Avoid quarreling. If two people have conflicts, it's best to talk directly and then solve them. When the mood is unstable, it is easy for people to think the other person's ideas wrong. Don't talk about breaking up no matter how excited you are. Talk about breaking up more, and gradually presuppose the possibility of breaking up in each other's hearts. Don't control each other, don't try to change each other. Emotion is care, not bondage. Be yourself, love is not the whole of life, don't pay too much attention to and interfere with each other's lives, and don't blindly compromise and immerse yourself in touching yourself. Love is not a transaction. Everyone expresses love in different ways. Too much haggling will only hurt each other. I don't want to regret it one day, so I try to be nice to him (her).
Have your own life, enrich your knowledge, improve your taste, and don't turn each other's lives around. Over time, the two sides will keep a sense of freshness for a long time, and contact with each other, as if opening the door to a new world. Don't expect too much from a perfect person. Not everyone will meet a soul mate and know how to be content. Choose two people to discover an interesting world together, not me to discover an interesting person. Make sure this relationship is what you really like. Not every relationship needs to be maintained. If you lack love, please love yourself more, so that you won't always want to find security from others.
Call each other at least every day. No matter how busy you are, tell each other something you think is interesting half an hour or twenty minutes before going to bed. Even if it is the contradiction between you and your colleagues, or the suspicion between your girlfriend and your best friend, either share or listen. Say good night to each other before going to bed. Don't make a phone call if you can make a video, and don't use WeChat text if you can make a phone call. I still have to travel together once a year, preferably in a long-distance relationship. Many people say that it is inappropriate for two people to be together, depending on the state of going out to travel together. Are you bothered by making travel plans?