Why? Some people will say that this is a custom, but is it really just a custom? In fact, in the final analysis, a large part of the reason is that our self-esteem, vanity and comparison psychology are at work. Among colleagues, there are many such people. Xiao Xia was born in a poverty-stricken county, which was once listed as a black household area by the bank because of too many old lai. However, the bride price there is very high, even for women who get married for the second time, the bride price is hundreds of thousands. Of course, besides, there are many houses and cars.
A few years ago, Xiao Xia's best friend got married, and Xiao Xia, as an older young woman, was particularly envious of her entreaties. Because Xiao Xia has no date until now, but her good sisters are really getting married. The point is that her husband's conditions are surprisingly good. Needless to say, he is handsome and has many properties in the city. He is a real Gao Fushuai.
As a post-80s generation, Xiao Xia seems to have no other pursuit except to earn more money and buy a house of his own. For Xiao Xia, no matter how rich a man is, he might as well own a house and have the ability to make money, which can bring him a sense of security. Therefore, both men and women are not obsessed with houses, but a sense of security and self-confidence. Because the house can bring them these things, persistence is inevitable.