Jiang Chengzi, written by Su Shi with bitterness, brought great spiritual shock to later generations, and also let us appreciate Su Shi's gentle and sad side. Probably can't forget Wang Fu. Later, Su Shi married Wang Fu's cousin Wang Runzhi.
Runzhi is very virtuous and treats Mai Su, born to her cousin, as her own. She and Su Shi have gone through a prosperous time and a dull day together. Later, Su Shi experienced the ups and downs of officialdom, first "Wutai Poetry Case" and then "Huangzhou relegation". In the most difficult time of life, she and Su Shi picked wild vegetables together, plowed barefoot and tried to relieve Su Shi's boredom.
Su Shi's "Wutai Poetry Case" was arrested and imprisoned. Wang Runzhi was frightened and burned all Su Shi's poems. Anyone who experienced the Cultural Revolution can understand Wang Runzhi's behavior. If the China culture is damaged, the responsibility lies with the imperial court, not the woman who loves Su Shi. ?
Wang Fu's personality is "sensitive and quiet". Her cousin Wang Runzhi may not be as talented and knowledgeable as Wang Fu, but she is gentle and virtuous. When he was in Huangzhou, Su Shi was depressed and the child was still crying in front of him. Su Shi was angry and scolded. Wang Runzhi enlightened Su Shi and said, "How can you be more stupid than a child? Why are you unhappy? " .
Wang Runzhi made some side dishes and put a pot of old wine in front of him. It is a great comfort for Su Shi to have a good wife in the bitter days of Huangzhou. In fact, Wang Runzhi's talent has been destroyed by life. They have lived together for 25 years, and they are seldom happy. One night, plum blossoms were in full bloom in front of the hall, and the moonlight was clear. Wang Runzhi asked Su Shi to invite friends to drink under the flowers.
While pouring wine, leap said, "Spring moon is better than autumn moon, which is both sad and happy." Su Shi said: "For so many years, I really didn't know that my wife could write poetry. What you just said is really a poet's language. " So Su Shi wrote "Broken Magnolia": "In spring, in the afternoon, I want to dance. Nine winding corridors, dancing steps, trees among trees, half withered, and the wine is fragrant to plum. Light clouds, thin fog and moonlight on such a spring night are the time for young people to enjoy happiness. Unlike Qiu Guang, my heart is broken only for those who leave. " ?
Wang Runzhi is as cautious, simple and virtuous as Wang Fu, and is good at housekeeping. The thoughtfulness and concern for Su Shi can be said to be meticulous. She worships Su Shi very much, but now she is married and obedient to her husband. She cooks his favorite Meishan dishes and ginger tea for her husband, takes care of him when he is ill, and even tolerates his thunderous snoring and other eccentric habits.
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Su Shi has married two wives and a confidante in his life.
The first wife was Wang Fu, the niece of Wang Fang, a tribute scholar of Meizhou Qingshen (now Sichuan Qingshen). Su Shi was nineteen when he entered the "marriage hall", and Wang Fu was sixteen this year. According to Su Shi's own statement, he wants to live in seclusion, and he doesn't want to marry or be an official. It was only because of family pressure that I had to get married and take the Jinshi exam. But when Wang Fu entered Su Jia, Su Shi was moved by his meticulous service to his in-laws.
To Su Shi's surprise, Wang Fu has never read a book, but just likes to be with him when he is studying. When Wang Fu occasionally forgets something, he can recite paragraphs of text, which makes Su Shi have to sit up and take notice of her.
The love with Wang Fu left an indelible impression on Su Shi's heart. Until the seventh year of Xining (1075), when he was the chief judge of Hangzhou, he dreamed of being with Wang Fu again, but the scene of "gathering" was particularly bleak, so he began to write the eulogy "Jiang Shenzi": "Ten years of life and death are two boundless. Don't think, unforgettable ... "
Su Shi's second wife was named Wang Runzhi. In "To Wang Junxi's Father-in-Law", he said: "When marriage begins, the husband is still a son. If you allow your virtue, it will be impossible. Only men and women are heirs. " It means that Su married your niece first (the son of an uncle was called your son in ancient times), but unfortunately he died at a young age. And your little daughter leap, became Sue's wife.
Su Shi was accompanied by a beautiful woman named Wang, named Chaoyun, who was admitted to the room when he was sentenced in Hangzhou. Chaoyun was twelve years old that year and worked as a geisha in Hangzhou. Su Shi's Epitaph of Chaoyun said: "Mr. Dongpo's concubine is called Chaoyun, surnamed Wang, from Qiantang. Sensitive and honest, Mr. Shi has been in business for 20 years and is loyal and respectful. "
It seems that "sensitivity" and "righteousness" can sum up Chao Yun's character. Although the scholars in Song Dynasty had wives around them, they could also take concubines appropriately. Chaoyun's "sensitivity" is mainly manifested in art, and it is her duty to sing for Su Shi from time to time. She followed Su Shi without little fear, and was sent to Huangzhou and exiled to Huizhou, all around Su Shi.
Three years younger (1096) One day in July, Su Shi, who was bored in Huizhou, wanted to hear Chaoyun sing, so she was ordered to sing "Little Red Apricot with Faded Flowers". Chaoyun seemed to feel something, and said with tears, "What I hate to sing most is' there are few willows blowing on the branches, and there are plenty of fragrant grass in the world'." Su Shi said sadly, "We were injured by spring, and you were injured by autumn!" " Unexpectedly, a few days later, Chaoyun died in Huizhou at the age of 34.