The person who contacted you actively has a thick skin, but he really cares about you. Even if you ignore him, he will chase you.
A person, in his heart, will worry about who he is. One minute apart, 60 seconds missed; After two months apart, I will see you again and come across the ocean to see you.
Love a person, the mouth does not say, or the mouth is lying, but the heart will not lie. "Love has a pair of eyes that know everything." A person can feel whether he loves you or not. Especially women, they have a strong sixth sense. If someone loves her, just ask and you will understand.
If one day, men don't take the initiative to contact you, maybe these four reasons should be put down as soon as possible. As a woman, no matter how much you love someone, don't be stupid, don't live too humble, and prefer to be aloof. The man who makes you humble and alive is not as good as you think.
1. He once liked you and pursued you, but now he has given up on you.
Reader Xiaoxiao sent me a WeChat yesterday: "My boyfriend hasn't contacted me for a week. Is it a change of heart or something else? " I replied to her: "It depends on the specific situation."
Xiaoxiao's boyfriend works in the electric power department. Xiaoxiao doesn't have a fixed job, and currently works in a mobile phone shop. From Xiaoxiao's self-report, I saw the fact that Xiaoxiao looks good, but has a bad temper. She will have an emotional outburst at any moment. She also spends a lot of money. A month's salary is not enough for my own use, and I often ask my parents for money. After having a boyfriend, Xiaoxiao spends more money. Her boyfriend has warned her several times not to spend money indiscriminately, but Xiaoxiao thinks her boyfriend is a very stingy person.
I put myself in Xiaoxiao's boyfriend's shoes. He works alone, has to adopt his parents and pay off the mortgage, so his life is under great pressure. Moreover, it is not reliable to maintain a relationship by physical beauty. Everyone will be bored. When you meet an unreasonable person, should you let go or will you let go?
As a woman, if you meet someone you haven't contacted for a long time, you must first reflect on yourself. If you haven't done anything wrong, then the other person doesn't like you, and you don't need to ask for reasons repeatedly, because there are thousands of reasons for loving someone, and one reason for not loving someone is enough. Why bother? Let go if you don't contact, and leave some dignity.