Finally, I hope my son and daughter will be happy and form a brand-new small family. I can't just get married for profit and selfishness.
Marriage is consensual, so is the bride price. There is nothing wrong with marrying a bride price, but it is a big mistake to miss a marriage because of the bride price.
In the real society, there are countless loves defeated by bride price. It is often that many women feel that they have a crush on the man and will not marry until they reach the bride price in their hearts. In the end, I missed the happiness of my life because of the bride price.
Li Sheng is 30 years old. He has a successful career, a stable job, a car and a house. Unfortunately, he has never been in love and has no experience in dating. He spent the first half of his life fighting for his career, but he didn't care about his lifelong events.
Seeing how old his friends, classmates and children are, Li Sheng is very anxious, and his parents are also very anxious to have grandchildren. I met Xiaomei in the same village through the introduction of villagers.
Xiaomei's family conditions are very general. She has a younger brother who is two years younger, but Xiaomei looks very good and has dated several times. However, due to various reasons, Xiaomei has never taken a fancy to each other and is getting older and older.
Many older men and women are either indifferent to feelings or too picky. Finally, when they are old, they become the object of criticism.
When I met Li Sheng, they hit it off and fell in love quickly because they were both older than me. After dating for a few months, they soon reached the age of talking about marriage.
Xiaomei's family asked for 200 thousand bride price. Lunt understands Xiaomei's family situation very well, and his own family conditions are really good. Li Sheng promised Xiaomei without saying anything. He doesn't care about the bride price of 200 thousand, what he cares about is being with Xiaomei.
On the wedding day, Li Sheng, dressed in the groom's clothes, was "stopped" by the bridesmaids, broke through five barriers and sent many red envelopes to the bride's bedroom to meet her.
Xiaomei is lying in bed in a red wedding dress. At the moment she saw Xiaomei, Li Sheng was very happy that she finally had a home of her own, but she didn't expect her mother-in-law to speak first: "Today, we can only give you 300,000 bride price and marry you."
Lent said with a wry smile, "Didn't we say 200,000 before? Where can I find 65438+ ten thousand in such a short time? Stop joking and let Xiaomei come with me. "
I didn't expect Xiaomei's mother to pull Xiaomei and not let her go, saying that she didn't want to marry Xiaomei until she gave 300,000 yuan.
Li Sheng was also anxious and asked Xiaomei, "Are you coming with me?" Xiaomei reluctantly shook her head. "My mother said to 300000 ..."
Dr. Li is getting more and more confused. He tried to calm himself down. He asked again, "I asked you for the last time. Would you like to go with me? " "
Xiaomei didn't speak. Dr. Li paused, turned his head and threw the bouquet in his hand on the ground. "Then there is no need to get married." Dr. Li turned his head and left, leaving the stunned best man, bridesmaid and Xiaomei's mother flushed with anger.
When I heard that the bride price was 300,000 yuan and Xiaomei didn't want to go with her anyway, Li Sheng knew that the marriage had been commercialized and clearly marked, and the marriage was just a tool, which was not worth mentioning.
I haven't heard from Dr. Li since he left. Xiaomei waited more and more anxiously, almost crying. Tell her mother to call Dr. Li quickly.
"Son-in-law, don't blame me, 300,000 bride price is indispensable, and your brother-in-law is still waiting to buy a house!" But I didn't expect Lent to say, "No, I married someone else."
In the end, Xiaomei missed a marriage because of the bride price. Seeing Xiaomei heartbroken and crying at home all day, Xiaomei's mother regretted it. Unfortunately, there is no regret medicine in the world. ...
The bride price is a custom and a rule. It is natural to ask for a bride price, but you can't change it at will according to your own ideas. Giving a bride price means that the other party respects this marriage, and as a woman, she should also learn to respect it.
Unfortunately, some parents, just like Xiaomei's mother, buy a house for Xiaomei's younger brother and take it from American food.
This behavior of using marriage to collect money is not only disrespectful to Li Sheng Xiaomei, but also disrespectful to this marriage.
What is even more hateful is that Xiaomei's mother also asked to change the number of bride price without authorization, which eventually led to the premature death of this marriage.
Women are not tools, marriage is consensual because of love, and the act of clearly marking the price of marriage destroys the purity and sacredness of marriage, which will only make the other party more chilling.
Gorky said, "Marriage is the combination of two people's spirits, and its purpose is to overcome all difficulties and hardships in the world."
Before you become a husband and wife, you must first learn to understand each other, so that this marriage relationship can last for a long time.
Marriage is to let two families help build a new small family, not to help the poor.