Therefore, when it comes to property, it is necessary to confirm the ownership of the property, some are personal property before marriage, and some are joint property of husband and wife after marriage;
Some people will choose notarization in order to save trouble, and Xiaoying's parents will persuade Xiaoying to get married for notarization, so as to avoid losing both money and money.
0 1.
A Min has been a girl of her own mind since she was a child. Since childhood, her parents have been very relieved of her and basically let her decide everything by herself.
After graduating from college, A Min fell in love with a male colleague in the company. The other person's family is not very good, but the rural people don't say it. There are two younger brothers and a younger sister. At present, he has no car, no house and no savings. But A Min didn't care. She insisted on being with him.
After this matter was known by parents, in fact, parents were not very satisfied with the boy, but they were not good at persuading him. After all, children are responsible for themselves when they are older.
But parents heard that two people are dating now, and basically their daughters pay for dinner and go out to play. In addition, my boyfriend's mother had an operation last month, but he couldn't afford it, and her daughter paid 30 thousand yuan for medical expenses, which worried her parents. My mother found A Min and said, "I heard that Hui's mother was ill last month. Have you paid? "
A Min said: "Yes, his salary has not been paid yet, and his younger brother and sister are still studying. I helped a little."
"Daughter, he began to spend your money before you got married. What will you do after you get married? "
"Mom, don't worry. Hui said he would pay me back when I got paid. Besides, Hui is very kind to me. I am his girlfriend. What's the big deal? " Hearing her daughter say this, she could no longer speak.
02.
A few days ago, A Min said to her mother, "I discussed it with Ah Hui and decided to get married on National Day."
"So fast, do you want to think about it again? As you know, Hui's condition is not ... "
"Don't want to, I take a fancy to him, not his family. I believe that our married life must be very happy. "
Mother sighed and said, "You have been very independent since childhood, and you have made up your own mind about everything. Since you decided to marry Ah Hui this time, neither your father nor I object, and it won't work. "
"However, my mother still has something to say to you. You are the only child in our family. At that time, all our property will be given to you. Three houses and millions of deposits are all yours. It's your business to marry a poor boy. Neither your father nor I object, but I want to say one thing first. I hope you can keep these three houses and millions of deposits. Never give money to a man. If he wants to buy something, he must make money through his own efforts. "
"But, after I got married with Hui, he became my husband. How can a wife not spend money on her husband? " A Min pursed her lips.
03.
Mother interrupted A Min and said earnestly, "Have you forgotten your sister Feifei? At first, she married a poor boy regardless of her family's opposition. Her father gave her a dowry of 500 thousand and two houses. As a result, after getting married, her husband felt that the conditions at home were good and he stopped working hard. He just ate and drank all day, and finally got into the bad habit of gambling. Within three years, he lost all his house and savings. Do you want to make the same mistake again? If you give him money now, he will find it all easy, and he will lose the motivation to struggle and become more dependent. You will only cultivate a baiwenhang, and in the end, people will benefit, but you will not be taken seriously, and you will have a hard time. These houses and savings are all pre-marital property given to you by your parents. I hope you will do a good job of notarization of pre-marital property. "
Marriage is not as romantic as fairy tales, but also has cruel reality, especially in the material economy, women should be more careful. Some women, in pursuit of so-called love, do not hesitate to marry poor boys and give money to men. They thought it was love, but in fact they were blinded by love.
Xiaoying's parents' advice to Xiaoying sounds uncomfortable, but their worries are not unreasonable. After all, Xiaoying's cousin is a lesson from the past. Now the divorce rate is so high, who can guarantee that the man who kept saying that he loved you yesterday will think of you in his dreams at night?
Therefore, while enjoying a beautiful love, women should also know how to safeguard their rights and interests. If it is your own interest, you must fight for it. Don't lose their love and property, it's not worth the loss.