In fact, mom and you are two independent life bodies, each with different life choices and life courses. If you can slowly psychologically separate yourself from your mother's life. Realize that the dispute between mom and others has nothing to do with you, but the fate and contradiction between them. Although you are distressed, there is nothing you can do. Because you didn't cause the problem, how can it be solved because of you? So you just need to focus on your interaction with your mother and love her, instead of judging her getting along with others. I believe you will be much more comfortable. Further, if you can correctly evaluate your own value, recognize yourself from the heart and love yourself. Then your happiness can be decided by yourself, and you don't need to rely on the affirmation of your mother or others.
Xiaoya Brain Studio encourages everyone.