Self-esteem is to love yourself, not scum —— Reading Fang Siqi's First Love Paradise

Recently, in full view, a girl in Gansu committed suicide by jumping off a building.

The fireman cried bitterly, watching the crowd look coldly and saying vicious words at the same time.

The scene is so sad that I can't find the right words to evaluate it at the moment.

Looking at the news of Beijing Daily on June 26th, the Party Committee of Qingyang Education Bureau held a special meeting.

It was decided to transfer Wu, a teacher involved in the case of a girl jumping off a building in Qingyang, Gansu, from the education system and cancel her teacher qualification.

Whether jumping off a building is related to being molested by a teacher is still under investigation.

Since childhood, teachers have a positive image.

If anyone says that the teacher is not good, then this person may have a problem.

Growing up, I also heard some legends about unscrupulous teachers harassing girls:

Lend books to girls as an excuse, and then write love letters with notes;

Write "Your eyes are really beautiful" in the beautiful girl's composition book.

Of course, there are even more horrible legends, such as a girl who is pregnant because of a teacher.

And this kind of story, parents are stealing,

Children are not allowed to listen, let alone tell girls.

What should I do if I meet such a poor teacher?

Everyone thinks it's unfortunate just in case,

The teachers are fine and the children are safe.

That's it, just in case,

It turned into a tragedy after another.

Countless girls have fallen, leaving sighs and mysteries.

This spring, after the news that yang shen, a professor in Peking University, committed suicide with Gao Yan, a girl,

Li Yinhe, a famous scholar, interprets the psychological state of the victimized girls.

Explain the definition of sexual harassment abroad.

Li Yinhe strongly recommended Fang Siqi's First Love Paradise, saying that it was well written.

It is worth reading carefully by readers.

And the author of this book committed suicide shortly after writing the book.

The story in the book is based on herself.

13-year-old girl raped by a teacher.

Li Yinhe commented that from a sociological point of view,

This novel involves two major social problems: child sexual abuse and domestic violence.

From the perspective of pure literature,

Lin is awe-inspiring. She is an outstanding novelist.

It belongs to the type of "Heaven rewards diligence".

Fang Siqi's First Love Paradise has few characters.

Li Guohua, a Chinese cram school teacher,

Fang Siqi, Fang Siqi's best friend Liu Yiting,

Sister Ivy, who suffered from domestic violence,

A sanctimonious and violent man,

And Guo Xiaoqi, a little girl who was cheated into bed by her teacher.

This book reads slowly, like reading prose, like reading ancient prose,

Every period contains the author's feelings.

Throughout the book, I saw an elvish despair.

Siqi has a friend who is a beautiful sister.

Evian, a girl with literary dreams like Siqi.

After reading the whole book, you will feel that literature and art are actually Fang Siqi when you grow up.

Literature and art is a woman in Fang Siqi's fantasy, gentle and beautiful, but she can't get true love.

Fantasize about love in violence, and then let it burst.

This kind of imagination can be seen from Wen Yi's sister's letter to Qi.

Sister Evie said in her letter,

After reading this passage, all I see is ambivalence.

A girl with excellent literature, a girl who has no hope for life.

From the year when 13 was bullied by the teacher,

The older she grew up, the deeper her pain became.

No one can share such pain,

No one can comfort her with empathy.

And reading, you can't find the answer,

Taking keeping a diary as an exit,

When my best friend read this story in her diary,

I almost broke up with her and thought she shouldn't treat the teacher like that.

Talk to your mother. She thinks children are not involved in sex.

A high wall was erected around her to keep her out of the reasonable world.

The author's psychological description of Siqi in the book is actually a portrayal of the author's inner pain.

Yi Ting read in SiQi's diary:

When Li Guohua first pounced on Fang Siqi,

He said it was a way for the teacher to love her.

And Siqi, out of self-esteem, silently suffers psychological and physical pain.

I gradually imagine that this is probably what love looks like.

So there was a conversation between Fang Siqi and Li Guohua in a small hotel.

At this moment, in the author's mind, I already know that I am not a stupid child, and her relationship with Li Guohua is not a teacher-student relationship. Mentioning the love of these celebrities is only a kind of self-comfort, even a blasphemy against the above-mentioned celebrities.

Li Guohua just used the word love to fantasize and do nasty things.

Fang Siqi's self-esteem finally collapsed when she really found herself just a plaything of the teacher.

Besides taking Fang Siqi to a small hotel, several Guo Xiaoqi were taken to a small apartment in Li Guohua.

Let him humiliate.

Once the parents found out, the teacher refused to admit that the girl seduced him.

Allocate funds for your so-called talents.

Tread the girl's self-esteem on the ground unscrupulously.

Guo Xiaoqi is not dead. For psychological comfort, he slept all over the campus.

Posting a post on the Internet calling Li Guohua a scum.

But she eventually dropped out of school and sold breakfast with her parents.

She was besieged on the Internet, saying that she was the bad girl.

The way out for girls caught in the clutches of teachers is in Fang Siqi's book "First Love Paradise".

Living is ruined, waking up can't sleep, or simply dying.

Many girls who don't understand suicide think it's a mountain out of a molehill. What's the big deal? Didn't the teacher sleep with them? Isn't sleeping as common as eating and drinking water?

People who say such things are definitely not Fang Siqi's parents, nor Gao Yan's parents, because too many people can't empathize with such things.

Most of these girls who committed suicide were smart and beautiful girls.

Education from childhood is gentleness, respect and frugality, and these words appear many times in Fang Siqi's First Love Paradise.

She believes that the relationship between teachers and students is pure and love is sacred.

I intervened in the teacher's life and became a person I have always despised.

From saints to prostitutes, this is the collapse of their inner beliefs.

I can't stand the comments of myself and others.

In Fang Siqi's language, we can see such a language with collapsed belief.

Those girls who are victims, if they read this book,

You may feel that you have found a bosom friend,

Maybe I will expose myself bravely like the group of people who are "Me too".

I'm the victim, and I'm going to declare war on the scum teacher!

There is nothing wrong with educating children to be kind since childhood, but kindness does not mean cowardice.

In Lin Yutang's novel Clouds in Beijing, Yao Mulan is brave and kind, and hates evil.

Dare to risk his life to find a pervert to save Kong Lifu from danger.

Mochow felt sad and humiliated, and finally found happiness.

During the Republic of China, society did not progress as it does now.

People can tolerate all kinds of unfair experiences of girls,

In modern society, many people help each other.

There are not many people who jump off the building to see the coldness.

People tend to have such inertial thinking,

For example, a girl who was raped by a mob in a remote path seems to be particularly worthy of sympathy.

And being tricked into bed by a bad teacher and saying something poetic to cover it up,

It seems that this girl deserves it, and she can't tell who seduced whom.

In fact, among the bad guys, there is no professional distinction.

When a teacher becomes a rapist, he is no longer a teacher.

But like other criminals, just because you are literate,

How noble.

So the victim is actually the same, not violated by a literate teacher.

This shows how retarded you are.

It's all the feeling of being bitten by a dog The dog should be dead, not you.

Only by living bravely can we see the day when the bad guys are brought to justice.

Only by living bravely can you meet true love and control your own happiness.

Parents should pay more attention to their children's movements.

In Fang Siqi's First Love Paradise,

The girl has been targeted by the devil teacher since 13 years old.

It was not until I graduated from college that my parents found out about it.

Visible is how dereliction of duty! Guo Xiaoqi's parents,

Leading girls to confront their teachers turns out to be something wrong.

There is no such thing as a bear.

While educating children to take responsibility,

Parents should learn to take responsibility.

Educate girls to be brave, educate sons to respect women,

The more self-discipline, the less in case.

Author Li Yanbo

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