Zhiming, we went to high school together. After graduation, we went to university in the provincial capital city, in two different universities. Senior year, Zhiming fell in love. In the lush years of "Seeds of Love", the relationship between Zhiming and his girlfriend quickly warmed up. With one semester left, they rented a house outside.
In the last semester of my senior year, I will either take the civil service exam or find a job myself. Zhiming found himself a job as a bus line manager, which is to count the train data from the beginning to the end of the station. Coincidentally, the passenger station he is in charge of is at the gate of my school, and he rented a room at the gate of my school.
The houses of the aborigines in the village in the city, the typical kang houses in the south, and the mottled external walls have been covered with a layer of turquoise coat by the years. A single room by the window, the desk is the dining table, the plastic wardrobe of Boss Ma's house, and the gas stove are arranged on the balcony, where green, red, blue and green spaces are hung. At that time, there was no concept that oil smoke would smoke clothes.
Zhiming's family is in the countryside and his family is poor. High school will consider buying a Titan Sports. But poverty failed to hide his cleverness, which may be the reason why his well-off girlfriend likes him.
The honeymoon period of love passed quickly. It's not as vows of eternal love as described in the novel. It is full of life, and more of it is actually stumbling. Once, I went to Zhiming's house for dinner as promised. I felt the atmosphere was wrong as soon as I entered the door. The appointed food did not appear on the folding table. My girlfriend stood on the balcony with her back to us. Chi Ming saw me coming, forced a wry smile on his face and said, let's go out to eat. Then she sent me downstairs with a calm face and immediately turned around and went upstairs. I found that Zhiming's smile like Maitreya is rarely put away. Before going out, there was a tsunami noise upstairs, and there were many glass bowls.
Later, Zhiming told me that it was not the first time that his girlfriend felt that he was worthless, that the place where he lived was too tight, and that the gap between him and his boudoir was too big.
Later, they broke up.
After breaking up, Zhiming still has a smile like Maitreya on his face, but when he is quiet, he is more mature. That autumn, Zhiming left the provincial capital and returned to his hometown. He passed the recruitment examination and entered the banking system in his hometown. Occasionally get together with high school classmates, Zhiming has become the center of the topic. The history of Zhiming's struggle within the system has become a much-told story. Using the convenience of resources, several students benefited. On the topic of Zhiming, I was particularly impressed by such a description, that is, leaders especially like to take him with them when they entertain, because he is drunk and never comes back. Zhiming can kill small steel cannons with a temperature of more than 50 degrees in one bite, and four small steel cannons in one meal.
Now Zhiming's career is booming. When I saw him again, I still smiled like Maitreya. His height has not changed, and his width is about three times. His big shirt is stuck in his trousers, and his clothes and trousers are all fat.
I asked him, "Can you keep healthy by drinking like this?" ? Zhiming looked at me, then at the window, quietly smiled and said, don't worry, dare to leave the rental house?
2
Still a classmate, this time a college classmate. The only couple in our class who fell in love before graduation. After graduation, they all worked in Foshan, Guangdong, a small town with three BMWs and four Mercedes-Benz 4S stores, engaged in sales. I have been there once, only 40 minutes' drive from Guangzhou South Railway Station. When I went, my classmate's baby was over one year old, with a stroller, and we were chatting in a hotel in town.
After three rounds of drinking, our topic is no longer basketball, the female classmates in the next class, but houses, cars and children. My classmate and my wife are very satisfied with their present jobs. Together, they have about 30K a month, which means they are stressed and tired. They just paid a down payment on a house, and after deducting rent, mortgage and living expenses, the couple's income is very small. However, it is just around the corner that they can move out of the house that they hate very much but dare to speak out. I learned from my classmates that the landlord is a miser. Speaking of this, the female student who is nursing the baby can't help but insert a sentence: "The water pipes at home are often broken, so we have to repair them ourselves when we find the landlord." I said you should move if you are unhappy. With so many real estate speculators these days, the vacancy rate should be high. Are you afraid of having no place to live? The male classmate pondered for a while, looked up and said, this rent, in this lot, it is difficult to find a second home. Say that finish, I looked up and dried the wine in the cup.
This is a realistic society, which is completely different from the fairy tales of heroes saving the United States and sunshine and rain. It was a society that didn't try to drink a little wine, didn't have contacts, didn't want to go to work by bus for hours, and couldn't afford the mortgage.
When I left Guangdong, I thought of a passage: If you want the prosperity of a big city, you have to accept its hardships; If you want the comfort of a small county, you have to accept its narrowness.
Efforts no longer need to be urged by parents and teachers all day, but the awakening of Guanghua.
You can live easily without hard work. If there is an answer to this question, then I can guarantee that the owner of this answer will get many times more wealth than Bill Gates in a short time.
Recently, I like a piece of chicken soup and share it with you here: the fountain is beautiful because she is under pressure; The waterfall is spectacular because she has no way out; Water can penetrate the stone because it exists forever.
May you, who are struggling, board the boat of hard work as soon as possible and reach the other side of the ideal.