The conclusion of getting married at the age of 30 is that you want to know the purpose of your marriage, rather than getting married at the urging of others when you are old.
Qin Xiao, who grew up in Shanghai, is a Shanghainese who has never suffered great setbacks. In her later years, under the arrangement of her family, she married a respected TV station in Chen Lei. She looks like an old man at work. She doesn't know how she refused to work.
Zhong Xiaoyang is a newcomer arranged by Zhong. He is six years younger than her. He is positive, optimistic and full of vigor. After divorcing Zhong, we saw the sweet and beautiful love between brother and sister. Why did Zhong Xiaoyang break up?
0 1: Zhong Xiaoyang is a person who pursues excitement and is good at finding fun in life.
Before Zhong Li's marriage, Zhong Xiaoyang was a standard warm-hearted and considerate person. After the divorce, she boldly chose her. When there was difficulty in docking business, he took the initiative to help Zhong solve the problem. While eating barbecue, he found that Zhong had been barbecuing. He will choose to take over and help Zhong take over his job.
In essence, Zhong Xiaoyang's seduction skills should be full. Whether I call your sister or have dinner with Zhong after losing, not to mention picking up the bell for a long time to go home, Zhong Xiaoyang is really young, but this does not prevent him from being extremely rich in love skills. When he confessed to Zhong, he was very romantic. The first time was clouds and fetters, and the second time was romance in a hot air balloon.
Although Zhong, 30, knows that the relationship between brother and sister is not easy, who can resist romance?
In their communication, the love that Zhong really realized was completely different from the new love, and it was no longer a boring marriage life. Both of them do their jobs, indulge in fish farming and keep silent with each other. This is a new excitement, a romantic evening movie, and two days of fun. The love between Zhong and Zhong Xiaoyang is sweet and romantic, but it is beyond her age.
Zhong, her marriage is in trouble. Both she and Chen Lei have problems.
In her marriage with Chen Lei, she was spoiled. Chen Lei did many things for her silently. But it is Chen Lei's silence that leads to this problem, which can be solved through communication between them. Finally, the gap is growing.
After leaving, Zhong finally learned to be independent. No matter what the situation, the clock is very reasonable. The relationship between Zhong and Zhong Xiaoyang is inappropriate in nature. Even if the younger brother is very sweet, the age difference is not only time, but also social experience.
A moment of romance, but driven by hormones, Zhong seems to get along well with Zhong Xiaoyang and find the feeling of love. But if two people want to get along for a long time, some people in life should not only have fun, but also have a sense of responsibility, understanding and mutual protection.
After determining the relationship with Zhong Xiaoyang, in her trivial and different outlook on life, she suddenly realized that they were only suitable for being friends and could not be the closest lovers. Finally, the combination of the clock and the clock is actually a reasonable thing. Chen Lei, who is not influenced by family of origin and dares to express her love, is the best candidate for her.
02: There is a big gap between Zhong and Zhong Xiaoyang.
As can be seen from the play, Zhong Xiaoyang is an invisible rich second generation. His parents are both doing business. He is not short of money, and he already has his own house in Shanghai. He is always cynical about his work. He never realized the hardships of life. He has something that ordinary people can't get too early. In his life, he wanted to try all kinds of novel things and even let Zhong resign, which gave him the motivation to support his girlfriend.
But Zhong and he have completely different values. A woman is 30 years old, and a career is a must. At this age, the frivolity and fantasy of her youth have faded. Zhong is a very pragmatic girl. There is a little woman's romance in her bones, but this does not prevent her from knowing life and hard work. When Zhong was attacked by the whole network, her life fell into panic. Chen Lei hopes that Zhong won't come back for the time being, for fear that she will be frightened. But when Zhong Xiaoyang turned to answer the phone, he just told Zhong what he didn't want to go back. He didn't explain the causal relationship clearly.
What's more, when Chen Lei called again, he silently deleted it. Understandably, it is because of the contact and jealousy between the girlfriend and the ex-husband, but in this case, it should be rational. As a man, the more critical the moment, the more responsibility you should take. This problem needs to be solved, not shelved.
Zhong Xiaoyang's love is full of passion and infinite emotion. At this age, Zhong lags far behind Zhong in enthusiasm and energy. Zhong would rather have a good rest than go out on a day when work and rest are combined. However, Zhong Xiaoyang needs her to accompany her to continue to make trouble crazily. Zhong Xiaoyang's maturity is always relative. If his passion and romance in his early years are touching, then his persistence and willfulness are the root of his complete breakup with Zhong.
Does Zhong Qin Xiao like Zhong Xiaoyang? Actually, she feels good. She suffered a lot in her last marriage. When she was in love, she was very harmonious, but after marriage, she fell into a stagnant pool.
However, the 30-year-old clock does not need romance for the time being, but the stability and stability after romance will gradually disappear. Zhong Xiaoyang's enthusiasm is the beginning of both, and his immaturity is the end of both. Feelings, the most important thing is the agreement between two people, otherwise it will only be a temporary good memory and will not last long. Zhong Xiaoyang's practice is understandable and should not be denied.
When she was in her twenties, it was the best and warmest time. What Zhong Xiaoyang hopes is to tell the world that you belong to me and we are together. So, he tricked him into proposing marriage with motorcycles, flowers and units, which he thought was the most dreamy confession he could give Zhong.
But in a low-key situation, sogeum's tragic ending is not wise. This love, Zhong and Zhong Xiaoyang, their frequencies are not on the same line, and Zhong Xiaoyang's breakup is also reasonable.