However, in human society, interpersonal communication is essential and sometimes becomes a burden.
Yuan Yuan is a distant niece in my hometown. She entered the institution in the city, and I was a bridge.
I never dare to say that I have this ability. Just seeing the recruitment information released by this unit, I told Yuanyuan and asked someone to guide her to review the exam.
Yuanyuan finally got what she wanted. Her parents are so happy that they want to fly. They are very grateful to me. From time to time, they want to send some special products to their homes, but I politely refused.
First, I provide information, but it is easy; Secondly, Yuan Yuan's parents are farmers, and their families are very ordinary. Third, I accept gifts, which is quite stressful.
After Yuan Yuan went to work, although he worked hard, his income was not low, and his married life was flourishing.
In the first few years, during the Mid-Autumn Festival and the Spring Festival, Yuan Yuan took gifts home.
Out of politeness, every time I ask them where to eat and what kind of gifts to buy in return, I have to use my head. There is often nothing to say at the dinner table, so I refuse such communication.
So, I refused the gift again and again, and even pretended not to be at home and refused to open the door, so they put the gift at the door of the community.
Many times, they make concessions and buy gifts only once during the Spring Festival. After the Spring Festival, I invited Yuan Yuan and his wife to dinner. At first, they refused to come. Then, when I gave the children lucky money after dinner, Yuan Yuan had to push me around several times, which made me feel very tired.
The sons, daughters and grandchildren of the eldest brother and the second brother's family, I went home to have a reunion dinner with them during the Spring Festival, and each child gave lucky money. I didn't leave the table, I was relaxed.
Yuan Yuan is different. If she wants to buy a gift, I have to invite her to dinner.
For example, I didn't invite her home for dinner this Spring Festival because of the epidemic. Alipay gave the child a red envelope and she gave it back to me. This was repeated several times.
The epidemic situation has improved. After a few weekends, either she was busy or I was busy, so I gave up the idea of eating and prepared to go to Barabara to buy some clothes for my seven-year-old son. She still refuses to give me the size.
A few days ago, my colleague bought a little genius watch for a child who just went to school, which inspired me. I also bought one for my round son and invited them to eat KFC.
The round son likes to jump.
I finally got an idea, otherwise, it's always hard for me to accept it.