"The red-crowned crane is a very beautiful animal in China, and its vitality is also very tenacious. When I was young, I wanted her to see beautiful feelings. "
Not only that, Kobayashi also wrote a long letter to Xiaojun's sister. Because Kobayashi just entered the first grade of primary school, he couldn't write many words, so he used pinyin instead. What Kobayashi himself didn't expect was that this slightly immature Chinese painting and a long letter with some twists and turns made Xiaojun's sister burst into tears and made up her mind to stay away from drugs. Because compared with the pure love of children, Xiaojun feels too shameful! Xiaojun, who has returned to normal life, often thinks of the scene when Kobayashi brought himself a snack that he could not bear to eat. The two Chinese paintings that Kobayashi sent in those years have been hung in Xiaojun's home for many years.
Wen Lin donates to China AIDS Foundation.
In this way, under the influence of his mother, Kobayashi changed the lives of many "addicts" with these seemingly ordinary interpersonal communication methods. There is such a mother in Hubei province, because after divorcing her husband, she was depressed and became addicted to drugs. When she first entered the drug rehabilitation center, she had a very difficult first month because she was worried about her daughter Lili. At this time, she heard the story of Kobayashi, a child of the same age as her daughter. Kobayashi is not only the youngest anti-drug volunteer in China, but also a junior high school student who has the highest success rate in helping drug addicts get rid of drugs. So, my mother wrote a letter to Kobayashi with a try mentality, with her home phone number attached. A week later, Lili received a strange phone call. "Hello, I'm Wen Lin from Fujian. I am an anti-drug volunteer. Your mother asked me to contact you. She misses you very much. Let me be your friend, and let's help your mother overcome the drug demon together, ok? " From then on, Lili will receive a long-distance call from Fujian at seven o'clock every night. Two children who have never met before talked about many things on the phone. This phone call has been going on for nearly a year. In July 2004, Wen Xiaolin and his mother, who had just finished the senior high school entrance examination, also rushed to Wuhan to visit their mother and daughter. Two days later, the mother and daughter registered locally and joined the anti-drug volunteer team in China. In Hubei Province, this mother is the first person in China who changed from a drug addict to a volunteer.
Also with the help of Kobayashi, Chen Rihui (a pseudonym), a young man from Changle, Fuzhou, changed from a drug addict to an anti-drug volunteer. Xiao Chen, as early as 1995, was infected with heroin because of contact with bad friends. By 2005, Chen Rihui, who had a history of drug abuse for ten years, had been sent to drug rehabilitation centers in Guangzhou, Zhuhai and other places for more than ten times, but after each return, he still couldn't resist the temptation of drug addiction and repeatedly quit and smoked. Last March, with the help of officers and men of Tantou Border Police Station of Fuzhou Border Detachment, I met the anti-drug volunteer and her mother Wen. Later, Wen Lin went to Tantou Town to talk to Chen Rihui many times and insisted on calling Chen Rihui, which awakened Chen Rihui's confidence and courage with love and sincerity. Xiao Chen said: "At that time, I was at a loss about the future, because I couldn't get people's understanding and my mood was very low. Wen Lin and others call me almost every night to chat, care about me and comfort me, which makes me feel very warm. When I am in a bad mood, I will call them. Later, they were busy with their homework and called me every few days. Before that, no one told me these words. Their words are my best drug for detoxification. "
Ladies and gentlemen, in 10, Kobayashi and his mother helped nearly 40 drug addicts in many provinces in 10 by writing letters, calling, visiting and surfing the Internet. Among them, 17 reached the United Nations standard of success in drug rehabilitation, and there was no recurrence within three and a half years. Professor Wang Zengzhen, a famous public health medical expert in China, followed them up. Speaking of which, you should understand why Xiao Lin said that under normal circumstances seventeen years old is romantic, and all this is not in line with her actual situation. Think about it, no matter the letters or phone calls that she frequently exchanges with drug addicts, either one will be related to "romance". In June this year, after Kobayashi won the title of UN AIDS Ambassador, she was closely linked with the "red ribbon" at the age of 17. (recording)
"As an AIDS love ambassador, if you don't stand up first, how can others stand up? So we contacted the provincial Red Cross Society and then contacted the Infectious Diseases Hospital. Director Ye helped us find it. Xiao Lei herself is a very poor girl. She was innocently infected with AIDS. She has two younger brothers to study. After getting the disease, she cut off her financial resources and borrowed money from her relatives. She had no confidence in life at that time. "
In the past, Kobayashi sold newspapers for charity many times and donated money to the China AIDS Foundation. However, Kobayashi has never really contacted HIV carriers or AIDS patients in his previous volunteer activities against AIDS. So, in this face-to-face communication with Xiao Lei, what changes have Kobayashi's inner world experienced? Let's have a rest and come back.
Ladies and gentlemen, welcome back and continue to listen to my story about Wen Lin.
I heard that I'm going to Xiao Lei. Wen Lin didn't think too much at first. But when he really came to Xiao Lei's ward, Wen Lin began to hesitate again. (recording)
"When I really walked into this ward, I felt in my heart, oh, I will get AIDS if I stand inside. Although I know very well in my heart what the transmission routes are and how to prevent them, when you really come into contact with this matter, I have to cross this threshold. Seriously, when I saw her, I was a little hesitant to shake her hand. Then I think I should face myself. Then take this step bravely. "
Xiaowenlin held Xiao Lei's hand and told her sincerely that this was the first time he had seen an AIDS patient, and he was a little scared. This sincere confession earned Xiao Lei's respect.
"She (Xiao Lei) told me that you are very brave. You will tell me that some people are either far away from us or are not afraid at all."
From ray's ward, I found a doctor. The doctor said that there would be no problem as long as proper preventive measures were taken, but Xiaowenlin carefully washed his hands with hand sanitizer.
(recording)
"In fact, after I go back, I don't wash my hands when I come into contact with AIDS patients. The first time is often the threshold we have to cross. When you cross this threshold, you will know that this is nothing, very open and natural behavior. Shake hands and hug. In this way, you won't feel what this is. "
Also in the infectious disease hospital, Xiaolin also met such a pair of mother and son from northern Fujian. The child is less than one year old, but he has been ill since he was born. Once he is ill, it is difficult for him to recover. So the experienced doctor suspected that the child's immune system had a problem. Subsequent examination confirmed that the child was infected with AIDS, which was transmitted to him by his mother, and the child's mother was an HIV carrier. The husband who loved himself disappeared without a trace, and the things and clothes used by mother and son seemed to be very hot, and no one wanted to touch them again; Once out of the house, relatives and neighbors either hide far away or point at their backs. Xiao Lin decided to help the unfortunate mother and son with her own strength. At this time, a volunteer organization, after learning about the mother and son, also very much hoped to help the unfortunate mother Xiaoping, but it backfired:
"They also hope to help her. I want to help her, but I don't know how to do it. I rushed in and ran to the counter (of the hotel) and said that we were going to interview this AIDS patient and immediately exposed our identity. Something happened that we were kicked out (of the hotel). He really wants to help him, which is the starting point of kindness. (Because) it is not enough to have enthusiasm. "
From this experience, Wen Lin felt that it was obviously not enough to be an enthusiastic and caring volunteer to prevent AIDS, and it was very important to strengthen his own psychological construction. (recording)
"When you do every step, you should consider whether it will cause trouble to others. We must have a certain psychological foundation, be prepared, don't overdo it, don't stimulate him (the patient) in language, have a certain measure in action, and don't do it blindly. Many volunteers don't know how to help, which may be counterproductive. You died before you realized your dream. "
You see, it is rare for a child of 17 to analyze and look at problems so rationally. The reason is that in the 10 anti-drug and anti-AIDS campaign, Kobayashi suffered too many hardships that children of the same age could not bear. It is hard to imagine that this "anti-drug angel" had few intimate friends in primary school. It turns out that since the media began to report that Xiaolin Wen's mother helped save drug addicts, some parents knew about it and said to their children: Don't play with Wen Lin. Her mother always deals with drug addicts and AIDS patients, and maybe she will be infected one day! Overnight, in the eyes of students, Kobayashi became an alternative. (recording)
"I don't have a childhood like childhood. Now I can't remember what my childhood was like. The only thing I remember is what I did with my mother. In primary school, I can say that I have no friends, and my childhood is a person. It can be said that it is a bit bleak. "
The child's words are really a little sad. We have to admit that in the face of drug addicts and AIDS patients, most people in society are still afraid of it and avoid it. Kobayashi stood up bravely when most adults dissuaded him. It is under such circumstances that some people are helped to buy drugs with the money saved by the mother and daughter. Can you bear such a blow? (recording)
"It hurts! How do you feel about doing all this? Work for free. Mom asked me if I wanted to continue. I mean, the best thing a person can do is to stick to it. What we have done is limited, but if we work hard to face it, we will not let ourselves have a little regret. "
In elementary school, Wen Lin went to Bingxin's ancestral home in Changle, Fujian.
At this point in the story, we really can't help cheering for the little girl. Didn't the song also sing: "Young heart writes a dialogue for the future;" Young you, cheer for endless life. "So, xiao Lin side really have applause? (recording)
"One of the biggest difficulties we face is a small number of people in society. When we are doing it, he will not help, but will call names, causing a very painful state in our hearts. When you do something and are interviewed by the media, they will say,' Oh, you are on TV again. Are you on the media? How's it going? Will you eat this bowl of rice again?' That's it. I'm cynical. "
Xiaolin said with a smile that the poor life and the indifference of a few people have honed her to be more mature than her peers. /kloc-when she was 0/4 years old, someone once asked her mother, is your daughter 20 years old? At present, the college entrance examination is getting closer and closer. Besides other children, Xiao Lin has to do a lot of volunteer work.
65438+February 19, Xiaoping, an HIV carrier in northern Fujian, who we introduced earlier, came to Fuzhou again for treatment with her children. This afternoon, Xiaowenlin happened to have no class. She put on a clean school uniform and went to the hotel where Xiaoping lived. Kobayashi held the sick baby and tried to make the thin child smile. Although this afternoon is too precious for her in senior three. However, Kobayashi still chooses to leave time for those who need love and help. (recording)
"Actually, I'm ready for the worst. I can't go to college. It often flashes in your mind, but you must stick to it, because it is a responsibility, my responsibility, and volunteering itself is to wronged yourself. I think this grievance can make some efforts for our society, our country and our own life. I feel that there are no regrets in this life. "
Among the children who come home from school, you will never recognize Kobayashi at a glance, because she is too simple and ordinary, but after listening to today's story, I believe you will remember this child, just like the screen name "angel heart" she once used, because of her angelic heart, this winter is particularly warm.