The old man with gray hair is Lin Shenghua. 9 1 year-old, lives in Yinzhou District. He is an anti-Japanese war veteran who has suffered from Parkinson's disease for nearly 20 years. The old man in the other bed is his wife Ye Nongmei, who has been taking care of each other for 60 years. She suffered from Alzheimer's disease virus more than/kloc-0 0 years ago. In March of this year, she fell and caused other diseases, and she may die at any time.
The older you get, the more you can look down on life. In this life, he has only one request-to see his wife more when she is still alive.
The old man was diagnosed with lumbar spondylolisthesis and needed hospitalization. He asked to live in his wife's ward.
1On the evening of May 6, 7, Lin Shenghua, who was waiting for his wife to leave the hospital at home, went to the hospital of 1 13 because of her discomfort. She was diagnosed with lumbar spondylolisthesis and sent to the orthopedic trauma treatment center where her wife was located.
The next morning, my daughter Lin Huijun told me that my mother would leave the hospital and go home in the afternoon. Although Lin Shenghua can't move easily, he clearly knows that his wife is seriously ill. Maybe this meeting is the last parting. Therefore, he hopes to see his wife again and talk to her before she comes home, so as to celebrate their golden wedding anniversary in advance.
Although the ward of the department was nervous, the head nurse He Linping decided to transfer Lin Shenghua to Ye Nongmei's ward immediately after meeting with Zhao Hong, director of the department. At 8 o'clock in the morning, my daughter pushed Lin Shenghua into her mother's ward. Lin Shenghua's body has just come into contact with Ye Nongmei's bed. Ye Nongmei seemed to have something on her mind, and her eyes, which had been closed, suddenly opened. Looking at Lin Shenghua from far and near, her eyes are full of tenderness. With the help of the nurse, the two beds leaned together, and the two people who had been separated for 40 days finally held hands. At that time, the ward was full of deep affection and love.
In the hospital bed, Lin Shenghua was afraid that Ye Nongmei would "slip away" from his own palm. Her trembling hands clasped his wife's hand carefully and murmured something that only the two of them could understand. In the emotional place, Lin Shenghua's hand slipped gently from his wife's face again and again, while his own eyes were blurred by tears again and again. The daughter in front of the hospital bed didn't bother at all, but quietly wiped the tears from her father's eyes again and again. Next to the two beds, one is expressionless and the other is in tears. A static and a moving action constitute a different picture, which makes people feel the scene and burst into tears.
The older generation is simpler. When they meet their wives and hold their hands, it will be a golden wedding anniversary.
After sixty years of acquaintance and love, she loves fish and has never eaten the head of hairtail.
Lin Shenghua's daughter, Lin Huijun, said that his father's love for his mother had already been integrated into his blood. Mother told her that from the day she married her father, except for the two years when her father was away from the army, the rest of the time, her mother had been living a life of reaching for clothes and making ends meet.
Braised hairtail with dried plum is Ye Nongmei's favorite, especially the meat in the middle of hairtail. Every time Lin Shenghua bought hairtail from the vegetable market and cooked it, he put the head and tail of hairtail in his bowl, and put the rest in a bowl with beautiful leaves. For so many years, Ye Nongmei hasn't eaten fish head once.
Decades ago, Tomb-Sweeping Day was the most exciting day in Lin Shenghua. On the same day, the whole family went to the grave 70 kilometers away, and Ye Nongmei, who never went out, stayed at home as usual. Before leaving, Lin Shenghua and Ye Nongmei cooked the meal, adjusted the time in the microwave oven, and repeatedly told them to heat the food in the microwave oven when they were hungry. Despite repeated explanations, Lin Shenghua is still worried. After having lunch at a relative's house, Lin Shenghua urged his daughter and son-in-law to go home. I hurried home slowly, and when I opened the door, I saw Ye Nongmei eating cookies, and the food on the table was motionless. From then on, no matter where Lin Shenghua goes, he will eat three meals a day at home and won't spend the night outside. In recent years, in order to take care of Ye Nongmei, Lin Shenghua, who likes to walk around and have a look, has never left Ningbo.
In 2000, Lin Shenghua suffered from Parkinson's disease, and his hands and feet were not as flexible as before. Although he was inconvenient to move, he still washed and cooked for Ye Nongmei until his daughter retired.
A few years ago, when Ye Nongmei's dementia was not serious, she often told Lin Huijun that the clothes she washed for herself were not as clean as her father's. She also smiled and said that she didn't know anything, but her father spoiled her very much. Although I can't say it, Ye Nongmei also cares about her husband. After her daughter told her that Lin Shenghua was in the hospital, Ye Nongmei kept talking nonsense, as if to say something. The daughter said three times that her father was fine, but Yuzryha, who had a backache, calmed down.
"I'm dying, I still don't trust my wife. This feeling is the most touching. " Talking about Lin Shenghua and Ye Nongmei that I saw with my own eyes, Aunt Sun in the same ward was in tears. Aunt Sun said that every time I saw Lin Shenghua wiping tears to comfort Ye Nongmei, I couldn't help crying.
The love story of the older generation made the medical staff believe in love again.
"Lao Lin and Grandma Ye made us believe in love again." The little nurses in Corey said that they saw many couples who were birds in the same forest, and when the disaster came, they flew separately. When Lin Lao doesn't know what his illness is like, the first thing that comes to mind is his wife. Their love is so pure, so clean, so touching, how can it not be touching?
"I was not with her in the army for two years. It was not easy for her to pull a family and give birth to my children. I want to make up for what I owe her with the love of my life. " When asked why he loves his wife so much, Lin Shenghua's tone is firm. "I don't know if I can see her this time. She has been with me for 60 years, and I owe her too much ... "Speaking of sadness, the old man Lin Shenghua tilted his head to the invisible place of Ye Meimei and let tears fall.
On the afternoon of May 17 14, Ye Nongmei went through the discharge formalities. When the daughter and son-in-law pushed Ye Meimei's bed away from Lin Shenghua's, Lin Shenghua held his wife's hand for a long time and refused to let go. When Ye Nongmei's bed was pushed out of the ward, Lin Shenghua kept choking like a child. On the other side of the sickbed, Ye Nongmei, when the sickbed was pushed out of her husband's ward, tears slipped quietly from the corner of her eyes.
"Last year was my father's ninetieth birthday. Because my mother was ill, I didn't give him a birthday. This year is the golden wedding anniversary of him and his mother. Our greatest wish is that when Dad leaves the hospital, Mom will still wait for him, so that they can spend more time together. " Lin Huijun said.
However, Ye Nongmei, 83, died at home at 6: 0010 last night. Daughter Lin Huijun said that her mother walked calmly, with no pain on her face. However, the news, the home also hide from Lin Shenghua old man.
Such a loving couple is enviable. It also makes people believe once again that sincere love still exists in the world.