Everyone's definition of the second reply is not necessarily. I think "second reply" means that you reply to me as soon as you see my message, not within a few seconds after I send it. Sometimes, thinking too much is actually melodramatic.
Many couples who are in love, whenever the other party sends a message to themselves, there will be a second reply. Of course, this is not a good phenomenon for playing mobile phones, but it also proves whether one person is kind to another person online. But in fact, if a person can't reply to each other's information in seconds, it doesn't completely prove anything wrong, or is he really busy?
Maybe this kind of thing really exists. There are many reasons why seconds can't go back. Maybe the network is poor; Maybe just having dinner with friends around you; It may also be that the mobile phone is not around; There are many reasons. I may have just seen it and have no time to reply for the time being. There is really no need to bother to guess the reason, let alone use "second reply" to define whether I am cared for or not.
There is no need to make yourself tired, others are tired and thankless. Measuring the depth of feelings or friendship is just too one-sided. The most comfortable relationship is not the top of WeChat, not the second reply of the message, but the relationship between us will not be alienated even if it is not second.
Responding to other people's messages is a kind of respect for others, but this respect is based on the fact that I have seen your message and have the time and conditions to reply to your message.
In most cases, it is normal to see information easily, but sometimes we miss the news for various reasons, such as forgetting to bring our mobile phone, turning it off, going to a meeting, having no signal on our mobile phone, wanting to be alone, sleeping and so on.
Some information can be answered in seconds, and when it can be answered in seconds. It is problematic to not reply in time, but there is nothing wrong with it.
Don't reply to the message for a second is not necessarily dislike. Sometimes I can't reply to the message at the first time for many reasons. This is understandable, because you can't let the other half around you, and the other half has to work and live. There are several reasons why messages are not returned every second:
1, the company has a system that you can't play with your mobile phone.
Many units are like this. I just can't play with my mobile phone during office hours. Work is serious work, and personal matters are personal time contact. Don't say that you are just idle, you can play with your mobile phone and so on. After all, the unit is different.
Many bosses feel that since employees are paid, they have to work during this period.
Even if I am particularly free, I just sit in a daze and don't take out my mobile phone to play. If customers come, the impact is not very good, and a number of customers may be lost. If a man says that his work may not come back in time, it's normal, it doesn't mean that he doesn't love you. Does his secret reply to your message mean that he loves you?
2. There are always busy times at work.
In fact, just because a man can't call you back every second doesn't mean how much he loves you. It's good for you that he doesn't answer you at ordinary times, isn't it good? Maybe a person is particularly idle at work, has little to do every day, and then replies to you every second, which doesn't mean that he loves you.
Maybe he will call you back every second, but maybe he is busy this day. Then he doesn't have a second to answer you at this time, and he can't say that this man just doesn't love you. In fact, it's not interesting. What matters is that he is kind to you.
3. There may be something wrong with the mobile phone.
Some girls like to haunt a man who loves him. Ask men to reply to text messages and answer the phone at any time. Then I will set a special bell on my boyfriend's mobile phone and tell the man that as long as this bell rings, it is her call, and no matter what she does, she should answer it immediately.
Sometimes, the man didn't hear when he went to the toilet, but the woman got angry, said that the man didn't love her, and then hung up. In fact, this is a typical behavior and unreasonable.
4, temporarily in a bad mood, can't serve you.
Many women can be short-tempered, unreasonable and angry when they say they are angry, but men are not allowed to be a little bad. When a man's voice rises slightly, she says he doesn't love her.
Sometimes,
A man saw the news and didn't reply for a second. Maybe he was in a bad mood. Because when I talk to you, I have to take care of your emotions. He hasn't calmed down yet. He knows that he will quarrel with you if you work. He will calm down before contacting you. This is actually a sign of loving you.