No.2 girl-Chen Lu, the girlfriend of Chen Lu (Henry's ex-girlfriend) who recently fell in love with Henry for nine years, was hotly debated by the whole network because the local authorities announced her love affair with Henry and because she published a long article "Nine Years for an Ordinary Girl", which revealed the process of her nine-year love affair with Henry. Chen Lu is very beautiful, a national second-class dancer, and the youngest associate professor with a senior title in the art troupe. During the rising period of her career, she resigned for love and started her own studio. Because opening a studio can increase income and subsidize Henry, and it doesn't need to perform all over the world, so it can better accompany Henry. The deputy senior title professor of dance is not sure what the concept is. Anyway, the actors who accompanied her in those days are all big shots now. It is conceivable that if she can persist, she must be a big woman. And this love that paid all the alimony didn't last as long as expected, but went to a stranger, so she was so unwilling and disappointed. Girl No.3-Liu Mintao (a famous actress)
In 20 15, Liu Mintao made many audiences know her by virtue of the fires of "The Pretender" and "Nirvana in Fire", and was evaluated by the media as a late bloomer. Liu Mintao was 39 years old that year.
But in fact, Liu Mintao was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama with the first place, and he was a classmate with powerful actors such as New Bai Qing, Wang Qianyuan and Zhu Yuanyuan.
Out of the campus, the first play is the heroine, from Nie in Ghost Love to Chenjiazhen in the village, and then to Kui Jun in Nine Chapters of Qianmenlouzi. They don't have much experience in filming, but each play is the number one female.
At the best time of her career development, she chose to give up her acting career, get married and have children, and be the woman behind her husband.
Liu Mintao's ex-husband is a famous real estate tycoon and a brilliant young man. A talented person and a beautiful woman fell in love soon. After marriage, Liu Mintao gave birth to a daughter. In order to take care of her daughter and family, she is willing to be a good wife and mother.
After seven years of marriage, due to her husband's busy work, the two separated, and her widowed marriage made her suffer. In the end, she chose to divorce and restart her passionate acting career.
In recent years, relying on her solid foundation, she has found her own position again, participated in many hit dramas, and participated in variety shows such as "Coming to the Sound" and "The Birth of an Actor", all of which made people shine. Become a model of 40+ actresses.
No matter Qin Ziyue, Chen Lu or Liu Mintao, they all gave up their careers for love and chose to return to their families at the best time of their career development, but the results were not very good.
It is true that emotional and marital outcomes are influenced by many factors. The relationship between two people is like a seesaw. Only when two people are evenly matched can they remain stable. Otherwise, if a person is too tall and too low, he will feel very tired after a long time.
Whether love and marriage can last is not how much they pay, but how much they attract each other. What determines attractiveness is your value to others. The higher the value, the easier it is for the other person to be attracted to you and the more stable their feelings are.
When a girl gives up her career and pursuit, it is equivalent to cutting off the growth of her own value, while the other party has been trying to increase her own value, and the gap between the two will become bigger and bigger and more unbalanced.
A truly happy marriage must support each other and achieve each other, not exchange one person's efforts for another's success.