Divorced women are miserable without a house. In real life, not all marriages have good results, and some people will be separated for various reasons. Share a message about the tragic situation of divorced women who have no house here. Let's have a look!
Divorced women are miserable without a house. 1 A woman's marriage is a second reincarnation. She has a good investment, a happy life, a bad investment and a torment of nirvana.
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I know a woman who just doesn't get married. After more than ten years of marriage, she not only failed in marriage, but also went out clean and got nothing. Let's call her Xiaoyu.
Xiaoyu is actually very beautiful and very good at dressing up. She is a good girl with taste. She and her ex-husband went to college together. They fell in love in college and went back to their hometown together after graduation.
Xiaoyu went to a bank, and her work was stable and relaxed. Her boyfriend went to a large company with a good scale.
After two people get married, because her husband is an only child, their wedding room is a four-bedroom apartment in a luxurious community, which was bought by her mother-in-law long before they got married.
Xiaoyu, who just got married, is very happy. Her in-laws do housework at home, and her husband loves her very much. At that time, she was driving a dowry car given to her by her mother, and everywhere she went was a beautiful scenery.
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However, the good times did not last long. After a few years, her husband was sent by the company to work in other places, far from home, and the two began a long-term separation life.
By this time, their daughter had been born, usually brought up by her parents-in-law, so although her husband was not around, her daughter participated in the energy and she gradually got used to it.
In the first two years after going out, the relationship between husband and wife was ok. Her husband occasionally takes advantage of his position to come back for reunion. When she is free, she also takes her daughter to visit relatives and stay for a period of time.
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One day, Xiaoyu found that something was wrong with her husband. The underwear I wore when I came back was different from what I took, and I was not enthusiastic about Xiaoyu. Xiaoyu knows that something must be wrong.
While her husband was asleep, she turned on his mobile phone, which not only saw some ambiguous chat records, but also found some items used by women in the shopping records, including lipstick, eye cream, clothes and jewelry.
Finally, she opened the payment record of WeChat and saw that her husband and a woman were very close, and there were many red envelopes, including Valentine's Day just past. Her husband actually sent a 13 14.
She kept all these records, then woke her husband and started asking questions. But her husband's attitude surprised her. Her husband said that he was going to discuss divorce with her when he came back this time, because he fell in love with another woman, and that woman was pregnant for him.
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In this way, Xiaoyu's marriage suffered the first waterloo in her life. The man changed his mind and ten cows couldn't be pulled back. She knows that this is the separation caused by living apart. How many men can stay lonely for a long time at night?
Although it is wrong for her husband to cheat, they have no public property, the house is not in their name, and Xiaoyu's husband has no savings. Therefore, Xiaoyu can only run away from home after divorce, because her mother-in-law can't live any longer and her self-esteem is not allowed. Xiaoyu left this home with her daughter and started a sojourning life back to her family.
I heard that her ex-husband remarried shortly after she left. At the place where he works, her former mother-in-law bought a house for their young couple and is waiting to have grandchildren.
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This is the marriage that Xiaoyu met. In this marriage, although she tasted love and affection, when she finally divorced, she had nothing but her children.
So, I really don't like women living in old people after marriage. In this case, if they divorce, the woman has nothing. It is better to buy a suite by mortgage, even if you don't live in it, at least the money won't be squandered and turned into a house. In case of any changes in your marriage, you can still have a home.
Therefore, women should not easily enter these two pits without independent houses and separation, because there are too many uncertain factors in marriage, and no one can guarantee marriage once and for all. Take precautions and make more preparations. This is not only to love yourself, but also to be responsible for your children!
Divorced women are miserable without a house. I believe that many people will think marriage is so sacred when they mention it, because most people will only get married once in their lives. Therefore, many people will pay more attention to marriage, dare not get married casually, and will not divorce casually.
Indeed, we may meet all kinds of people in our life, but not so many people can walk through life hand in hand with themselves. Therefore, marriage is very important to both men and women, and it deserves our lifelong protection.
It is true that sometimes we think that marriage is really important to us, but sometimes people's lives are probably not smooth sailing, sometimes they think they can stay together for life, and sometimes they may become strangers because of a little thing.
So, this is called divorce. In fact, divorce seems easy, because two people just need to go to the civil affairs bureau to get a certificate to separate, but how much inner torture they have to experience in the middle is actually the most painful part of divorce. At the same time, compared with men, it may be more difficult for women to get out of divorce.
Today, I will show you the following three points. Let's have a look. If a woman is divorced, the biggest failure is not divorce, nor is she without a car or a house, nor is she clean from home. If there is, she will be encouraged to change.
1, feel sorry for yourself and fall into the sadness of divorce.
We all know that marriage is really important, so we all want to manage our love and marriage well before and after marriage, and no one wants the last two people to divorce together, because this is the last thing we want to see. But if it's time for divorce, it's really because there are problems in the marriage of two people, and it's still an irreconcilable contradiction, and choosing divorce is the final decision made by two people after careful consideration.
If our marriage really reaches the point of divorce, if we really choose divorce, then we will be responsible for our choices after divorce. Don't say that we are divorced women, looking humiliated and trapped in an endless cycle of self-pity.
In fact, sometimes people live for themselves, and no one can be happy all his life. It is inevitable to go the wrong way in life, but I am afraid that if I know that the road is wrong, I will continue to walk on the wrong road. Sometimes it is the most precious thing to pull back from the brink in time when you are wrong.
I can't let go of my previous relationship and keep in touch with my predecessor.
As we all know, in fact, sometimes two people are inseparable together, largely because of habit. It seems that I am used to having you in my life and being around me, so once two people are separated, from the perspective of a joint, they may be very unaccustomed at first.
But in fact, in feelings, what we fear most is getting used to it. Because we are used to it, we may miss someone. Without her, we may not be used to it and feel that there is no him in our life. But this is not the case, because after the divorce, the two people actually made a big decision, and there is no need to contact again.
But after the first divorce, maybe a woman will habitually contact her ex at first because of habit, giving herself a heartfelt consciousness, and she still loves each other, but is this really the case? If it was really because of love, you two might not get divorced.
Therefore, if two people are really divorced and can't contact each other, try not to contact each other, because then you can leave dignity for each other and give yourself a chance to start over, instead of obsessing over the previous relationship.
3. Unwilling to give yourself a new chance to start over.
In fact, sometimes when our feelings come to an end, we will feel as if we have failed emotionally, as if the world is not beautiful, as if there is no real feeling in the world, which is not the case. Why? Because one mistake doesn't mean you will be wrong in the future.
It's wrong for two people to be together. It's best for two people to be apart. It's not that it's useless to stick together for the sake of children and families. So, woman, if two people really want to separate, they must never look back.
But nothing is more important than being able to live a happy life with yourself and your loved ones. Therefore, divorced women should live more bravely. Since I missed a relationship before, if I have a good impression on them again, women should not feel as if they are divorced and different from others.
But to really face your feelings, and if you think it's worth it, go after it bravely. Because happiness is for yourself, you can't rely on others to give it to yourself. If good feelings come to you, you must cherish them.
Summary: Actually, according to relevant statistics, the divorce rate in China is increasing year by year. In fact, divorce seems to be more common in everyone's life now. We are no longer bound by the form of marriage, and each of us has the right to pursue our own happiness.
If marriage brings us endless sweetness, then we should cherish the people we love and go on together; But on the contrary, if marriage can't bring us happiness but endless pain, we should also dare to jump out and choose to live according to our own lifestyle.
At the same time, if you really choose this path, you must learn to be responsible for your own life. Since you have chosen, try not to look back, because it doesn't seem to help the feelings of two people, and it may only aggravate your own pain. All we have to do is believe in our choices and live our lives the way we want.
And we must work harder to become a better self and make ourselves better. If we meet someone we like again in our later life, we can accept it calmly, instead of feeling that we are divorced as if we are not worthy of each other. There is no such thing in this world.
Only like it or not and love it or not, if the person you like is born right. Therefore, divorced women are not the most failed. What fails is that you have not become a better self. I hope this passage is helpful to everyone, and I hope everyone can become a better self.
It is miserable for a divorced woman to have no house. A woman who has been divorced for many years has no money and no house. She is almost 50 years old. Does anyone still love her?
The core value of people has always been money, car and house, and it should not be age, but self-confidence, perseverance and optimism. Not only that, many outstanding figures grow with age.
On the other hand, if people turn their core values into houses, cars and money, people without these will naturally have no core values. In my opinion, people's interaction and attracting others are their core values.
Just like the money in the garage, some people think that these are core values, and if they have the same, they will show it, while another group of people who also think that these are core values will attract each other. This is the relationship between some money worshippers and rich people, but they are attracted to each other. On the one hand, RV money is the core value, and on the other hand, youth and beauty are the core values. This seemingly fair attraction is actually unfair, because the core values will change with age.
However, if self-confidence, advice, optimism and humor are the core values, they will also attract people who regard these as core values. If compared on the emotional scale, Excellence = love = money room, the values are the same, but the difference is that different people treat it with different scales.
Because feelings and love are subjective, you will pay for what you care about and what you find in each other. If you care about money, you have to pay the young and beautiful people that the other person cares about, but if the other person cares about your excellent quality, the other person naturally needs what you expect, and I think it should be the same.
So there is nothing wrong with age and divorce. If the conclusion is just to know whether I will be loved or not, then I can tell you seriously that there will be, just because the core values that people care about have been transferred to Qian Ku, paying special attention to age and divorce, but it doesn't mean that everyone does. I suggest you improve your excellent quality at this time, and you can meet people who love you. On the contrary, what if you don't meet them? You're already fine.
I think you are still loved. People who really love you don't care if you have a car and a house. No matter what you do, he will be good to you.
Don't sell yourself short, thinking that when you are old, no one will want you. If you keep this idea, it will be difficult for you to meet true love, because you limit yourself and feel that you are not wanted. How do others respect you? You have to have confidence in your future to find someone who is really good to you. People don't care about your age or whether you have a car or a house.
Every woman has the right to pursue happiness, which has nothing to do with age, looks and family circumstances. If you really love someone, you love this person, not the things in this person. If you really love someone, everything else is secondary, and he will only want to live with you all his life and bring you happiness and happiness.
Life is so long, 50 years old is not too big. You can't scare yourself away. You should learn to bravely break the shackles of your heart and strive for happiness. Your wife, wife, and old age will be with you. You also need someone who can lead a dull life with you at this age.
People of this age have long been washed away from the idea of seeking happiness, and their demands are not so much. Just be good to yourself. No young people should consider having a car and a house. The best happiness at this age is to be with them forever. This is what we should do now. 50 years old. What's wrong? As long as we are young, we can live from 50 to 18, and be young forever. Mentality is the most important thing.
So don't sell yourself short and think you can't. You must have confidence in yourself to find true happiness.
In this society with more men and fewer women, there are only single men and no women left. The rest of the women are really disappointed in love and don't want to find a man. I feel that as a woman, no matter what your own conditions are. In this society, there is always a man with the same conditions as you, waiting to love you. As a woman, you don't need to feel inferior because of your poor conditions, and you don't need to think that no one in the world loves you.
For women, neither money nor a house is a necessary material. Many men want to attract women and need money and houses. And we women rely more on our own charm to attract men. Your virtuous and virtuous qualities, and your gentle and watery personality are all important qualities that attract men. Women have no money and no house, but men can provide it. Men love women, basically not the material conditions of love, but the women they love.
A woman who has been divorced for many years, nearly 50 years old, should be able to better understand the ups and downs of society, and have a sense of maturity and beauty. A woman of this age is the most intense moment in bloom in her life. You have to believe in yourself, there will be a man who will take care of your delicate blooming flowers, accompany you through the rest of your life and give you the most stable happiness.
At this time, you just need to have a good mental state and live a happy life every day. A woman with unrestrained spirit, a cheerful and confident woman, is a woman that men like at any age and a goddess in men's hearts. So be yourself and meet true love!
Someone loves her not because she has money, but because she has a good character. If she has a good personality, even if she has nothing, she will win the love of men.
Two people fall in love together, not only because the other person has money, but also because the material foundation is only a small part of it. What matters is the person's character. If you have a bad personality and a lot of money, no one will really like you. Because you have money, you may have many friends of the opposite sex around you, but they value your money, not your people. When you lose your wealth, they will disperse in a hubbub. On the contrary, if you have no money and outstanding personality, although there is only one person around you, this person really loves you.
As for age, it is not a problem. No matter how old you are, there are always men in this age group. Young people in their twenties will like you, but men in their fifties and sixties will fall in love with you because of your excellent personality. It is often said that it is a bit inappropriate to use department stores to send hundreds of customers here, but the reason is the same.