I'm sorry to say that Xue Mingde has invited three dinners before, which just coincides with my activities and can't attend the dinner. Susu's birthday, anyway.
To tell the truth, I really like Susu, not only because she married Xue Mingde without hesitation, but also because she used love and tolerance. Most importantly, she "understood" him, influenced the seemingly stone-hard appearance of the "old oak tree" and comforted his heart with tenderness. The power of love is really great, and it can completely transform people. In the past, the "powder keg" with an angry face and bursting hair has become a kind-hearted, hard-hearted and good-natured person who has learned to apologize to others.
On 20 19 65438+ 10/month 18, mingde informed me that she and susu registered to get married that day. Then, he invited me to his home, and solemnly invited me: "Welcome to my humble abode. Susie and I are newly married. You can come by bus with Wang Yu and Liqun in a golden moment. Thank you!
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In fact, I learned about his "legendary love story" with Susu from his fellow villagers.
Mingde told me that his affection for Susu originated from her evaluation of his paintings, and he felt that he had met a bosom friend.
I asked susu curiously, "I want to know that the first time you commented on his paintings, he thought you" understood him ". Do you remember what you said? "
Su Su said that she and Xue Mingde were in a WeChat group. Once Mingde posted a newly finished painting in the group, she commented: "From the colors you painted, I saw a life force emanating from the abyss. 」
This sentence suddenly hit Mingde's heart and shocked him. He felt that he had met an artistic bosom friend and privately exchanged WeChat with Su Su. The two hit it off very well, and there was a great feeling of seeing each other for a long time. The spark of love was burning, and soon Susie came to America as a fiancee.
I always thought Susie was the best gift from God to Mingde! It is also compensation for his suffering in the first half of his life. With her, everything is worth it!
Susu said frankly: "Because he has suffered too much, the artist is a little' retarded' in his daily life and feels sorry for him. There must be sympathy in love, but sympathy is not necessarily love. However, women are maternal and easy to sympathize with others. "
Susu also said: "I don't have to be responsible for anyone in this life, my heart is open." This pure peace is also a comfort to myself. Because they are both so kind by nature. "
Su Su, who holds a master's degree in literature, has a certain degree of admiration and sympathy for Xue Mingde. She once compared Trump and Mingde, saying that they have many similarities. They are full of vitality, big mouths, never care what others think, don't play cards according to common sense, go their own way, be willful, expose their shortcomings, and be keen and firm. These are things that ordinary people can't understand, but people who like them are kind-hearted and those who hate them are very distinct.
"They are also touchstones to test human nature and whether you can see the essence of things. This is the man who made history! " She is determined to arrange a series of paintings for Xue Mingde and summarize his artistic thoughts and painting theories in this life. "
However, Susu stressed: "In fact, my love for Xue Mingde is very sober and rational. Not by impulse or simple worship of him. He has many shortcomings that are shared by many men and can be tolerated. However, his advantages are not available to many men. He is as simple as a child, without scheming or hypocrisy. In particular, his sincerity and purity in art and other two aspects make me feel that he is a tough man, a great husband, worthy of entrustment and worth paying for him. "
Xue Mingde was once famous for his hot temper and cynicism in the art circles at home and abroad. Before I met Susie, I often quarreled with people to see who was not pleasing to the eye. This is related to his suffering.
He once told me: "Jiuzhou can't hold one of my tripods and picture frames. I like the art of painting beauty. Because the art of beauty belongs to the bourgeoisie and cannot serve the proletariat, Xue Mingde is a reactionary. From 1969 to 1993, he went through hardships. He was robbed of property seven times and imprisoned seven times, which lasted for nine years until I was 44 years old and exiled myself.
"From then on, I can draw whatever I want, and I can draw whatever I want. No one will pester me about my painting purpose. I said that the purpose of painting is beauty, and I have suffered a lot for it. "
Since the days of Susu, Xue Mingde has been wandering and lonely for a long time, full of love and sunshine, full of creativity and rich paintings, and has written millions of words of artistic theories and memoirs, hoping to publish them as soon as possible.
His painting theory is: "Everything you love and think in your heart, the painter has nothing. Your personality is a display of beauty, which is achieved through color. So, you draw with color in your hand and appreciate beauty through the ideas on the canvas. In this way, the painter turned color into color, the musician turned sound into music, and the music had tone, melody and rhythm. The colors in the painting are tonal, and the cold and warm colors are contrasted and juxtaposed with the same color. There are two groups of contrasting colors, red and green, orange and purple, which can't be combined and can produce wonderful colors.
In the eyes of the painter, there is only color, nothing else. The trees people see are only the colors of the painter. Only I, Xue Mingde, can say this concept. I will further explain what painting art is, why and how to paint, and the beauty of painting is the highest realm of art ... "
On Valentine's Day last February 14, he diligently shared with me: "Today, I received a gift that I have been dreaming of for a long time. In the twilight, Susie made a special trip to the store to buy headphones, which had excellent sound quality. I went to the flower shop to buy a big bunch of flowers, including white flowers, carnations, red roses and purple, yellow and white chrysanthemums, which made our room look like spring and full of love. "
In order to support Xue Mingde's career, Susie has to work hard now, but she deliberately chose the kind that only needs to work five days a week and stay with her husband for the other two days. Usually painting requires canvas pigments, and Susie is never stingy. He likes to wear leather shoes, white shirts and trousers, and so does she. Mingde is always too expensive when buying, and she feels sorry for her wife's hard work to make money and is reluctant to spend money. But once put on, it is as happy as a child wearing new clothes for the New Year, and even a little complacent.
Xue Mingde likes flowers and likes painting flowers. Susu said that she liked the flowers he painted. Every time he paints the flowers he bought, "I think the flowers are worth it, and the flowers will no longer fade." Every year on my birthday, he will draw me a portrait, which is his best reward for me. "
On Susu's birthday this year, Xue Mingde made a statue for her and painted a picture with "green tone". The inscription is: "That piece of green is full of vitality and tenderness, how sweet you smile, green tone, the color of spring, you belong to spring, 202 1.4.7".
At present, Xue Mingde is preparing to open a gallery and hold an art exhibition in Long Island. Decoration needs money, and Susu also fully supports and promises to invest. "I only have one thought, I hope he is happy!"
Visible Xue Mingde to Sue Sue also moved the truth. He said, "The spring breeze in Su Su turns to rain to water the old oak trees and rejuvenate them."
On the birthday party this year, he looked at Susie affectionately. Compared with his eyes, which are always full of resentment and anger, as if the whole world is sorry for him, that moment moved me. I took some photos of "pool cold tenderness".
I hope that in the years to come, they will know each other, cherish their blessings and cherish their fate, and walk hand in hand on the road of life and go through vicissitudes!