After breaking up, my ex was obsessed with me.

Teacher Hu Bin of the Emotional Counseling Center recently received a consultation from a student. The student said that after breaking up, her ex was very attached to her. After breaking up, her ex sent her a lot of messages, but she never replied and even chatted with her. Teacher Hu Bin thought it was very strange. This kind of behavior made him very entangled in his heart-he clearly didn't love him, but his predecessor still remembered him. Is there a problem with this kind of person? -Mr. Hu Bin and Mr. Hu Bin analyze this problem with the readers: students only have this phenomenon after a relationship breaks up. But many students often don't know, in fact, this usually happens after breaking up, because the other party doesn't love you enough.

1. Does your ex want to break up with you?

Breaking up should not be just a form of breaking up, nor should it be just the end of this relationship. When a relationship goes wrong, one party must have made a decision to break up for various reasons, but there is no clear positive attitude and solution to this matter. So basically, the other person has no intention of breaking up with you. When a relationship breaks up for some reason, if the ex doesn't want to let you down, then he will definitely do this.

2. Is your ex not good enough for you or doesn't love you?

This phenomenon is very common, usually in love. At this time, students can try to reflect: does your predecessor still have feelings for you at this time? If you stop loving him. Then you should reflect on yourself and find that he has no feelings for you from his behavior and language. So if you want to save him, you must first judge whether this person has an impression on you. If he doesn't remember, he probably doesn't love you.

3. Why do students do this?

This situation of classmates is probably because the other person doesn't love himself very much, so he is not dead set on you. Students have a certain sense of security in a relationship before they have this mentality towards each other. So when the student broke up, the ex didn't feel sad, sad or dissatisfied with her because she didn't love you enough? This is because in your's relationship, no matter who breaks up with each other, it is related to each other's psychological feelings. Students break up because their mentality has changed after breaking up, so this mentality will appear.

4. How do students recover?

In this process, many students are complaining that they are really not suitable for their predecessors. Therefore, students need to change their thinking and way of thinking. First of all, students should change their attitude and tell each other that you care about him. But when students come to you, don't let them feel that they have done something bad for you. If he has a sense of need for you, then the other person will also want to find someone who is in tune with you. But what if he doesn't have a sense of need?