My name is Shi Jun, and there are only two people at home, my sister and me. My sister has been the apple of my eye since she was a child. Everything is centered on my sister, but my sister is not that arrogant. Many things are the consideration of parents. Facing my sister's understanding, my family has nothing to worry about. In this kind of affection, I can feel the warmth of my family, and there will be no contradiction because of anything. This is exactly the family atmosphere I yearn for.
When I met my wife, Ayu, I realized that not all families are like this, and some families are not like this. It is also fate to know Ayu! We are in the same school, but not in the same class. When we met, we talked about the school and what programs I participated in with her. So, this is how we met.
I chased her, and her parents liked her very much, because she was sensible and liked by the old people. Even my sister thinks that she will be a good sister-in-law in the future. When I first met her mother, she said that her father had an affair when he was a child, leaving three of them behind, and she had a younger brother, so most of her mother's hopes were pinned on her younger brother. In the face of her statement, I can still understand. After all, she is a woman.
I told her that I would never be that person. You have to have confidence in me. She said it herself. If I can't see her now, I'll just have to take it one step at a time. Actually, I can understand her feelings. In the face of these words, it is still too early to say. It's too bad that I didn't do it. After I married her, I had some money myself, and with a little sponsorship from my parents, we bought a house. After all, we have to have our own house to get married.
Before I got married, I knew that she was the pillar of the family, and more than half of her monthly salary would be given to her family. After all, her mother doesn't have a job, and her brother doesn't actually have any formal job. The kind of person who spends two days fishing and three days drying nets basically spends half of her money on her younger brother, but she has no complaints at all. After all, as the head of the family, she is more sensible than me, but sometimes I think she is too sensible.
After marriage, she will still give money to her parents. Once, I saw my wife give money to my mother-in-law, and before half a minute, I handed it over to my brother-in-law. I was shocked at that time. I asked my wife, why is this? Doesn't my brother-in-law have a job? She said it was normal. It is the same to give now and give later. It makes no difference. I was surprised to learn about it. Suddenly I feel that my sister's life is really happy compared with her.
After a few months of marriage, because the house in Ayu's hometown needs to be demolished, her mother-in-law has no place to live, and her brother-in-law lives in her work place. My mother-in-law offered to live with me, and I said to her, "Mother-in-law, you can move in with us and don't give her brother-in-law money." Before I finished, I heard her say, "That won't do." Now my son hasn't married yet, so I say this demolition. Will it be different in the future Mother-in-law said she would not live with us, but with her brother-in-law.
I didn't say anything when I heard my mother-in-law was so determined. After all, where she wants to live is her choice. I can't interfere What I can do now is to tell my wife not to give money to her family, it depends. After all, demolition also has money.
Conclusion: Mr. Shi also knows very well that the only thing he can do now is to tell his wife not to help her family any more, and so do women. After marriage, she must look at the economic situation, don't just care about her family, regardless of the marital situation, and learn to let go when appropriate. Even as the head of the family, she should let her brother learn to grow up and not feel indifferent, which will ruin her marriage.