The first principle of confidentiality
Consultants should keep the inner secrets of visitors and properly keep personal information, correspondence, test materials and other materials. If you have to quote consulting cases due to special needs such as work, you must also properly handle the materials and not disclose the real name, unit or address of the visitors.
The second principle of understanding and support
Counselors should fully understand the language, actions and emotions of visitors, and should not judge right or wrong from the perspective of morality and personal value, but should help visitors analyze the reasons and find a way out.
Article 3 the principle of cultivating a positive attitude
The main purpose of consultants is to help visitors analyze problems, cultivate their positive mentality, establish their self-confidence, let their psychology grow and find their own solutions to problems.
Article 4 Principle of Time Limit
Psychological counseling must abide by certain time limits. The consultation time is generally about 45 minutes each time. In principle, the consultation time or interval cannot be extended at will.
Article 5 The principle of tourists' voluntary participation
Visitors to the psychological counseling room must be completely voluntary, which is the premise of establishing the relationship between counseling and visiting. A psychological counselor should not take the initiative to seek psychological counseling from him or her if he or she has no desire and requirement for psychological counseling. Only those who feel uncomfortable and worried about it, and are willing to talk to a counselor for psychological assistance, can solve the problem.
Article 6 the principle of emotional restriction
The key to the establishment of the relationship between consultants and visitors and the smooth development of consulting work lies in the psychological communication and closeness between consultants and visitors. But there are limits. Visitors' persuasion and requests, even if they are well-intentioned, should be rejected. Too close personal contact will not only make visitors know too much about the consultant's inner world and private life, but also hinder the self-expression of visitors, and it is easy for the consultant to say what he should say, thus losing the ability to judge things objectively and fairly.
Article 7 The principle of postponing major decisions
During psychological counseling, visitors are advised not to make important decisions such as retirement, changing jobs, dropping out of school, transferring schools, divorce, etc. In principle. After the consultation, the visitor's mood is settled, and the decision made after the mood is sorted out is often not easy to regret or go back on our word. This should be informed at the beginning of the consultation.