Although you are poor now, you won't be poor all your life. As long as you have the seeds of success in your heart, then the immediate poverty is nothing. Through struggle, you will change the status quo and have wealth. Henry Fok, a famous entrepreneur, is such a person. He spent his childhood on a sampan. At that time, his family drifted on the sampan all the year round. When he was 7 years old, his father was shipwrecked in a storm. Since then, life has become more difficult. After the outbreak of War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression, the life of the Huo family became more difficult. He had to give up his studies and become an apprentice. The poor family and rough life in childhood honed his will and cultivated his self-improvement character. He vowed to get ahead and change his destiny. He did it. He succeeded. If he doesn't have self-confidence and belief in success, maybe he is still wandering in poverty.
Give up complaining! Spend more time to make up for birth defects. Poor people, give up complaining about time and strive to create wealth for their future life; If you are ugly, give up complaining time and study hard for a wide range of knowledge, and the charm of that unique connotation will go beyond your appearance; As for the latter two, they will be doubly cared for by society and more people. Life is fair to everyone. As long as we are willing to work hard and seize the opportunity, you will find how stupid it is to complain and feel inferior blindly.
When a newspaper reported the story of Jiangsu's re-employment advanced individual, she once said:
"I used to be a female worker in Jiangsu Yancheng Plastic Products Factory. 199 1 year was laid off because of factory shutdown, and lived on the living expenses of tens of yuan per month. I feel unprecedented emptiness and loss. I look at people who go to work outside the window every day, envious and sad. But I didn't give up. I wholesaled some plastic products from the factory, set foot on a tricycle and started the business of a mobile vendor. Go to the market in the morning, run to the suburbs at noon, and wait for work at night. Where there are many people, you will run around. When you are hungry, you will eat enough. When you are thirsty, you will drink cold water. When you are tired, you will rest under the tree. Although I leave early and return late, I can't earn much money at the end of the day, but I feel practical and exercise my perseverance. Half a year later, with the support of the factory, I rented a small shop in the factory, engaged in some small commodities, and the shop opened. Due to lack of experience and liquidity, I lost money every month in the first few months of my business, and I couldn't even pay the rent. Some people who don't know the truth wrote the words "leave without paying the rent" in the shop, but I didn't stop there. I want to fight again. My husband and I borrowed the rent from the east and the west, bought a freezer and sold cold drinks. In order to enrich the supply of goods, I took a bus to Shanghai overnight and used the savings saved by a summer sweat to purchase goods. "
"After many twists and turns, I came back with a few lights. The store is small and unknown, and business is difficult to do. I sell it at home. Once I came to a construction site, as soon as I opened my mouth, people said that the lamps had been booked. But I am not discouraged. The next day, I pulled a sample of lamps with a tricycle and told them about the performance and installation of each lamp. I followed the person in charge of the construction site wherever he went. After three trips, I finally got the business.
Through unremitting efforts, my business is getting better and better. 1993 I rented a business hall of 400 square meters and a warehouse of 2000 square meters. Two years later, I opened two branches one after another. At present, the assets of our lighting corporation have reached 8 million yuan, becoming the boss of Yancheng lighting industry. "
Face each other's laid-off and unemployment, and did not complain. She always buried the seeds of success in her heart, and finally succeeded by her own efforts. Under the oppression of poverty, only those who dare to struggle can achieve something. Since ancient times, well-known myths and legends such as Pangu's creation of the world, Jingwei's reclamation, and Yu Gong's removal of mountains have shaped the image of pioneers who created the world and transformed nature through labor, reflecting the spiritual connotation of the Chinese nation's courage to struggle and self-improvement. Those who struggle are successful, and those who love to struggle will eventually come out. Pu Songling, a famous writer in Qing Dynasty, wrote such a couplet: "Where there is a will, there is a way. If we cross the rubicon, 102 Qin Pass will eventually belong to the State of Chu; " Hard-working people live up to expectations, and 3 thousand armor can swallow Wu. "Once the poor are struggling, their wisdom, energy and potential will be brought into extraordinary play; When people are desperate, they often use their quick wits. Many things that they can't even imagine are completed in the process of spelling.
When the Workers Daily reported the deeds of Wu Xiufeng, the winner of the May 1st Labor Medal in Yantai, Shandong Province, she once said:
"1990, my pear winery in Laiyang City, Shandong Province closed down, and I got off the job. The husband suffers from central nervous system diseases. At that time, I had not received a penny salary for more than two years, and I lived on my husband's sick pay of 90 yuan per month. Besides paying rent and utilities, I have to pay my husband's medical expenses and children's tuition, usually by borrowing money and helping my parents. "
"In desperation, I had an idea: going back to the countryside to farm, on the one hand, reducing the energy consumption of planting flowers at home, on the other hand, contracting some responsible fields, so that you don't have to worry about eating. It is not easy to return to the countryside from the city to be a farmer. "
"1in the spring of 994, my family and I bid farewell to the bustling county and returned to my husband's hometown. I contracted 7 mu of responsibility field and started to deal with Tukla. I have never done farm work. During the day, like a male worker, I change my sleeves and open my arms to work in the fields. When I come back at night, I have to take care of my children, decoct medicine and wait on my husband. Sweat on sunny days, mud on rainy days, and seldom sleep at night.
"In order to get rid of the economic difficulties as soon as possible, I began to consider making a fuss about developing family farming. One day, I read a message in the newspaper: raising minks can make money. I think the countryside has convenient conditions. You can try. The next day, I borrowed 1 000 yuan from Dongnuoxi and bought a pair of breeding ferrets for breeding. Due to lack of experience, the bought breeding ferrets have self-bitten and cannot be fed. In the face of failure, I was not discouraged, so I bought a pair of minks and raised them carefully. Everything pays off. My mink soon multiplied from 2 to more than 60, becoming a large mink breeding family in Laiyang. "
People who like to struggle will not just say that they are striving for progress, but in fact they will still be lazy and have no change every day. Those who are lazy to struggle always complain about the injustice of the world, the misfortune of their families and the disadvantage of their careers. These people can only be fixed in the framework of losers. If one day, they can calm down, do what I do in a down-to-earth manner, and abandon the complaints of losers, then one day he will be surprised to find that he is no longer that mediocre person, and his efforts have made a qualitative change in him.
A farmer's donkey accidentally fell into a dry well. The farmer racked his brains to find a way to save the donkey, but several hours later, the donkey was still crying in the well. Finally, the farmer decided to give up. He felt that the donkey was old anyway, and it was not worth the trouble to save it. However, it's useful for you anyway, so bury it. So the farmer invited his neighbor to help him bury the donkey in the well to avoid its pain. The farmer's neighbor, with a shovel in his hand, began to shovel dirt into the dry well.
When the donkey realized his situation, it began to bark painfully. But surprisingly, after a while, the donkey was quiet. The farmer looked curiously at the bottom of the well. He was stunned by what he saw: when the mud shoveled into the well fell on the donkey's back, the donkey's reaction was amazing-it shook off the mud and stood on the shoveled pile! In this way, the donkey shook off all the dirt that everyone shoveled on it at the bottom of the well and stood up. Soon, the donkey proudly rose to the wellhead, and then quickly ran away in the stunned expression of everyone!
When the donkey in the story encountered setbacks, he did not complain about the injustice of his fate, but took a positive attitude and saved himself with his own efforts, bringing him new vitality.
Whether a person can be happy or not depends on his attitude towards setbacks. Isn't this donkey a good example?
Just like a donkey, in the journey of life, the poor will inevitably fall into a "dry well" and be dumped on themselves by various "sands". The secret of getting out of this "dry well" is to shake off the "sediment" and then stand on it!
In fact, the poverty encountered in life is the "sand" imposed on yourself. However, from another perspective, they are also stepping stones. As long as you shake them off persistently and then stand up, you can get out of trouble safely even if you fall into the deepest well. Originally, it seemed that the donkey was going to be buried alive, but because of its different attitude towards the predicament, it actually helped it, which was an important factor to change the fate of poverty. If you can struggle and work hard with a positive attitude in the face of poverty, then this kind of help often hides trouble.
The poor must face failure, ups and downs, and despise the stumbling block of life!
Mr Michael Bloomberg, the mayor of new york, is not only a successful politician, but also a successful entrepreneur. Bloomberg, founded by him, is a leading enterprise in the financial information industry in the United States, with an annual income of more than $3 billion. No one expected that such a successful person would have the experience of being swept out of the house.
Bloomberg graduated from Harvard University. He once got a low-level job in a famous salomon brothers brokerage firm on Wall Street. Brilliant and studious, Bloomberg quickly emerged as the backbone of this company. Peng Bo is in the spring breeze, and he wants to do something big. Unexpectedly, salomon brothers brokerage company was acquired by Fibro, and when the top management of Fibro reorganized, Bloomberg was swept out of the house.
This unexpected blow did not crush Bloomberg. He quickly adjusted his mentality, invested100,000 dollars and founded his first company, Bloomberg Consulting. 10 years later, Bloomberg suddenly became the king of the financial information industry in the United States, and in 2002, with $50 million in campaign funds, he participated in the mayor election of new york City and became the mayor of 108. Bloomberg's experience tells us that being kicked out of the house is not terrible because it brings people pain and often brings new opportunities.
Don't give up the wings of your dreams because of failure. Don't complain in the face of failure! Because complaining can't change the facts. As Bill Gates said: Life is unfair, get used to it!
People who struggle in poverty will always inspire themselves. People who love fighting are always struggling and never allow themselves a moment of comfort; Fighting people are always walking, and they seldom stop to have a rest; People who love to fight are always persistent. They seek their goals and never give up. People who love fighting don't blame others, attribute their failures and poverty to other reasons, and can know how to turn complaints into practical actions in time.
Many people complain about the difficulty of the situation, and then find it useless and shut up. Complaining is equivalent to walking barefoot on the gravel road, while optimism is a pair of solid shoes. If you are not satisfied with yourself and the society around you, you will start to complain, do your best to complain, and see no hope of life all day. Gradually, your spirit will be exhausted, your passion will be buried in the dark ocean forever, and then you will be confused, stagnant, and even fail. The real winner will realize the hope and value of life from every little thing.
The Qin Dynasty in the 2nd century BC was the first unified feudal dynasty in the history of China, and the Great Wall of Wan Li, China was formed in this dynasty. However, due to the tyranny of the father and son emperors, the rule of the Qin Dynasty was only 15 years. At the end of Qin Dynasty, the peasant uprising was surging, and heroes came forth in large numbers. Han Xin was one of the famous military commanders.
Han Xin was a famous military commander in ancient China. He was born in poverty and lost his parents at an early age. Before the army was established, Han Xin was neither in business nor willing to farm, and had no property at home. He lives a poor and discriminated life and often eats every meal. He has some friendship with a local official, so he often goes to that official's house for free meals. But after a long time, the official's wife became disgusted with him and planned to eat early. Han Xin arrived without food. Han Xin was very angry and broke up with the official.
For future life, Han Xin had to go fishing in the local Huaihe River. An old lady who washed clothes saw that he had no food, so she gave him the food she had brought. In this way, Han Xin was moved for dozens of days and said to the old lady, "I will definitely repay you one day." The old lady was very angry and said, "You are a man. You can't support yourself. I only give you food because you pity me. Who wants you to repay me? " Han Xin was very ashamed and determined to make a career.
At that time, some young people looked down on Han Xin. One day, a teenager saw that Han Xin was tall, but he often carried a sword. Thinking that he was timid, he stopped Han Xin in downtown and said, "If you have courage, draw your sword and stab me;" If you are a coward, get under my crotch. " The onlookers knew that this was a deliberate act of finding fault and humiliating Han Xin, and they didn't know what Han Xin would do. See Han Xin thought for a long time, without saying a word, from the man's crotch. Everyone present at that time laughed and thought that Han Xin was a timid person who was afraid of death and had no courage. Faced with this situation, Han Xin did not complain about how bad his life experience was, nor did he give up on himself, but endured the humiliation of his legs.
In fact, Han Xin is a very resourceful person. He saw that the society was in the process of changing dynasties, so he devoted himself to studying the art of war and practicing martial arts, believing that he would have a bright future. Later, peasant uprisings against the rule of the Qin Dynasty broke out all over the country, and Han Xin joined a stronger army. The leader of this army was Liu Bang, who later became the founding emperor of the next dynasty. Since then, Han Xin has been helping Liu Bang conquer the world. He won many wars and made great contributions.
When a person is facing poverty and life setbacks, everyone hopes to turn poverty into wealth, turn setbacks into smooth roads and win the glory of life. But to overcome poverty and setbacks, the key lies in your own determination and efforts. As the saying goes, "failure is the mother of success, and suffering is the wealth of life." Its original intention is to guide people to sum up setbacks seriously, learn lessons from life, adjust themselves scientifically and actively seek ways to overcome setbacks. In this way, frustration is like a "mentor of life", which urges you to turn bad things into good things and move towards success step by step. If you are passive and patient in the face of poverty and setbacks, complain about others, or even give up on yourself, then poverty will always be poverty, setbacks will always be setbacks, and you will never reap the fruits of success anyway.
A long hard life can best temper a person's will. But there are also many people who will only blame others and muddle along after encountering difficulties. Just like Han Xin mentioned above, although he had to bow his head in the face of difficulties, his heart never gave in. Through continuous efforts, he finally won his victory.
Complaining won't do anything. Complaining is a self-defense mechanism in human nature, and it is really difficult to completely cut it off. If you feel that you can't stop complaining at all, you should at least remind yourself that this kind of complaint is only a temporary vent, which can be used as an anesthetic for the soul, but it is by no means a salvation for the soul. An enlightened person who truly transcends the trivial world of mortals, the first thing to achieve is to stop complaining. In the face of all misunderstandings, attacks, slander, praise and praise, enlightened people can bear it calmly with an open mind. The ancients said that "there is no cloud on the ridge, and there is a wave when the moon sets". The so-called "I am not afraid of the red dust to cover my eyes, and the moon wheel penetrates the marsh water without a trace". It seems almost impossible to stop complaining. In fact, as we all know, this was originally a simple thing that everyone could do. As the old saying goes, "A straight heart is the Dojo". If you can do it without complaining at all and always take responsibility for yourself, then your life will be very difficult.
Only those who keep growing up in setbacks can be exposed to more life experiences and turn these experiences into wisdom and ability. When opportunities come with risks, they can accurately grasp opportunities, calmly cope with challenges and catch the train to success in time.
Complaining is not an active lifestyle, and it is difficult for people who love complaining to work hard. Some people succeed because they turn their complaints into actions from beginning to end and constantly strive to sublimate their lives.