How to face such a strong girlfriend?

Like everyone else, graduation means lovelorn. Girlfriend, who fell in love for four years in the year of graduation, inexplicably married a man who had only known each other for a month. It was unacceptable for a while, and she came to Shanghai.

When I first arrived in Shanghai, I was depressed for a long time. My biggest interest after work is chatting with those MM's on the Internet, and I can cheat a few people into bed when I meet an idiot. This life lasted for two years, until Yang Yang appeared.

Yang Yang is a girl who came to our company as an intern, and she has an Oedipus complex.

Later, she told me that from the first time she met me, she thought I was very good, just like her father, so she loved to stick to me in the company. Actually, I can't forget my first girlfriend in my heart. I haven't contacted her since she got married I only heard from other students that she was a teacher in a private school.

Yang Yang told me that she hasn't talked about her boyfriend, which may be related to her cold personality. His father is a senior official and his mother works in the government. She is a prominent figure in their place, so no one looks down on her.

Our company has a rule that office romance is not allowed. Although I am a regular employee of the company and my boss appreciates me, I still dare not sell myself short. But some things often don't develop as you expected.

On one occasion, Yang Yang suddenly caught a bad cold. A little girl in this city has no relatives. She called you when she was ill. Can you not go to see him? So I asked for leave from the company. The personnel asked me why, and I was afraid of misunderstanding. I specifically said that a fellow villager had come to meet me. If I knew what happened later, I would tell the truth.

The little girl at the front desk of the company has always liked me, I know, but I didn't expect women's jealousy to be so terrible. She saw that Yang Yang and I didn't work at the same time, so she went to report to the boss. Just as the staff had nothing to eat, the boss asked them to go to Yang Yang's house to see if I was there on the grounds of visiting the sick.

As a result, Yang Yang was directly fired by the company because she was an intern, not a regular employee. I felt bored staying in this company, so I fired my boss.

It turns out that I live in a company. After resigning, I originally wanted to rent a house by myself. I have worked for more than two years and have some money to rent a house. But Yang Yang asked me to move in with her first. Her parents bought her a house of more than 60 square meters. She usually lives alone and her parents seldom come to Shanghai. How can we make a girl dependent on a man? Besides, Yang Yang took her as my girlfriend, but I still didn't recognize her in my heart.

But Yang Yang said I don't know where my next job is. Even if you are looking for a house, you must work steadily before you can find a house near your work. I think what she said is also reasonable. I moved in and started our cohabitation.

Like all young lovers, life at first was very happy and sweet. I am slowly looking for a job online. Yang Yang said she didn't want to go to work for the time being. Anyway, the money she earned in a month is not enough for her last beauty salon, so she can have a rest if she wants. But because we are facing each other day and night, our shortcomings are exposed, and contradictions and quarrels follow.

Yang Yang not only doesn't like cleaning, but also is selfish and possessive. I did almost all the housework when she lived together. She never takes the initiative to do anything, not even throw away the garbage.

In addition, she likes to look through my mobile phone when she is free, for fear that I still have contact with my ex-girlfriend and that I have an affair with other women. When I came back late, she called my friends everywhere, making me look like a prisoner. I can't argue with her yet When I argued with her, she was fiercer than you and even slapped you in the face. She is scratching all over. When I argued, she was ugly, too. Even if I live here for a long time, she will tell you again and again how good she is to you and how wronged she is. I really can't stand it any longer. I think moving out may be good for all of us. This relationship is too tiring. I think we should consider it after we separate.

Later, I got a job in Pudong, so I moved to Pudong from Puxi, which is far away from Yang Yang. After coming out, I finally felt relieved. My heart suddenly relaxed a lot.

But I never thought that the terrible days really began. I also know what serial calling is for the first time. She makes an average of 30 phone calls every day, excluding text messages. I can't call my company and not answer it. Once I told her the name of my company, and she found the phone number and even the address. I can't break up with him. She must want to come to our company to pick on you. She can't be treated as a normal person at all. I don't think she cares, as long as I have been so cold to her for a long time, it will naturally fade. After all, feelings still depend on the efforts of two people.

I really don't know if this relationship is good or bad for me now. What should I do?