Five years ago, this girl was one and a half years old. Her mother thinks that she is not very talkative and there are many behaviors that she can't understand. She asked me if there was anything wrong with her child and wanted my opinion. I observed it for two hours and told her with more than ten years' experience that your child has a tendency of mild autism, and you can take it to the hospital for verification. I also analyzed the developmental delay and autism in the eyes of ordinary people.
In the eyes of ordinary people, many people think that it is not a disease, and the child will catch up slowly without talking for a while. Indeed, this is just a kind of stunting. Although these children can't speak, they have high emotional intelligence and can understand the instructions and language of adults well, not only basic simple instructions, but also more complicated multi-step instructions. He can enter the social environment well and interact with children, instead of wandering aimlessly among children like a ghost. They can start socializing by themselves or finish socializing independently. They don't have the defect of pointing with their palms, there is no problem of not calling, and there are few characteristics of not looking at people. Everything is developing normally except language. Body language and eye contact are good. He can even know what adults are going to do next. He can read adults' actions instead of playing by himself all day long!
What about autistic children?
In the early days, they didn't look at people and liked to play by themselves. Most of them have no language, and the language is expressed by reciting ancient poems, but the normal life needs are basically few.
Have a fixed rigid behavior, always look at the hands, take a repetitive route, do not join the group, and can understand very few words, no more than 50.
If you don't listen to instructions, you shouldn't be called. If you call his name, he often doesn't respond. Don't point to something to show your need, but point to something with your whole palm.
She didn't believe me after I analyzed it for her. She would rather trust an unprofessional person than me.
You know, I used to be an autistic mother, and I understand her very well, but I only spent two months on this matter, but she spent five years, and all the excellent intervention time was wasted. I said she would regret it. She opened it today, and I have mixed feelings. what can I say? The child is six years old, but she doesn't have the brains of a three-year-old child. She delayed the child.
I refused, because I really didn't have the courage to face such a big child, and my personality and behavior habits were developed. Trying to change this child is equivalent to exchanging blood with my child. I explained that I promised her a way, and she left disappointed. I have seen her countless times in the past five years. If she had paid attention earlier, the child would have taken off his hat. But now, I can't guarantee anything, because I'm not sure if she is indecisive or like her.
If in doubt, please write to Mr. Zhou privately.