I'm so stupid. What should I do?

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positive

An optimistic and positive attitude towards life

Lively and active, humorous.

Treat people warmly

Like to show off

Confidence given by others

curious

creativity

unusual

Poor memory, average.

Anticlimactic ―― like a lion

exaggerate

An optimistic and positive attitude towards life

People with lively personality (hereinafter referred to as "lively type") are naturally optimistic and seldom sad, because they are used to looking on the bright side of things. The perfect type likes to say "advantages and disadvantages", and the lively type will tell you "advantages and disadvantages".

situation

Although Chen Lele's family conditions are very difficult, she is an optimist by nature and is very happy every day. She was very popular with teachers and classmates at school.

After graduating from high school, Chen Lele wanted to lighten the burden on her parents, gave up the opportunity to go to college and went directly to work in a hotel. Lele was assigned to the cleaning department and became a hotel cleaner because she had no work experience and professional knowledge, but she was still very happy and infected other staff with enthusiasm.

Someone asked her why she was always so happy, and she replied, "I put all the unhappy things at home and then put them at work when I got home, so I have always been happy."

Lively and active, humorous.

Just like the name "lively", they are lively and can hardly stop for a moment. Another feature of them is their sense of humor. This seems to be the best gift from God. It seems that it is God's task to make others laugh. Sharing happiness with others seems to be their greatest pursuit in life.

Lively people seem to know how to spread happiness by nature, and the same joke is especially funny when it comes to lively people.

Treat people warmly

Lively people are very enthusiastic. They are very kind to everyone. It is not an exaggeration to describe them with enthusiasm. They are usually not wary of people. If they know someone, they will soon become good friends with him. So their connections are also the best of the four personality types.

Like to show off

Lively types are usually literary activists, who like to use every opportunity to express themselves in life and work. As long as it is in a crowded place and in front of everyone, the most active way to speak and participate in interactive discussions is lively.

The purpose of their good performance is to gain recognition from others. Whenever a lively person hears compliments from others, he is always overjoyed.

Extended reading

Lively people like singing very much at ordinary times, and at the same time, they can easily become "Mai Ba", and they are unwilling to let go as soon as they catch the microphone. If friends in the same trade give them timely affirmation with warm applause and cheers, then they will definitely carry out "Mai Ba" to the end. Once the audience below can't get timely and enthusiastic feedback, they will get bored and will obediently hand over the control of the microphone.

Confidence given by others

People with lively personality are more confident, but the confidence of strength is different from that of liveliness. Self-confidence based on strength is innate, even if no one recognizes it, you will feel good about yourself. However, lively self-confidence needs to be built on the recognition of others. Under normal circumstances, they will attract others' attention with their distinctive clothes, funny talk and exaggerated performances. They are very concerned about what others say about them, because they usually gain confidence from others' praise.

curious

Among the four personalities, lively curiosity is the most important, and they will show great interest in anything unknown. One of their favorite words at ordinary times is: "Why?"

If you pretend to be mysterious and hesitate when communicating with lively people, you are in big trouble, because they will haunt you until you tell them the truth or the truth.

creativity

Because lively thinking is jumping, not easy to be bound and curious, it is always the most creative. If the company needs to use "brainstorming" to solve problems or find ideas, it's better to be more lively at the meeting, because their innovation is the most unimaginable.

What kind of proactive personality do you belong to (2)

unusual

Compared with people with other personalities, positive people care more about their appearance because they want to show themselves better in front of others. The purpose of doing this is to attract the attention of others and win their praise.

This is mainly reflected in their clothes. Lively people don't want to be like others when they buy clothes, but they just like uniqueness. Other "accessories" that can change the appearance of the body, such as business cards, mobile phones, bags, and even the names of QQ or MSN, are different and full of personality.

Poor memory, average.

Lively and active, the easily distracted temperament in lively personality hinders their memory, which is the worst of the four types. Generally speaking, if your customer comes out of his home or office, he will often find that he has neither this nor that, then he must be active. (Please note that this "feature" is something that the initiative will never admit! Usually they can only ask their colleagues for verification. )

situation

When I was a child, I saw an animated film called "No Brain, No Happiness". The personality characteristics of two of the little protagonists are very obvious. "Unhappy" is always self-centered and unwilling to listen to other people's well-meaning suggestions, which is a standard strong type. "No brain" is a typical lively personality, careless and careless. And "brainless" people always forget this and that, and even forget to design elevators when designing multi-storey buildings, which leads them and their children to climb upstairs to watch performances.

In real life, such people can be found everywhere. If you know from the personality self-test table that the most obvious feature of your personality is liveliness, reflect on it. Do you often forget to bring things every time you go out? Some people jokingly call the lively type "careless", that is to say, most of them are "careless, careless and fond of laughing."

Anticlimactic ―― like a lion

This should also be a negative personality characteristic of the positive type, because the positive type usually does things out of temporary interests and hobbies, and the purpose is not strong, let alone careful planning (the positive type often likes to say that "the plan can't keep up with the change"). Active people are often extremely excited and energetic when they start a job or a task. But when things get in the way, or they feel that things are not as interesting as expected, they will gradually lose interest in completing the task. If you encounter difficulties, you will probably give up halfway. When they are attracted by another interesting thing, they are likely to start another thing excitedly.

Lively work often has no long-term, and compared with people of other personalities, lively work changes frequently. Without a long-term job, it has also become the biggest "resistance" to starting a business.

exaggerate

Lively speeches like exaggeration. When they describe things, they like to embellish them.

After listening to the same concert, the lively type will say excitedly, "Today's concert is too noisy! It's a sea of people. It's packed! "

If the perfect type hears this sentence, it will sneer: "Not so much. I counted them. The entire venue has 1 * * 8000 seats, but the occupancy rate is less than 50%. There are only four thousand people at most, and the rest are empty. "

The awesome friend couldn't wait to tunnel: "Look, it's a good thing I didn't go!" " "

If you ask the peaceful type, they will say, "Not bad."

romanticism

Lively people spend most of their lives in romance-whether it is fantasy or reality, which is particularly prominent in their youth.

Let's take a look at the love views of four personalities, and we can understand their different attitudes towards romanticism.

Power-based understanding of love has always been categorical: "I never believe in love, I only believe in *!" "

Lively and poetic singing: "That thing ..."

Perfect serious tunnel: "marriage is the grave of love, divorce is awakening, remarriage is stubborn."

The peaceful one looks like an old monk who meditates: "Everything comes with fate."

summary

Lively people have an optimistic and positive attitude towards life. They are confident, lively and active, full of curiosity about everything and unlimited creativity.

In life, they like to be different in everything, like to express themselves very much, and don't miss every opportunity to express themselves. When you hear compliments from others, you will always be complacent.

Lively friends are the most, because they are passionate and humorous, and they are advocates of romanticism.

But they have poor memory, sloppy, anticlimactic and exaggerated questions, which makes people laugh and cry.