After the blind date, the leader enthusiastically. They contact privately, and the leader often reveals that "this blind date is the sea, and the conditions are very good" and "he is very satisfied with you". How to refuse to face when the leader introduces the object? Especially after "the leader arranged a blind date for Liu An Jr.", colleagues and colleagues should pay attention to this matter. I think she is red. Some people joked that they wanted to talk to her and were going to talk to men at the weekend. Friends? All these have put pressure on Xiao Liu. How to express your inner thoughts without fading the leadership face? Xiao Liu feels very guilty. In fact, Xiao Liu's trouble lies in how to master the problem of refusing art. If you refuse your face, you will prove your point. Leaders introduce this topic and are willing to be the media for three reasons: leaders hope to create a positive image of their subordinates by introducing people. The leader's relatives and friends are all of marriageable age, so he may be trustworthy. You need to help others.
If you talk about marriage, you won't consider the choice. Can ensure the stability of the team. In short, whatever the reason, at least it shows that you are impressed by the leader's thoughts and the leader recognizes it. The reasons for dissatisfaction with blind date are as follows: external aspects. If you don't look at it, don't be ineffective, the weight is very thin, you are not satisfied, and the other party doesn't seem to be able to turn, and it has not been the type you like for a long time; Inherent. The three viewpoints are not integrated, talk less, other personalities are lonely, their vision and pattern are too small, and they do not discuss themselves, and so on. Other aspects. Such as education, family, working environment, hobbies and so on. So if you are not satisfied with your blind date, how can you deny your leadership? Specifically, it is to be rational, powerful and restrained. When you refuse others, you can't say "we are not from the same side" or "we are not from the same side", but you must say "reasons".
Since the leader is a good introduction, I believe that if you explain directly, he will understand you. Of course, you can also actively refuse you through blind date: let the blind date feel that you are really inappropriate. For example, if the blind date attaches great importance to the other half and has a lot of money, then you can find an opportunity to reveal that you spent thousands of dollars on the set meal. I think I'll understand after listening. If he is worried, he will definitely "retreat from difficulties." Finally, just share it. It's not that I don't give you face. It's really hard. I don't want to be ambiguous. After I know, I feel very distressed for each other. I don't think these two people are suitable. I want to refuse others, but I say "very good" and "quite excellent". In a short time, you will not damage the leader and blind obedience you introduced, but will accompany you to "play" with each other. Finally, it is very passive.
Just like Xiao Liu above, he said "very well" and "feeling too" to the leader, giving others the wrong signal, leading his colleagues and being blind. I think they are very interesting. So, don't use the central word "good", maybe ",your ambiguous attitude will make the other party feel that this is an opportunity and expectation. What you have to do is that you will clearly "show your attitude". When we reject each other, whether it is the Standing Committee of the CPC Central Committee or even the other party, we will think that "you are really not suitable". Inside, there will be more damage. On this primary bone, don't hurt others' self-esteem, which is called "some knots"
If you have a date, you may want to "make sure your friends" to satisfy you. So, are you still doing it? Since he also admits that you are not suitable, obviously, please eat at this time, there is still a little expectation; Or, just have dinner with you and clear up the misunderstanding. So, you still need to analyze it. If you don't go or refuse directly, the blind date will definitely have an influence on the leader and will definitely have a positive impression on you in your mind. I hope the leaders will not be too picky. Maybe the leader will not put others in your eyes and not show up. At this time, you can ask him for advice, bring your friends and have dinner together; Of course, don't accept his gift. It is better not to spend money. Tell him: we can't be together. As a friend, I accept your invitation.