If the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can achieve disharmony in face and heart, it is very satisfying for both husband and son, because at least they can control their emotions and maintain a quiet home. But if the unfortunate one has a bad temper and no patience at all, and that person is caught in the middle and angry with the splint, life will be very difficult. There are many examples of this situation around us. Mothers-in-law, in particular, like to use their rich experience and life experience, always posing as a swagger to teach their daughters-in-law. As everyone knows, this practice can not win the respect of their daughter-in-law, but will worsen the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
People's patience is limited. Daughter-in-law can ignore it once or twice When enough resentment is accumulated, one day she will face her mother-in-law. At that time, there was no peace at home, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law finally couldn't get along. Once things get to this point, the emotions of every family member will be affected, and the feelings of husband and wife will inevitably be hurt. Seeing this situation, even if my mother-in-law wins, I'm afraid she will feel distressed.
Are the mothers-in-law who beat their daughters-in-law happy now? The answer is thought-provoking
Aunt Huang: Except for holidays, I became an empty nester.
Aunt Huang mentioned her daughter-in-law Xiaoman and couldn't help crying. She murmured, "Tell me, why should I bother myself?" It turned out that five years ago, when my son graduated, he excitedly led Xiaoman to recognize the door, but Huang Apo was dissatisfied with it, thinking that Xiaoman, who was born in the countryside and looked ordinary, was not worthy of his son. Although the last two people broke through the resistance and came together, Huang Apo didn't like Xiaoman. She often taunts Xiao Man for being a bumpkin. Xiaoman has a good temper and doesn't care about her mother-in-law, but her mother-in-law regards Xiaoman's tolerance as weakness and bullies her even more.
Until one time, she scolded Xiaoman and cried, still smug. Suddenly, her son came back. Seeing everything in sight, he immediately understood, immediately packed his things and left with Xiaoman. Xiaoman has a high salary and doesn't spend money indiscriminately. He mortgaged his new house with her husband as early as before marriage, but when she saw that her mother-in-law had been widowed for many years, she lived together alone and wanted to spend more time with her. Before, Xiaoman was afraid of her husband's embarrassment and never revealed that her mother-in-law was not good at all. Now that her husband has witnessed all this with his own eyes, he can't bear to let Xiaoman, who is pregnant, suffer. Now that her grandson is 3 years old, Huang's mother-in-law often blames herself, except for her son's family who seldom comes back for holidays. If she had been kind, how happy it runs in the family would be!
Li Apo: I didn't know my ex-daughter-in-law was good until my son remarried.
In Li Apo's eyes, her son is her pride. She became a boss at a young age and always takes time to take her family out for a trip every year. It stands to reason that Li Apo should be satisfied with such a life, but when she saw her daughter-in-law, Mei Juan couldn't help feeling angry all over. Since getting married, Mei Juan has been absent from work for a day, only taking care of her children at home. Sometimes her son comes back late for dinner, and Mei Juan is always nagging there. Hearing this, Li Apo couldn't help criticizing her daughter-in-law. She thinks it is normal for men to take part in accidental amusement outside. Besides, all Meijuan eats and drinks is her son's money, and she is not qualified to tell her what to do there.
With the support of his mother, his son became more and more courageous and eventually divorced and married three children, but Li Apo's troubles followed. The new wife sleeps until late in the morning, except for beauty and playing cards. Grandma Li has to take care of her son and grandson when she is old. Especially this year, her son's business has declined, and she has no money to give her new wife. She quarreled about money all day, and they finally divorced. Looking at her unruly grandson and decadent son, Li Apo was filled with guilt. If she didn't distinguish right from wrong and looked down on Meijuan, how could a good home fall apart?
As the saying goes, "hometown is like a treasure", which means that the elderly can guide their children to do the right thing and take the right road. There is a reasonable mother-in-law in the town, and her daughter-in-law can learn a lot of life experiences and pass on a good family style. In fact, people can't be ruthless, unless it is vegetation. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have lived under the same roof for a long time, and their feelings are naturally there. Occasionally there will be a little friction. Think more about each other's good, and don't deny each other's credit just because of a little thing. This is the correct way for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along.