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A tortuous experience
As a post-80s generation, he experienced many twists and turns that his peers never experienced: because of lack of information guidance, the university filled in the wrong major; Because of the lack of career planning, I was admitted to graduate school in a daze; Because of his lack of self-awareness, he has been a university teacher and has been to state-owned enterprises, private enterprises and foreign companies. After many twists and turns, I finally found my own position: I turned out to be a natural entrepreneur.
The reporter once asked him, what do you think is the most painful thing in life? Liu replied that everyone suffers from different things. For me, it is because I once lacked self-awareness and couldn't find a position in life, and because I lacked a platform, my ideal could not be displayed.
Cross-border guide
He studied Chinese first, then became an English teacher and began to do marketing planning. Next, he pursued his ideal with passion and founded a soft power company. Because of his sharp thinking, he is called the sharp brother in education; Because of his extremely fast speech speed, he became a unique speaker; His many unique experiences have given him many different views on life. He wrote them in books and shared them with young people. Colleagues in the publishing industry call him Liu, and he often makes manuscripts. But his interest seems to be more than that. He started recording programs and making movies. "One day, when I grew up, I found myself doing a lot of things I wanted to do when I was young. That should be a very happy thing. I want to be a saint: an entrepreneur, an educator, an orator, a writer, a host, a director … ",Liu joked. He always likes to try interesting things.
"But there are also many people who can't understand what I do," Liu said. "For example, many people don't understand this concept. If they don't understand, they like to doubt. For example, some readers learned that I was introverted and timid when I was in college. They couldn't understand me as a university host, especially when they saw me on the stage now. They thought I couldn't be that kind of personality. For this kind of question, I often say: Please don't use your logic to understand my logic. Your logic is: because you can't, you won't do it. My logic is that I will do it because I can't. The logic of people and people is different. "
Struggling youth
Liu is a famous professional madman in the circle. His friends know that he is the first to appear in the office every day. He holds the morning meeting of senior management at eight o'clock on time and leaves the office at twelve o'clock every night. As for weekends, he seems to have no weekends. However, Liu doesn't seem to like the title of professional fanatic. He explained: "In fact, I will enjoy life very much and be very romantic, but not yet." He also has a different understanding of overtime and holidays: most people want others to give them holidays, such as weekend rest and annual leave, and they are used to being arranged by others. I will also have a rest, but it is not arranged by others, nor is it a legal holiday. I arrange my own rest based on the project. If I try my best to complete a project, I will give myself ten days, half a month or even a few months off, go to the Aegean Sea and go to all parts of the world.
If you see an alien who often walks and writes with a pen and a piece of paper in the street, it may be Liu. He has a habit of thinking for another hour after work every morning, holding a pen and a piece of paper. "One thing I find incredible is that one night at three o'clock in the morning, I was sleeping, but a few seconds after I suddenly woke up, I remembered the answers to more than a dozen questions and immediately turned on the light to record them. I still can't explain this logic myself: because I know I will be inspired, or I will have some inspiration when I dream, but I fell asleep. I didn't dream. How can I open my eyes and have the answer to the question? Is the subconscious thinking about the answer when sleeping? "
Soft power education (with pictures of various speeches)
Many media asked him why he wanted to start the cause of soft power education. Liu said that many people are still puzzled by my past confusion; It hurts my pain, inward towards my introversion, and around my detour. So, when I felt I had the ability to answer these questions, I founded such a company.
Since Liu started his business four years ago, he has given thousands of lectures all over the country. As a pioneer of soft power education, he is popularizing the idea to millions of people that everything has soft power, such as national soft power, city soft power soft power and enterprise soft power, and individuals also have personal soft power. For the first time, he defined "personal soft power" as: thinking ability, communication ability, expression ability, emotional intelligence, personality quality and other non-technical abilities that cannot be measured by examination certificates but are crucial to life development. People's hard power usually refers to professional ability represented by academic diploma and proficiency represented by English computer certificate.
But because soft power is an advanced new concept, most people still can't understand it. Liu said: "People can understand English training and civil service examinations, but they can't understand the concept of soft power. They only know to learn a certain skill, or learn some certificates by memorizing some textbooks, but they don't realize the great power of personality, emotional intelligence, thinking, pattern and communication expression on career development. "
Most people just wander between knowledge and skills, never realizing the beauty of having soft power. If chess is used as a metaphor, literacy, numeracy, computer learning and English learning are just instrumental abilities, which is equivalent to learning the basic rules of "a horse walks like the sun and walks like a field". As for the ability of "layout, judgment, prediction and contingency", that is what a master really has, and this is the subtlety of soft power.
Perhaps he is carefully building a soft power group company including education, film and television, culture and media communication. In an interview with reporters, Liu doesn't seem to want to explain the concept of soft power too much. He just paused and said, if you want to know about soft power, look at my book or website. It's already written clearly.
Introduction of works (with book cover)
The Tomb of College Students —— A Book to Answer College Students' Questions
This book is written for college students, and many high school students who are about to enter the university are also reading it.
1, this book answers all kinds of development questions of college students in detail, such as who should take the postgraduate entrance examination, how to determine whether they are suitable for the postgraduate entrance examination, how to cultivate business thinking, how to learn English well, how to change their personality, and how to deal with interpersonal relationships. In the original words of the book, it is: "This book answers almost all the detours that college students have to take. Don't write to me for advice in the future. See the book as you see me. "
Every article in this book is full of thoughts, and every thought can make readers feel strong and calm and solve a practical problem. Reader's comment: This is a book with grounded language and individuality. You can tell whether Liu wrote it by reading a paragraph casually.
3. a sentence in the text: many people never look at other people's experiences, so they work hard. Countless people have died there, and he rushed forward with his head covered. Such people have no future if they work hard. People who fail are all behind in life: after high school, they understand high school life; After college, I know how to live in college; You don't know how to live until it's over. And successful people walk in front of life.
Alien-Life Development Planning Book
This book is written for parents, teachers and struggling young people. In the crowd, the excellent and the disabled are different. This book is about how to work hard correctly and how to improve the malformations of different kinds.
1. profoundly expounds the cultivation methods of personal soft power such as thinking, communication, emotional intelligence, personality, vision and pattern.
2. It pointedly points out the problems existing in university, primary school and secondary school education.
3. It puts forward the value hierarchy theory of knowledge for the first time, and answers the universal problem "Why reading can't change fate".
4. A series of life development theories, such as self-cognition mode, goal decomposition method, goal-oriented thinking, career orientation steps, and the cultivation of business entrepreneurship observation, are completely explained.
Personal quotations
Growth is constantly destroying the existing balance.
There is an almost irreparable defect in the world, that is, low emotional intelligence.
Mediocre people always consider things from the status quo, while excellent people always consider things from the goal.
A group of degenerate people pointed to an early riser and said: You are not normal; A group of decadent people pointed to a person who came home late and said, you are abnormal; A group of idiots pointed to a thoughtful person and said, you have been brainwashed.
The process of progressive people being dragged into the water by decadent people is like a group of eunuchs pointing to a normal person and saying, "Hey, why is your place different from ours?" Tell you what, we'll make you like us. "
Know yourself, and you will know the whole world.
If you are not a chicken, don't compete with those "chickens" for bugs. You can't compete with them because you are not a chicken. Do you know why you often feel pain? Because you think you are a chicken, and then you force yourself to do "chicken" things.
A sparrow is a sparrow, and no matter how good it is, it will never become a phoenix, which is determined by genes.
Schools and society have different standards for judging talents, and the definitions of good students and good employees are also two different things.
Don't say this is boring, that is boring, it should be said that you are a boring person.
At school, you can consider them with scores; In society, people can eliminate them with childishness.
Plans can't keep up with changes? People who say such things are mostly mediocre and decadent people, because they have nothing to do and nothing to plan.
Many people lament life: why do others live better than me if they don't work hard? The reason is simple, because you work hard.
Why are many knowledgeable people in modern times also poor? Some people explain that knowledge is not power, but the use of knowledge is power. Nonsense. Who has knowledge but can't use it? You can read, but you can't use it to read street signs? It can be counted, but it can't be used to calculate rent?
It's not that reading can't change fate, but reading those useless books can't change fate.
Job-hopping is like remarriage. If you don't think it's appropriate, don't force it. The sooner the better.
After work, you will find that you have no ability and qualification to criticize your work. Many times it can meet one of your requirements, and you will be grateful. For example, the salary is not bad, and the rent and mortgage can basically be guaranteed. As for interest and meaning, it has nothing to do with most people. Without this mentality, you will be like a flea in the workplace. On the basis of competence, talk about your significance, interest and development.
Entrepreneurship is nothing more than doing a project that others are doing, but doing it better than others; Or do a brand-new project that no one else has done. Whether it is frontal attack or side attack, it must be an expert in this industry, otherwise there is basically no chance of winning.
People who often need inspiration have no future. If Liu Bei often talks about it, then he is not Liu Bei. If Tang Priest often says goodbye, then he is not Tang Priest.
If you want to break through your personality, it's very simple. Then set up a stall and sell a cup or stone on the stall, preferably a pair of heterosexual underwear.
It seems that many people in modern times also like to pursue knowledge, because they are all chasing successful people, but they only forget to read their books all their lives and don't know how to learn.
Every time I see an old man in a wheelchair by the roadside, I can't help but think: If one day I get old and find my heart will not die, I find that I still have many things to try and many dreams to realize. Is there anything more painful in life than "the old man never dies"
What I often say to myself is: If you don't like your present life, please don't delay a second to change it. If you like a certain life, please don't delay a second to pursue it.