1, inform in advance
Parents said to their children in advance, "Baby, we are going to see Aunt Li today." Let the children know something about what will happen in the future, and the children may not be afraid when they see the guests again. Parents can guide their children like this: "How should you greet Aunt Li after you see her?" It's up to you to call Aunt Li hello or wave and smile. "This gives children limited choices. No matter which one they choose, both parents and children can accept this way.
2. Parents demonstrate
"Parents are like a mirror of their children. She will do whatever you do. " Parents can demonstrate to their children: "Aunt Li, hello, my name is Xiaoxiao." Parents then inspire their children: "What should you say if the elders help you? What should I say when I am separated from my elders? " In this way, children are gradually guided to express politely, parents should be patient, and guidance is very important.
Step 3 encourage children
If the child forgets to say hello after seeing the aunt, parents can guide the child: "Baby, what should I say after seeing the aunt?" If the child takes the initiative to say hello to the aunt after being reminded by his mother, then the parents can say, "Mom reminded you, so you took the initiative to say hello to the aunt, and you did it." If the child still doesn't act rashly after his mother reminds him, his mother can say, "My child is a little shy. Say hello to your aunt when you are ready. " In this way, you don't criticize or make fun of the child, but give the child a face and a step, and the child will want to behave better next time.
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