Three years ago, I fell in love with Xiao Du. We are all ordinary office workers, with similar looks, income, education and family situation. Although Xiao Du is a little careful at ordinary times, he seems smart in money. He only eats in the US delegation, and only buys discounted movies when watching movies ... but I don't care. Ordinary people should live like Xiao Du, so that they can live for a long time. We have no official father and no business.
During my love with Xiao Du, I never asked too much, but kept my feet on the ground and divided the books. Not long ago, Xiao Du spent all his savings, and with the support of his parents, he spent 600,000 yuan on a down payment to buy a new house of more than 60 square meters. Du didn't go behind my back either. When choosing a house, I accompanied Xiao Du to choose it several times. Although I didn't make it clear at the time, I feel that this is our new house, which has always been carefully selected.
Sure enough, three months after choosing a house, Xiao Du and I talked about marriage. I thought even the house was ready. This is a matter of course. What is there to hesitate about? So, I agreed without saying anything. Go back and tell my mother that I didn't hide my love from my mother. My mother asked, "Some time ago, Xiao Du bought a house just to get married?" I nodded, and my mother smiled with satisfaction and said, "Xiao Du is a reliable child, not hypocritical, and his hands are tight." Do you see anyone around him who doesn't give his parents a problem and saves money to pay the down payment to buy a house? " Which one is not reaching out for parents? "I listened and nodded. Xiao Du and I have similar income and length of service. Even if I don't have a few dollars in my hand, people can buy a house. This gap is really not big!
Mom asked again, "Is there a name on the real estate license?" I paused. I haven't thought about it before, but subconsciously I think this suite is shared by husband and wife. Now my mother reminds me that it is a house before marriage. If my name is not on the real estate license, it has nothing to do with me in the future!
The next day after work, I made an appointment with Xiao Du and asked Xiao Du whose name was written on the property certificate of his new house. Xiao Du said in surprise: "The house I bought is of course my name!" I listened to the fire: "What about me? Why not add my name? " Xiao Du said, "You didn't spend a penny. Why did you add your name? " I am sorry to hear that. This person is really good at calculating, and the calculation is too deep. In order to protect his property, he bought a house before marriage. What about me? What am I?
Be in love for three years, eat cheap food from the US delegation, only buy discounted movie tickets and watch angry movies. There are no gifts for Valentine's Day and birthdays, let alone anniversaries. I save money, save money, save money, save money and buy a house. In the end, my name didn't appear on the real estate license. How can this make sense?
The new house still has 20 years of mortgage to pay. Pay off the mortgage with Xiao Du after marriage. I asked Xiao Du to add my name to the real estate license. But Xiao Du refused. Xiao Du thought that after I got married, my salary would be used for living expenses and I didn't have to pay the mortgage. Besides, I have to pay rent even if I rent a house, let alone live for free. Komori's words completely stunned me. This man is really good at calculation, and I am chilling, so I broke up with this love rat.
I don't regret breaking up with Xiao Du at all. Men who care too much can't get it. What's the point of living, counting all the warmth in life and the sweetness in love? Friends, are you right?