A few years ago, about 20 12, I read "Similar Love" while browsing the web, and the names Feng Jingjing, C and He Ping were printed in my heart. I seldom read articles, novels and games online, and I don't like reading romance novels, but this story touched me from the depths, and every character can show his character even with a few strokes. They live, love and bear, as if they really exist in my life.
The content on the internet is really abusive. Feng Jingjing is a simple girl who has just graduated from college. She has had a crush on C since 19. Later, C broke up with his girlfriend Koizumi, who had been in love for ten years. Because Koizumi was infertile and C belonged to a man like Gao Fushuai, her single mother couldn't accept that there was no third generation, so she hit Yuanyang. In order to forget C as soon as possible, Koizumi made a new boyfriend and began to live together. C was disheartened and married Jingjing. However, C and Koizumi are too in love, so they can't love each other. They are kind to Jingjing, but they can't give Jingjing feelings. Jingjing is pure, kind and sensitive, and really loves C, so she is eager to be accepted by him, but C and Koizumi never let go of each other. Although Koizumi didn't get involved in Jingjing's marriage and wanted to stay away from C, he never forgot C and C spared no effort to help Koizumi. For example, my ex-girlfriend fell in love and stood up for her. I helped my ex-girlfriend's funeral, and I didn't go home for a few days and didn't explain it to my ex-wife. After marriage, I traveled alone to the place agreed with my ex-girlfriend to realize my dream of love, and I didn't explain it to my ex-wife. Ex-wife can't reach him. Wait. So Jingjing became more and more sad, and C and Jingjing could not find a good way to communicate. Jingjing met He Ping with humor in this situation, and they got closer and closer. Later, he ping cheated on her in marriage and got together with C.
This story is called "Meeting and Leaving". Jingjing and He Ping are together, and C has caught up with Koizumi again. Two couples of four people should have a good life. Unexpectedly, C always felt Jingjing was ashamed. He always felt that Jingjing was unforgettable to himself. He was afraid that Jingjing didn't really love He Ping, but was angry and disappointed with him before choosing to marry He Ping. What happened to Jingjing's family, C also actively helped, bought gifts for Jingjing's family, arranged work for Jingjing's family, and even sent a sum of money when Jingjing and He Ping got married. Koizumi mentioned earlier is brave, independent, confident and charming. He fell in love with C for ten years, and also chose to leave for his lover. Although I can't let go of C, I never want to break up other people's families. Such Koizumi is liked by people for no reason. In the second part, Jingjing hopes to marry He Ping, and C hopes to take back Koizumi. Jingjing's family told her that they had asked how C and Koizumi got along after they got back together. C answered "just so so". The rest is the sweet scene of Jingjing and He Ping getting married. Although there are quarrels and contradictions, they are really loving.
Later, the author interrupted the update because the readers were too picky. The style of writing has also changed, and it was renamed Love in Beijing after adaptation. The story is basically the same, with some new characters and details added.
I read Feng Jingjing's article six years ago, and it was also the first time that I felt a little possessed, and I chased the article from Tianya to Douban. I frantically searched Baidu for everything in the article, but I could only find "I have the same feeling with you recently, which is something like love", "Everyone I meet will leave" and all kinds of secrets and true and false reasoning. I still don't want to believe that Feng Jingjing, who has such delicate feelings, is a fabricated figure. I have always believed that only the helplessness and pain can portray Feng Jingjing's gentle tenderness. Gossip is really women's nature. I've always wondered whether this story is true or not. I long for it to be true, but I hope it is false. I don't want to be so wronged by the real Jingjing. There are also many readers who feel the same way with me, that is, similar love is more touching than Love in Beijing, but the author says the latter is more real and emotional.
At the beginning of reading the story, I was distressed by Jingjing and thought Jingjing was the most innocent person. Although C is Gao Fushuai, charming and devoted, apart from sympathy, he doesn't agree with many of his practices, such as his indifference to Jingjing. Although Koizumi has always been able to influence C's mood and indirectly affect Jingjing and C's marriage, I don't think she is a third party in the dissolution of marriage. She has been in love with a man for ten years, and has achieved something from a student to a job to the other side. In the most difficult years of her life, they spent a lot of time together, but finally they were forced to separate. Such a blow was unbearable, but she also sent a blessing that "happiness is the last thing we left each other". She knew it was hard for her to let go of C, but she still tried her best. She is responsible for her feelings and life, loves two of a kind, and would rather be single proudly if she can't find someone she likes. From Jingjing's narrative, I know that C and Koizumi love each other to the point where they only have each other.
I always thought that they were a match made in heaven and met by chance when they were students.
No entanglement, no twists and turns, it is an enviable and particularly smooth story.
Only after reading Love in Beijing did I know that Koizumi was so brave and devoted to the person she loved.
I know I was teased, cheated, bullied and satirized by him.
Still love him wholeheartedly, silly smile, love is very strong.
Is she so strong behind her back?
I used to hate Koizumi's threat to the marriage between Beijing and Beijing. I used to hate Koizumi's superficial atmosphere.
However, it never occurred to me that Koizumi loves a person more than his own life.
Watching him marry someone else, how could she be indifferent?
It is revealed in the meeting that C has retaken Koizumi. I thought that they could finally get together after great storms, get the support of their parents, cherish each other more, get married safely and grow old together. But the story came to an abrupt end, but the author later revealed that they were not together, could not be together, or broke up. C later got married and gave birth to a girl. The two of them really have too many regrets. Originally, the author said that the first book was about Jingjing and the second book was about Koizumi, but some readers stopped writing because they were unfriendly. In fact, I am looking forward to Koizumi's single story. Unfortunately, if they are all real people, the story may really stop here, but their lives will go on.
At first, I always thought that if Jingjing didn't file for divorce, C wouldn't get divorced. As long as Jingjing tolerates and persists, the result may not be too bad. After all, after reading the story, I always feel that C actually has feelings for Jingjing, but the appearance of He Ping changed the development of things.
Because Jingjing had He Ping, fortunately Jingjing had He Ping, which made me feel more at ease about the unfortunate marriage of Jingjing and C. Only then did I feel that Jingjing's grievances were finally understood and Jingjing's expectations in her first marriage were met. Jingjing also sympathizes with her, cares about her, tolerates her small temper, maintains her dignity and cares about her feelings. Although the married life is broken and there are contradictions and disputes, it is really sweet as honey.
? Such a story and the protagonist are really like those three people. Yes, that's right. This is the world-famous story of Charles, Diana and Camilla. It's just that Diana lost her emerald, and Charles and Camilla kept it open.
Some readers will leave after reading it and see the content and details of the post-treatment of Jingjing by Koizumi and C. For example, they still feel that Jingjing can't let go of C (from this detail, I really think that C and Koizumi have been in love for ten years and have the same thinking), but they want to thank Jingjing for her divorce and resignation. I didn't discourage my friends from bullying Jingjing. Jingjing called He Ping when she was about to get married and said that C gave them a gift (I always thought Koizumi told He Ping on purpose to let him know that C gave Jingjing a gift). In fact, Jingjing likes He Ping to get married happily, and she also knows He Ping doesn't want to break up with her ex-husband, so she really wants to draw a line with her ex-husband. The reader predicted in a positive tone that even if C and Koizumi get back together after divorce, they will not come to the end. If you don't believe me, write it down here. At first, I didn't think this prediction would come true, but later I learned that they really didn't come together. At that time, I felt really embarrassed and a little ironic.
Six years passed in a flash, 20 18 years, and the story of Feng Jingjing was inadvertently opened. Six years ago, I fell in love with cricket. No big waves, no big twists and turns. Six years later, Cricket and I both had lovely babies. Rereading Feng Jingjing, I'm not sure if I feel the same, but I'm sad and wronged. Although it's still gossip, I still want to know the truth of the story, whether it's a real character, how is it going, why C and Koizumi really didn't get together, and whether C couldn't let go of Koizumi or Jingjing after his second marriage? But some views six years ago are different from today.
Maybe I have a family, not a girl in love, so I think C is a bit "scum" according to the current words. I didn't love Jingjing, but I married Koizumi in anger. Finally, not only divorced, but also not married to Koizumi, which delayed two good girls. Das Kapital also said that C was too sentimental, didn't want to hurt anyone, was too responsible, and always wanted everyone to live well. Indeed, this is the story. If you can't give Koizumi marriage, give her love. If you can't give Jingjing love, make up for it with material things. So Jingjing saw C talking to Koizumi, who was drunk, and never forgot Koizumi again, always in her heart. Moreover, confident, conceited, proud and excellent C has no self-esteem. He asked Koizumi not to forget himself, so he went home to pester C and let C say whether he loved himself or not. When that sentence: "I am a man, I need it", it really tramples on Jingjing's self-esteem without a bottom line. C felt that she didn't fall in love with Jingjing, so she didn't betray Jingjing. What he betrayed was their marriage. For people in marriage, this truth does not hold. Marriage is not only based on material things, but also on mutual satisfaction. Material spirit is indispensable. And no matter six years ago or today, I can't accept the damage to women's self-esteem, just like the line in "Thirty-three Days of Broken Love": Usain said something that I always thought was extremely mean but extremely accurate: the dirtiest thing in the world is self-esteem. At this moment, I suddenly realized that even if I am dirty, I need this self-esteem to accompany me for the rest of my life. He is indifferent to marriage, and some words and deeds are not love rat in essence, but they are definitely not good people.
I still think C has feelings for Jingjing, and I don't know how much love there is. If Jingjing didn't meet He Ping and insisted on going with C, C would be acceptable, but no one knows how long this time will last, and I'm afraid it will never be realized, or they need a suitable opportunity. Just like C didn't like Koizumi at first and thought he would never fall in love with Koizumi, but because of Koizumi's diving to save himself, he began to accept and fall in love with Koizumi, and he loved him to death. Love is not only meeting the right person at the right time, but also having the right time and place. What's more, human feelings are the most elusive.
Love in Beijing does add some characters and plots, highlighting Jingjing's sensitivity, indicating that C also wants to fall in love with Jingjing and give her a gift. It's a pity that Jingjing has been with He Ping. C thinks Jingjing wants to buy gifts together to prove that men value women. But he has a career, a company and a team to be responsible for, and the business in the mall is more attractive to him. Feelings are just icing on the cake, and it is impossible to coax your wife and children every day. That's only what poor people who can't do. He can't forget Koizumi, but he doesn't want to.
I used to watch Love in Beijing, but I really felt that C was trying to fall in love with Jingjing. Now I really feel that C is very melodramatic, and I don't treat this marriage as honestly as described in Love in Beijing. Because when dealing with Koizumi, he always decided to do what they wanted, never explained the reason to Jingjing, never explained and communicated with Jingjing, even if Jingjing asked, he either refused to say it or didn't make it clear. Jingjing got married soon after graduation, which is a little girl's temper. In fact, Jingjing was really generous at first. I believe that C will accept himself in time, and C can't help but say that he also wants to work hard. Unfortunately, his efforts are in the wrong direction. A person only does things according to his own ideas and ignores the most important other half. How can such efforts have a good result? What's the point?
Everyone has different ability to withstand pressure. Koizumi is really brave, dare to love and hate, dare to pursue things that don't seem to belong to her, and even if she encounters setbacks, she does get what she wants, all of which Koizumi won for herself. However, this does not mean that Koizumi can tolerate indifference and neglect in his life in Beijing, and can tolerate trampling, insulting and misunderstanding of his self-esteem. "I'd rather be arrogant than single if I can't find someone I like" sounds ambitious and reasonable, but being with someone I like also requires self-esteem and a bottom line. Husband and wife must work hard and understand each other. If they only care about themselves, will love continue when the other person is no longer tolerant? Good love can make people better and better, and bad feelings can only make people worse and worse.
Now I pity C more and cherish Jingjing more. I only think that C is dishonest in marriage and has been avoiding it, so that I don't think, mention or recall my love affair with Koizumi. He's really not brave, afraid to take a step forward, just standing still, but telling everyone that I've been trying to move forward, but I haven't reached my destination. He did underestimate Koizumi's position in his heart and overestimate his control over his feelings. So it is not difficult to understand that people who don't go forward are dishonest. Therefore, Jingjing, no matter how forbearing and generous she is, can't reach C's heart and won't fall in love with Jingjing. Just like you can never wake a person who pretends to sleep. Later, after Koizumi left, C may have understood something. He is willing to start over and start a new life with Jingjing at the seaside. Maybe he is really willing to be honest with each other this time and continue to work hard. It's a pity that Jingjing is not the former Feng Jingjing, but she already has He Ping in her heart. It is said that time and new love are the best medicine for lovelorn. C can really accept Jingjing's time. Nobody's sure. He Ping is really the reason why Jingjing came back to life.
Two of a kind is the best love in the world, so are C and Koizumi, and so are Jingjing and He Ping.
In the reader's reply, the author said that Koizumi was her favorite, not her good friend Jingjing. Koizumi in Similar Love and Love in Beijing makes readers like to feel distressed. But why does Koizumi always give me a slightly more careful woman? Although this kind of scheming is not vicious, I don't like it at all. Not only I, but also many readers think Koizumi is not as good as the first one. Otherwise, how can readers say for sure that even if they get back together, they will still split up! If this is true, then the ideal love really can't match the reality.
Six years ago, I was wondering why C and Koizumi were inseparable. Today, I still wonder why they didn't make it to the end. Six years ago, I only felt that after separation, two people were reunited despite all difficulties, but there were too many people and things separated between them, and the previous feelings had long since disappeared. To move forward, we must re-examine and accept each other. People are still the same person, but people's hearts are not the people's hearts at that time. That's why I think C, regardless of Jingjing or Koizumi, should "look away from the mountains and rivers, why not pity the people in front of us". When Jingjing happily married He Ping, C described the reunion with Koizumi in two words: "average". These two words are so informative that they really make me daydream. Not bad? After all kinds of hardships, we should meet again. Shouldn't we cherish the tears of joy and be full of joy and happiness? Why is there only such a bland summary as "average"? Is it because C and Koizumi have been in love for ten years, and even with the consent of their parents, they have already adapted to each other's state? I really don't understand what these two C's are saying. What does this mean? Even if two people haven't changed much, using' good' is better than using' average'. What kind of story will there be between C and Koizumi? It's just that the author has never made it clear.
In fact, a person is not afraid of falling and giving up, but you have to understand which stone tripped you and how you lost. Only when you understand it can you win. Fortunately, Jingjing has He Ping. Fortunately, Jingjing has He Ping. C married another woman and gave birth to a daughter. Accept sudden loss, cherish unexpected surprises, and no longer exclude people thousands of miles away. Jingjing, I'm glad you did it, because you have peace.
Jingjing in Go for a Meeting has really changed, which surprises readers and makes them more atmospheric, independent and mature. Later, C advised you not to get married rashly and irresponsibly after divorce, and gave you a wedding gift. I don't know what reason and purpose C has and what feelings C has for you. Guilt, regret, miss, want to make up for it, or just find out in your heart that you have your own position and feelings for you? I prefer to believe that what he did after the divorce, besides feeling guilty and trying to make up for it, really has feelings for you. C in Similar Love and Love in Beijing, although excellent and desirable, is an investment in love. However, I always feel that he is not brave enough to hold water. He is afraid that he will fall in love with others and Jingjing, but what is wrong with falling in love with others?
Losing love may just be a habit. Women will never understand men until they get married. C After the divorce, Koizumi thanked Jingjing for quitting, which everyone thought was intentional. Even Jingjing thinks C is too good, and Koizumi thinks Jingjing can't let him go like himself, and he is enjoying an enviable love. This kind of happiness is magnified many times on the basis of a woman's frustration, which will make Koizumi more infatuated with this relationship and feel happier than others. Who wants to thank you so deliberately? How much is C's compensation for Jingjing? Jingjing's grievances and efforts in marriage can't get a response from C. Who can stand such indifference? The author also said that if she marries C, C's cuckold husband will fly all over the sky, and she can't stand C's indifference at all. Or "33 days of lovelorn love" put it well: if the person you once trusted is abandoned, a relationship will be completely overthrown; However, if you hurt and betray someone you once loved seriously for some reasons that you think are irresistible, then after that, you will have no time to take care of this relationship. What you doubt is yourself. How dark you are, you will destroy a person and a relationship with your own hands, and you will become a lifelong person if you regret it later. Yes, I don't need your apology, and I don't want you to say what you owe me. If you can't let time to go back, everything you try to make up for will be useless. Fortunately, Jingjing understood the truth.
When I first saw it, I was still the woman I expected in love. Now I am a wife who thinks about daily necessities and vinegar tea. Because of my personality, I am not an extrovert, so there is no thrilling love story with crickets in the novel. After married life, there are contradictions and quarrels, and I gradually understand what kind of love is perfect, and that is to allow love to be imperfect. C is just perfect, so he is very tired. He is willing to balance either side and make these people happy. He devoted himself to love. If he soon forgets his girlfriend of ten years, who dares to spend his life with him? No one can guarantee that he will leave you halfway. Breaking up will definitely be more memorable than a crappy movie.
With the experience of love and marriage, I think it will be a pity and heartache if a person has an unforgettable lover in this life, but when he marries another person, he should understand that this person who marries you will be with you all his life, and you are responsible for your choice, so you should love him, accept him, respect him and care for him in this life, instead of moaning and clinging to him. Wound healing takes time, but that doesn't mean that the other half will wait for you unconditionally for a lifetime. If the last relationship was really beautiful but you have to break up, you don't need to forget it, because it is also a part of your life and your experience. Put it in a corner of your heart, stay with you now, and find back your previous regrets bit by bit in your later life. There is an unforgettable love, and there are lovers who care for each other, which is also a proper winner in life. Maybe many years later, when you tell others about your predecessor, you are still moved, but your life is still enviable. If you can't be honest, it will turn into a heart attack sooner or later. Even if you deliberately avoid, don't want to mention, don't want to touch, still can't find the problem. Everyone knows the truth. It is easier to convince others than to convince yourself. See if you are willing to change and take a substantive step.
The love between C and Koizumi is also earth-shattering and vigorous. They just love each other enough to give up a lot for each other. Well, such feelings are valuable and can leave the deepest and most painful mark on each other's hearts. I also envy such love and sympathize with lovers who are not together. They are like two fires, burning themselves and each other. But in contrast, I prefer the dull and flowing feeling. Everyone's choice is different, and the reasons are different. Strong feelings are like brilliant fireworks, which cut through the night sky, dazzling, deeply rooted in people's hearts and unforgettable. And my mood tends to be stable, there is no ups and downs, great sorrow and great joy, and there is nothing unusual at ordinary times, but it is also slow and steady. I have enjoyed cricket for a long time. When I go out alone, it's going to rain, wondering whether he got wet or not. When you eat delicious food, you will think how good it would be if he could eat it, and even more you can't help but want to pack it and give it to him to taste; I will complain if he can accompany me when I see a wonderful movie. Seeing beautiful clothes will make you imagine how handsome you would be if you put them on him ... it has become a habit over time. What is this? I think this is clearly love. Love, apart from each other, should have another side, just like old wine, the longer it takes, the more mellow it becomes.
After having children, it feels more like the love between C and Koizumi. Fireworks are beautiful, but they also get cold easily. It is easy for such feelings to reach the highest point, but after that? No one knows if there is any better possibility of such feelings and how much room for improvement. If you love each other without flexibility, will such love become fragile without toughness? But the love I like, even if it is only a little higher than passing the exam at first, can be improved little by little as long as two people work together in the right direction. After all, there will be many experiences in life to add points to this relationship, and the score will be higher and higher. The score was particularly high from the beginning. If there are not many extra points, the efforts to maintain high scores may not be much easier. After all, it is reasonable for the ancients to say that when the water is full, it will overflow, and when the moon is full, it will lose money. Don't be full of everything, feelings are ok. So "Love Not Long" is probably about C and Koizumi, which may be one of the reasons why they broke up. Therefore, half-poor, half-rich, half-safe, half-life, half-machine, half-giving, half-doing, half-wise, half-wise, half-awake, half-drunk and half-comfortable.
I have thought about what is the best love many times. If there is a road ahead that I have fallen beyond recognition, and you insist on going, I hope that the way I love is not to desperately hold you and say that I can't go, but to prepare the most durable shoes for you and an umbrella to tell you that the second intersection is slippery. There are thieves on Fifth Street. Don't buy cut cakes on the roadside and ask you to go back. I think the best love should be that I love you and you are free.