My husband and I met in college. When I was a freshman, I signed up to join the calligraphy club when I was recruiting members because I liked to write calligraphy. My husband also signed up for this club at that time. Because he practiced calligraphy since childhood, he was recommended by his roommates to be the president of this club, and then he naturally joined this club. Usually when there is no class, members of the club usually get together, practice calligraphy, drink tea, chat and get along well. So my husband and I are getting closer and closer, because the three views are the same and our hobbies are very similar. Finally he confessed to me, and I promised him.
Unconsciously, three years passed quickly, and in the fourth year, when we were internship, we were about to graduate. It is said that graduation season is breakup season. My husband and I witnessed many young couples parting ways after loving each other, but a few young couples persisted in the end. For example, my husband and I are lovers, and our feelings are getting better and better instead of being affected by the breakup. So the students around me admire me very much. They always said that they would be able to drink our wedding banquet, and they would be sure to inform them then. My husband and I felt very happy after listening to it.
After graduation, my husband and I both chose to stay in this city, thinking that the previous internship company was very suitable for us, and we were also very popular with the leaders. It can be said that our work is very smooth. In terms of housing, my husband and I rent a house. Apart from rent, utilities, food and drink, there is not much left. Although we are poor, my husband and I are very happy, and we are happy every day without any troubles. And I always feel that the two of us agreed to be together in the next life, but we really met, fell in love and got together in this life.
Later, as our career began to stabilize, when we got married, my husband and I began to face a problem, that is, buying a house. It can be said that getting married and buying a house is like buying insurance for a car, and you can do it without buying it. Maybe the other parents don't want to give you their daughter, because there is no insurance, so they don't worry. If you buy it, you have to pay a lot of money. The parents of the other party are willing to marry off their daughter for peace of mind, but for the average family, it is likely to take more than ten years or even decades to pay off the mortgage.
My husband's family conditions are not very good, and my sister is studying in college and spending money. Buying a house is a bit out of reach. Besides, after working so long, we have been renting a house. Apart from expenses, there is little left. We have not saved any money. There is really no better way to discuss it. My parents said they could give us a down payment to buy a house. In order not to put pressure on my husband and me, we paid back the monthly payments for the first two years. When we save money in the future, we will return it to them, and let us return the rest ourselves.
This news is really a lifesaver for us, so that my husband and I don't have to worry about the house problem and affect our feelings. My husband listened to my parents' words and was very grateful to them. He swore in front of the old couple that he would be filial to them in the future, cherish and cherish me, and would not let me suffer a little injustice. My parents are also very pleased to hear this, telling us that we must live a good life. If we have any difficulties, we can solve them together. If the groceries are not good, we will discuss with the old couple.
When we started talking about the bride price, my mother-in-law only promised to give 20 thousand bride price. The reason is that Juanjuan (the nickname of her husband and sister) is still at school. For so many years, my mother-in-law can only give so much because she has no job and no money. To tell the truth, according to the custom of our hometown, the bride price of 20 thousand yuan is too little to take out, but then I thought it over carefully. I married my husband to live with him and get to know him. Forget it, don't mind so much. After discussing the bride price, our two families set a wedding date and began to prepare for the wedding. Just a few days ago, Juanjuan asked my husband and I to go home for dinner, saying that my mother-in-law cooked a big table to celebrate our upcoming marriage, so my husband and I bought something after work.
As soon as I entered the room, Juanjuan was very happy. She took what we had, brought me a lot of food, and dragged me to chat. To tell you the truth, I especially like this little girl. She is very sensible and talkative, and the age gap is not very big. There is no generation gap. While eating, the little girl kept picking up food for me, but in the middle of eating, her mother-in-law suddenly coughed twice. Juanjuan, who was immersed in eating, looked up at me with a red face and stammered, "Sister-in-law, did you ... write ... my brother's name?"
After hearing this sentence, I was stunned at first, and then replied, "My parents bought the house, and they paid the monthly payment, not to mention your brother's name, and my name is not on it." At this time, my mother-in-law spoke after hearing it. "That won't do! I think my son's name must be written on the house. After you get married, you will be a family. If you live in your daughter-in-law's house and are known by the people in the village, you must not laugh to death, so this name must be added. " After listening to my mother-in-law, I turned to my husband. "Aren't you going to say something?" I didn't expect my husband to look at me without talking, and his eyes didn't know what to express. At that time, I was very angry. As soon as the chopsticks were put away, I left without looking back.
When I got home, I told my parents about it. They were very angry. They said, wait and see what attitude my husband has. If not, we won't get married. I'm sorry, too. I didn't expect my mother-in-law to be such a person, and my husband wouldn't help me speak. My husband and I have been in love for so many years, not to say that we can let it go. What do you think I should do?