Traditionally, women put family first, so it is a big problem for modern strong women to balance family and career.
Now some people call a strong woman "Iron Lady", and the title of "Iron Lady" was often reported in the media in earlier years.
Although the title of a strong woman is an affirmation of women's hard work in society, there are still feminists who believe that adding the word "woman" in front of a strong woman is always sexist.
Psychologists found in consulting practice that many powerful women are all-powerful and have unlimited scenery, and their talents, knowledge and looks are impeccable, but their married life is often unsatisfactory. Many women complain aggrieved, "What am I better than him? I can't find anything wrong with what I did. Why did he divorce me? " .
Yes, why? The following "soft" wedding tips can be used for reference: husband is a very taciturn person, but sometimes he will make witty remarks, which is amazing. I remember on the third day of our first marriage, he pointed to the endless traffic on the road and pretended to casually say to me, "You can tell who is in charge by watching who drives!" " Later, several acquaintances and friends around us divorced one after another. My husband said, "Have you found that these divorced families are all driven by their wives and accompanied by their husbands?"
I think my husband is obviously shaking the mountain. Even though I am barely half a strong woman, I just decided to pick up my tail and be a man so as not to fall asleep.
So what is "picking up the tail"? Even if my family goes out, although I use my car and my driving skills are world-class, I will never grab that steering wheel; On the road, when my husband lost his way and drove around the street like a headless fly, although his heart was full of anger, he still wanted to curse; Although I clearly know that I should go east instead of west, I definitely have to bite my teeth to suppress my anger and roll down the window and look around like him: in a word, play dumb!
Not only am I a strong woman to play dumb, but even the smartest real strong woman will play dumb. My good friend Xiaojie, from a housewife to the owner of three ice cream shops, and her husband only rose from an intermediate engineer to a senior engineer in the whole development process of Xiaojie, that is, the annual salary rose from 45,000 to 50,000. But Xiaojie told me that the biggest secret weapon she used to capture her husband's heart was crying in front of him! It's unbelievable! "Are you still crying poor? Does he believe him? " "letter! I don't believe it! " Xiaojie said: "Every time I cry poor, I really want to cry! When tears come, money comes. The last time he was promoted to work, as soon as I cried, he immediately gave me 5 thousand yuan for the salary increase, which was very cool! "
I thought to myself, whether you are happy with him or you are happy together, their marriage must be quiet on the Western Front. Sure enough, ten years later, their husband and wife camp is impregnable and invincible!
In modern marriage, if you are too weak as a woman, you will be looked down upon by men. Find a third party and join hands with that third party to step on you with confidence. However, if you are better than a bitch, your husband is absolutely afraid of you. Who wants to get along with a bitch day and night, and sneak to the gentle town every chance?
What modern women need most in dealing with men is to be duplicitous in appearance and weak in outside. The inner strength is psychological independence, career progress and loyalty. In short, even if I don't have a husband tomorrow, I will still eat a bowl of good food by myself! So weak, that is, when you need to shed tears for men, you have to shed tears; When you need to lift shoes for men, you should lift shoes; When you need to please a man, you should be willing to use sweet words.