, they will regret not marrying the person they love the most in the best years, and they will also regret that their eyes are too high. Without exception, the older women who finally choose to get married recognize themselves and reality and decide to find a happy marriage and family. Therefore, in this regard,