: Mei Lanfang's Fairy Spirit
I came across a piece of information about Mei Lanfang's grandson telling his grandfather's story. Mention one thing. For a time, Mei Lanfang was obsessed with painting and devoted a lot of time and energy. Even the orchids and plum blossoms on Yusi's clothes were designed by him. Finding Mei Lanfang so obsessed with painting, someone advised him that your career was achieved by singing opera. Painting can't draw Mei Lanfang, but painting can achieve Zhang Daqian and Qi Baishi. Mei Lanfang doesn't talk much after listening, but she still likes to draw a few strokes in her spare time.
There was a student named Yan Huizhu, Mei Lanfang's favorite female disciple, and Mei Pai learned it perfectly. On one occasion, Yan Huizhu learned a song "Luo Shen" and had a small rehearsal before the premiere. Many old gentlemen were invited to see it, and they were invited to comment after the performance. One of the old gentlemen commented: "The clothes and figure are good everywhere, but they are not as fairy as your husband." Yan Huizhu was very disappointed. She played Luo Shen, but she didn't have that charm. That's the biggest failure.
Later, Yan Huizhu went to the old gentleman's house for advice: "What is a fairy? How did you come? " The old man smiled and asked her to ask the teacher. Sure enough, she ran back to ask, but Mei Lanfang said, "I have nothing special, just act like that."
Finally, puzzled Yan Huizhu finally got the answer from the old man: "Your husband can draw, write and play the piano. Can you do it? " Do you have these qualities of your husband? "Yan Huizhu suddenly realized that he finally understood why the teacher was so obsessed with painting and other things besides singing opera.
The formation of literacy is a process of dripping water and wearing away stones, which can't be immediate, but art itself is interlinked. Sometimes seemingly unrelated things are actually complementary. It is precisely because Mei Lanfang understands this truth that he has formed a unique "fairy spirit", which even his favorite disciples can't imitate.
: Psychologist from Nightmare and Nirvana
Author: Su Guo
"The world kissed me and asked me to return the song." Tagore's famous saying just confirms Feng's life.
Feng is the chief counselor of Chongqing's "Psychological Counseling for Reshaping Life". It may be hard for you to imagine that such a counselor's job is to soothe others' hearts and reshape others' lives. He himself was once a "patient" and was devastated by setbacks and depression, and walked alone through a long dark alley.
Feng, who was born in the suburb of Jiujiang, Jiangxi Province, seems to have written a sad song for him from the beginning. The memory left by his childhood is that his parents quarreled endlessly. In the hard years of lack of food and clothing, his depressed mother always cried and wanted to die every once in a while, and the psychological "abnormal behavior" of other relatives at home also made him tremble with fear. ...
Nightmare-like childhood experiences cast a heavy shadow on every post station in his later life. As an adult, he has a low self-esteem. At work, he always feels that others look down on him. In private, he always struggles with other people's eyes and faces. Once he is short of material things, he is still surrounded by worries and fears. Work, struggle and struggle constitute the whole of his life. During the day, he is restless and easily gets angry when something happens; At night, he tossed and turned, nightmares, sweating, waiting for "wake up". ...
"Why can't your own struggle be exchanged for the happiness of life?" Life made him exhausted and he began to reflect. 200 1 He made a shocking decision. As a department-level civil servant, he submitted his resignation to the unit and studied in the United States at his own expense, hoping to find the answer to a happy life in the most advanced countries. At that time, he was 36.
However, the road to "learning from the West" is not smooth. In a foreign land, the double pressure of study and survival not only failed to make him happy, but also made the depression he was afraid of since childhood fall on his head. A week of insomnia is followed by anxiety, fear and extreme depression, and then the side effects of drugs lead to general convulsions. ...
When life was surrounded by a wall of repression, he had to break through to save himself.
He became a frequent visitor to the library, eliminating the false and retaining the true in a huge amount of literature. He tried his best to do experiments on himself, and even a ray of sunshine made him feel very excited. He became the first modern psychological counselor to "taste a hundred herbs" and recorded the efficacy, precautions and possible side effects of various methods. In the vast literature, in the arduous exploration and practice, he finally broke a path in the dark and created a series of methods to cure mental illness, such as swearing, purification and psychological regeneration. ...
Maybe he felt particularly empathy for the family curse for a long time. Feng, who came out of his "heart disease", finally found a career he was willing to devote his life to-engaging in psychological research and practice, restoring the truth of growth, being his true self, and bringing peace to everyone who was tortured by psychological confusion.
After returning from studying abroad in 2004, he compiled his research experience in the United States into a manuscript "You Can Have Everything You Want", and his brand-new treatment concept spread rapidly in China, with help seekers from all over the country. In order to benefit more people, Feng began to run all over the country. In 2007, he was invited by Tsinghua University Psychological Society to give a special lecture on reshaping the concept of life to students. After the Wenchuan earthquake in 2008, he immediately led a team to the disaster area and volunteered to provide a lot of psychological counseling for the victims. 20 10 entered the work-study school, blowing the spring breeze of dispelling depression into the hearts of every delinquent teenager and depressed patient. ...
Life can be a jerk sometimes, but it's useless to immerse yourself in pain and resentment. On the contrary, like Mr. Feng, you can be reborn through learning and usher in a happy and open life.
In fact, it is not difficult to find that many world-famous psychologists, such as Freud, Eriksson, Morita Shoma, etc. Without exception, they are all patients with severe mental illness. Finally, they discovered psychological secrets through hard exploration, which may be the so-called self-help of the strong.
Because it hurts, I know. He used his personal experience to tell the students who came to consult-no matter what kind of pain you encounter in life, as long as you bravely say goodbye, life will definitely give you a new start.
Chen Xiaoqing's slowness and slowness
Chen Xiaoqing, the director of China on the Tip of the Tongue, has two realms. One is that "the wind and the clouds are surging, and the silk is lingering, affecting a pool of stars". Over the years, he has slowly "pulled the net program" and touched the "Star Pool" in today's film and television circle, which has had a great influence in the world.
201April 15, on the premiere day of the food documentary "China on the Tip of the Tongue 2", Chen Xiaoqing wrote in a circle of friends: "A porridge and a meal is hard to think about; A peck, full of sour and sweet. Tip of the tongue, long time no see. " Documentary witnessed the birth, growth, gathering and parting of life with tables, and let the world know the ancient oriental country with relish through delicious food.
Chen Xiaoqing, 1965, a native of Lingbi, Anhui Province, has regular facial features, a round black face and a tall figure. Although the walking steps are great, the speed is not obvious, giving people a feeling of "slow". Actually, he's really slow.
As early as 2002, Chen Xiaoqing declared the project "on the tip of the tongue" three times. At that time, Taiwan Province always replied "The theme is good, but there is no money, waiting". However, this was 10, and it was not until 20 1 1 year that nine CCTV recording channels were established that this topic won the key investment of 4.5 million yuan from Taiwan Province.
It was in this kind of waiting that Chen Xiaoqing became a famous gourmet in Beijing. He likes to be called a "scavenger". As long as he has a little leisure time, he will ride an old bicycle, search restaurants in the streets of Beijing, and record the food he sees. China has a saying, "If you are not afraid of slowness, you are afraid of standing." 10 years later, his mobile phone has stored the names and routes of 5600 restaurants. Which restaurant and which waiter have a good attitude, which restaurant and which ingredients will taste better if cooked for a few more minutes. ...
Slowness is a kind of persistence, a kind of concentration, a kind of self-confidence, a kind of determination, a kind of mood immersed in it, and an increasingly profound life experience process. And it is with this kind of mood that he has no temper, whether it is good or bad.
In June 2000, 165438+ 10, the CCTV documentary was born, which is the predecessor of Witness. Chen Xiaoqing is the producer of Witness. At the end of 2003, The Witness was scheduled to air after midnight. Zhang Xiaoyao, the director of this column, once wrote plaintively: "Witness" was broadcast at night, and it was first broadcast after everyone was asleep, and the replay ended before everyone woke up. No ads, pure documentary. A said: at that time, even birds didn't shit. B said: Just change the name to hell. Because Chen Xiaoqing's son can't see his father on TV, he firmly believes his father's colleague's joke: his father is a "TV gatekeeper". It is this temper-less "janitor" day that gives Chen Xiaoqing extraordinary "tongue-biting kung fu".
In the filming, Chen Xiaoqing also works slowly and does fine work. 400,000 kilometers of travel, 400 research sites, 150 shooting sites, 1000 hours of high-definition material, a year of travel and sleep ... he "slowly". There are more than 300 kinds of food in the film, even if it is only a fleeting shot, it has to be considered many times before it is selected. For example, the film crew originally planned to shoot snails in Qiandao Lake because its quality was better than other places. The staff has been from the breeding environment, fishing situation to the tail removal link, over and over again. Later, it was suggested to look at "small, slightly bitter, cool and detoxifying", which is a more distinctive civilized green silk. When Chen Xiaoqing went to Hua Kai, he decided to give up the snails in Qiandao Lake. "Hua Kai moss naturally grows in clean gullies!" This is why Chen Xiaoqing pays special attention to the food growing environment.
"Self-mockers can stand above others, and modest people can stand in their own bodies" is another realm of Chen Xiaoqing: "not slow"-low-key, modest, neither arrogant nor impetuous.
The investment of "China on the Tip of the Tongue 2" is100000 yuan, and the total title fee before shooting is 893 10/00000 yuan. After 654.38+00 days, the whole return is 20 times of the investment, reaching 200 million yuan.
Moreover, the film has gone to the international market and entered the mainstream international TV stations for broadcasting. More international audiences can see China and interpret China through the prime time of the mainstream platform. However, in the face of extraordinary achievements, Chen Xiaoqing is still so low-key.
20 13 In May, on the night of the first episode of "China L on the Tip of the Tongue", Chen Xiaoqing posted a poster on Sina Weibo, recommending lightly: "Let's have a look if you have nothing to do tonight. Not ugly, really. " After China on the Tip of the Tongue 2 was broadcast, Chen Xiaoqing was interviewed. The high-frequency word was "No"-"No, I don't know much about all the delicious food." "I really have no experience ..." This humility is not directly proportional to his efforts and the success of the film.
Whether it is a slow life or a "neither arrogant nor impetuous" attitude in life, it is a calm, confident and firm attitude towards life, and it can also pull a pool of stars in life and add luster to yourself. ...