1. Avoid using vague words, such as "like", "probably" and "maybe", which will give people the impression that you have no opinions or ideas. For example, if someone asks you what something looks like, the answer "it seems ok" is not clear enough. You should indicate whether it is worth it first. What's so good about it? What needs to be improved? If the other party wants to buy it, is there a better substitute?
2. Speak your own opinions boldly, and don't be afraid of opposition from others, and don't be afraid of opposition from others. People are often more likely to be moved by people who have their own opinions than by peacemakers who muddle along. Even if you are against the other party, you may be the first person to think of when the other party encounters a problem and asks for advice, because you are sincere and can make constructive suggestions, which will help solve things.
3. We can start with the time, place, people and theme. Arguments 1, 2, and 3 are all put out one by one, which makes people sound coherent and step by step, so it is easier to win the favor of the other party and the desire to continue talking.
Attractive aspects of the content
1, say what you are good at.
We tend to be more devoted to what we are good at, more passionate, infect each other, and can't help asking questions or listening carefully to attract each other.
2. Say what the other person is interested in
For acquaintances, we naturally know each other's hobbies and have a lot to talk about. For strangers, if you can't find a topic at the moment, look for the other person's bright spot and praise first, so as to open the other person's chatterbox, listen carefully to the other person's words and analyze the other person's interests.
3. Talk about current hot news or events.
We are bombarded by all kinds of hotline news events every day. You can express your views on these events, and then induce the other party to express their views, so as to communicate. Maybe you can draw inferences from others and find similarities or hobbies with each other in other aspects.
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