1. Seek legal advice: Contact a professional legal adviser or lawyer, such as a marriage lawyer, who can provide you with detailed information and guidance on divorce procedures and help you understand your rights and responsibilities.
2. Contact each other: Try to contact each other through other channels, such as mail or letters. You can explain your divorce intention to the other party and ask the other party to participate in the agreement. Ensure clear and rational expression and avoid emotional expression.
3. Submit a divorce application: If the other party is unwilling to cooperate or can't contact, you can consider submitting a divorce application to the local court. In the application process, you need to provide your own identity certificate, marriage certificate and other relevant certificates.
4. Waiting for review: the court will review your application and mediate or arrange a hearing according to the situation. If your application is approved, the court will issue a divorce judgment to dissolve your marriage with the other party.
Please note that divorce procedures may be different in different regions, and it is best to consult local legal professionals for details. At the same time, try to stay calm and rational and avoid being driven by emotions to make decisions.