The answer I give you is that there must be true love, not only, but also a lot. There are all kinds of people in the world, and they all have different views on their love. Just as there are no two identical leaves in the world, everyone has different views on love and emotional life.
Some people like fat, so some people like thin, some people like uncles, and some people like older women. Everything is relative. Love is a very broad concept. There are no certain boundaries. What kind of people can like it and what kind of people can not like it? This is based on personal love view.
Advantages of an old husband and few wives Let's take a look at the love life of several old husbands and few wives first! In recent years, we often see a couple on the Internet. They are Li He. The woman is 32 years older than the man. Their marriage lasted for more than 30 years. The woman is over 80 years old and the man is only over 50 years old. But two people, as we all know, have always been very loving.
They never quarrel, and they are also a model of loving each other. Now Li is over 80 years old, but she doesn't hate her at all. She often shows that she is the favorite woman in my life and often hugs her beloved wife in front of everyone.
For example, there are Tang Priest's co-stars, Chi Chunrui and Wang Lihua, and Wang Lihua are in their twenties. In another interview, Wang Lihua choked up and said that her life with her husband was not enough. At a young age, Yi Nengjing and Qin Hao are ten years apart, and Zhang Lunshuo and Christy Chung are nearly twenty years apart. They all have love in their lives.
Because the woman has a lot of men, the more she can stimulate her original maternal feelings. When young people are older than themselves, they will love their younger husbands more, be humble and considerate everywhere. This will also reduce the contradiction between husband and wife, make the marriage go further and make the relationship more stable.
Unlike couples of the same age who sometimes don't give in to each other, they make a fuss about a little thing. For the man, there is a saying that the man is always a child, and the old lady can just meet his psychological needs. Being wronged outside, you will be comforted when you go home, which will make your little husband feel more dependent and secure.
Why are there more and more husbands and wives? In the former society, this phenomenon rarely appeared. Seven or eight years old at most, and I already feel very old. I've never heard of such a big one. It can only show that the openness and freedom of society have improved a lot. Nowadays people live in an era of dare to love and hate. You can pursue it as long as you like it. No matter how old I am, the forms of love are diversified, which also shows the progress and democracy of society.
Therefore, there is true love between an old man and a few wives, because just as you may love fat and I love thin people, they just like old men and few wives. Today's society is very open and democratic, and they are people-oriented. As long as you like it, you can boldly love and pursue it. What kind of love, as long as you really pay, you will get true love.
An old man with few wives may have true love or false love. Why do you say that?
Because:
1. Love between men and women is based on sex. Lao Tzu once said, "Eating color is also human nature". It is hard to imagine that love without sex can be true love.
2. Old husbands and few wives, different times, three views are difficult to match. How to achieve harmony?
3. If you have to face the secular vision, how can you escape the shackles of family and society and simply talk about true love?
There are also special circumstances:
Men are healthy, men deserve women's worship, men take care of women and women's families, and women feel safe.
This topic reminds me of vagrancy, 33-year-old vagrancy. I don't know how I met a single university professor in his seventies, so I inexplicably went to the provincial capital and lived in someone else's house. Five years later, the old professor died.
When the professor's children came back to deal with the funeral, the vagrant took out the marriage certificate with the old professor and the gift suicide note of 120 flat house. The children were surprised and asked why you got married. Wandering said that your father was afraid that you wouldn't agree, so he didn't say anything, and the children didn't believe it. When she finally went to court, Yaoyao brought a two-year-old daughter and a paternity test result. Then the old professor's children thought they were vagrants. The wandering daughter made an appraisal, and the appraisal result confirmed that the little girl was their half-sister. In desperation, I had to give her the house and check the salary of the old professor for so many years. There was not much left. Finally, because of this little sister and the good conditions of the children, I had to give up.
After the lawsuit ended, Wandering sold his house in the provincial capital city and returned to the city where his parents lived. Over the years, she has taken care of her daughter alone, only falling in love and not getting married. Now she is well fed and happy.
That discerning person can see that wandering is a very scheming woman. At the age of twenty-two, she married a third-class master sergeant in my husband's detachment. After the sergeant recovered, he divorced him because he had little money and no fixed job, and then went to the ballroom to sit on the stage. She is young and beautiful, and somehow she gets along well with the old professor. Although she left a daughter, she stayed.
Actually, there is no fixed answer to this question. Throughout the ages, there are also many celebrities who are married and have few wives. For example, Tang Xuanzong was 53 years old, Yang Yuhuan was only 18 years old, Sun Yat-sen and Soong Ching Ling were 27 years old, and Lu Xun and Xu Guangping were 17 years old. The distance between Zhang Xueliang and Zhao Yidi is 12 years. Scientists Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan are 54 years old, while Wang Shi and Tian Pujun are 30 years old. These are not lovelorn, so it can't be said that all couples have no true love. But also for others.
However, throughout the ages, * * * has a characteristic. The father-in-law is a dragon and a phoenix among people, or a successful person can win the hearts of talented women and win the favor of beauty.
Of course there is true love. For example, the husband and wife are 32 years old, married for more than 20 years, and have always loved each other.
The golden partner on the stage, the loving couple in life, and the young husband in ordinary life take good care of his wife.
Never know how to love, from knowing how to love to being together, should be true love, just the length of love, whether two people cherish it, whether they know how to manage each other's feelings and respect marriage and family.
I believe in true love, but I don't believe in it. There may be temporary feelings, such as the transfer of Oedipus complex, but this feeling will not last long. The old man may love his husband, but it is purely personal to think that men, regardless of their age, can't have true love for women who have been together since childhood.
Answer: the age difference is 30 years old, and the gap is not small. A woman can be his mother. This marriage is unlikely to be true love. Maybe it's impulsive. It won't last. Because there are many problems to face:
First, the age gap is too big and the body is not harmonious. The man is only 20 years old and the woman is 50 years old. This age difference is not only different in physical strength and energy, but also different in physiological characteristics. Everyone who is married knows that sexual life is very important to the harmony between husband and wife. A 20-year-old is full of energy, you know, unless this woman is also full of energy, but this is impossible. An unharmonious marriage will slowly go wrong.
Second, there will be a gradual psychological imbalance. This kind of marriage is generally not blessed by family members, and the society will respect it especially, so the focus of street talk is inevitable. When two people go shopping together, their backs will be numb. In the face of the incomprehension of relatives and the criticism of neighbors, no one can stand it over time, and their psychology has changed. Besides, two people grow up in different ages and have different preferences. If they don't live on the same channel, they will have poor communication, and the marriage without communication will certainly not last long.
The third is the most critical reason. Women over 50 years old, most of them have lost their fertility. As the saying goes, children are the lubricant of husband and wife's feelings, and marriage without children is not perfect. This age difference, women should have been married long ago, maybe the children are older than him, imagine how they should face it? There must have been strong contradictions in the family before this kind of marriage appeared, and because of the lack of communication and lubrication between them, it is estimated that problems will occur sooner or later.
To sum up, this kind of marriage may be impulsive, initially caused by true feelings, but it can't be without problems after the passion.
Finally, I want to remind young friends: never sell yourself for money or material things. What others give you will cost you, and only what you earn is valuable.
What is true love? The same frequency, the same smell, the same magnetic field produced a chemical reaction. First physics is the body, then chemistry is the nerve. Oh, no, it's the spirit, which has reached the peak of pleasure. Love is regardless of age, race, species and gender. Alas, wonderful thoughts produce wonderful flowers, which are covered with mosquitoes and flies.
This fucking true love!
And true love. Time is the touchstone of true love or not!
Nowadays, the phenomenon of "the old man has few wives" is very common in society, such as Yang Zhenning and Weng Fan. There is true love between them, but there are few "old men and few wives", but it is not without them. For example, the distance between Chen Lihua and Chi is 1 1 year. When they got married, they were always controversial and were not favored by the outside world. But after so many years, their husband and wife have always been very loving, no matter where they go. They have never had children, but they all understand each other and love each other, so it's not that the old couple have few wives without true love, just to see if they meet someone worthy of love [smile].
There is no denying that true love exists, but it is also rare. In fact, whether it's an old man with few wives or an old man with few wives, as long as you feel comfortable and happy together. It doesn't matter what others think of them, what matters is how happy you are and how you live. Life is too short to live well!